Hillary Does NOT Put on Southern Accent- Press Makes It Up! Instead Hillary Shows Warmth and Charm

There is nothing more that irks me than when I see my fellow journalists getting on the bandwagon and make things up just for the sensationalism and to get a headline that attracts eyeballs. As I have said countless times, I am NOT  a political person. I  ONLY report things as I see them from a body language and communication standpoint, not a political standpoint. That is why when I read the headline “Hillary Puts on A Southern Accent” I had to speak up.

As a person who is well versed in accent and dialects having taught a large number of A list Hollywood actors how to gain various accents for specific movie roles as well as how to lose accents, I can assure you Hillary DID NOT put on a Southern accent during her recent interview in the South.

What she did do, is something,I suggested she do in my last blog about her, when she did her first campaign speech. That was to use more vocal inflection and get rid of that stiff staccato tone and flow out her tones. She incorporated what I suggested  this new etah interview.

What not knowledgeable  journalists in the area of voice, speech, accents, and communication skills  like Shoshanna Weissmann reported as Hillary having an accent,was simply Hillary using great communication skills for the very first time.

She was warm, flowing in her tones , smiled genuine smiles and was not as stiff as she usually is when speaking. Her  gestures

Her gestures were much better but she still used the off- putting finger point which is very alienating to those listening to her. She needs to put a top to using that gesture and only use it whenever she is angry. Finger pointing  with the index finger extended towards someone is a universal signal that is used around the world to express  Anger.

As you can see Hillary is smiling. She is not angry. She is talking about things that are not anger proucting so she needs to stop this gesture.

Then she used another gesture which she also needs to lose. It is the hand balled into a fit with the thumb extended that all Presidents and Presidential hopefuls used to get their points across.

It is a stupid gesture who’s origins date back to the Kennedy era whereby some ignorant speech coach told JFK to use it and unfortunately it has stuck. It is a gesture  that makes no sense in my view because it shows incongruency.  For instance a fist shows anger. A thumb up shows things are good. So what this stupid gesture says in reality is ” I am angry things are good.” It makes no sense and Hillary needs to lose it asap.

The next inappropriate gesture she needs to lose is the karate chop gesture when she speaks. It doesn’t work and makes no sense in terms of what she was discussing- running for her first term and not her husband’s third term. It is an angry gesture that is alienating and reflects that she is angry that people may assume she is continuing her husband’s and Obamas’s terms as she mentioned.

So my fellow journalists, my message to you is STOP SPINNING IT! Report what you see and hear that is accurate. Do not report what you don’t see and hear in hopes of getting a nationally read story. When you do  this, like was done here, you lose your credibility. That is why the public  so often doesn’t believe what they read from journalists. The public is  not dumb. They know that there is spin like the spin that was demonstrated here. No Southerner or Northerner, Easterner or Westerner would ever agree there was a Southern accent put on by Hillary. It is false reporting and makes you, fellow journalist, look bad.

And for Hillary, my advice to you is to stop making wrong gestures- misleading gestures. Instead stay real and genuine like you did during this speech when you spoke. Show that vocal warmth with lots of inflection in your tones to express what you want to say. Smile like you have done as it is very inviting and makes people want to hear what you have to say.

Phoniness will not work in this election. People want real  gestures that match what is said. They don’t want choreographed or contrived speeches and rhetoric and gestures.  Being honest, sincere and genuine  is universal language of today.

Khloe Kardashian and Lamar Odom’s Body Language Says If Khloe Pays More Attention To Her Blackberry Than Lamar, She’ll Lose Him

KHLOE AND LAMAR IN MY MONTHLY COSMO COLUMN

I have purposely held off blogging about Khloe Kardashian and Lamar Odom until after

my monthly column in the December issue of Cosmopolitan hit the stands which it just did. In it I talk about the “Real Story: of Khloe and Lamar Odom on page 58. I discuss their body language and how their whirlwind romance shows signals that they were far from the perfect match.

KHLOE AND LAMAR’S BODY LANGUAGE WHEN THEY WERE JUST DATING

When I looked at photos of Khloe and Lamar when they were just dating I saw Lamar with a half smile and a lot of jaw tension. He never seemed to look at Khloe. His body language clearly said that he was not really that into her. He definitely did not show body language signals of a man in love.

Likewise. Khloe’s body language didn’t show signs of a woman in love. She appeared distant and awkward around Lamar. It was uncomfortable to look at the photos of them together. There was a stiffness and an uneasiness with both of them..

At first I thought, well maybe they are just getting to know one another. I thought that even though Lamar is a huge basketball star, he’s probably not used to the intense paparazzi scrutiny that comes with hanging around with a Kardashian .

But as time went on, he hardly looked at her in any of the photos. His body consistently leaned away. She also never looked happy. She never smiled a bright smile or had that excited that you see in new lovers where all the endorphins are dancing around in their systems.

THIS MUST BE A PR PLOY

My first instinct was they probably hooked up and this is some type of PR thing for her TV Show. I figured it was some ploy cooked up by Ryan Seacrest. who produces her show, to keep people interested in her and the show.
I thought that it gives her PR mileage that she is dating a Laker and it certainly gives him mileage that he is now on the PR map just by his association with Khloe. I thought it was a great PR move for both of them. Because of that I also thought that it wouldn’t be long until we heard about some type of scandal and a huge breakup. I thought the whole PR stunt would probably last two or three weeks.

WHAT?????? GETTING MARRIED!!!!! WHY????

Was I ever surprised that in week three Khloe announced that she was getting married to Lamar. At first I thought that this was wishful thinking on her part. Lamar was with his high school sweetheart baby mama with whom he had an 8 year old and a 5 year as well as a baby who would now have been 3 had he not tragically died of Sudden Infant death Syndrome when he was 61/2 months old. They had been together for 12 years. With a history like that I figured that there was no way Lamar would jump into a marriage only after 3 weeks. But I was wrong.

PREGNANT?

At first I thought she must be pregnant. But they had only been dating for three weeks. That may not have been enough time for her to miss a period or to even realize she was pregnant.

LAMAR FALLING OUT WITH HIGH SCHOOL SWEETHEART BABY MAMMA?

Then I thought that he must have had a falling out with his baby mamma and this may have been some sort of a rebound thing. But after hearing that baby mamma Lisa Morales report that things were going along fine with them and that she was as shocked as everyone else that he was tying the knot with Khloe, then I realized that it wasn’t a rebound thing.

DESPERATION ON KHLOE’S PART

Then I thought that must poor girl is so desperate she would do anything to secure a man who paid her any attention. We found out later from Khloe’s mamma Chris Jenner, that Lamar was indeed her daughter’s first beau. Wonder if he was her first lover as well. It certainly is a possibility. After Khloe was not the most popular Kardashian sister when it came to the boys. Unlike her sisters, you never saw her having a boyfriend on the show or in real life for that matter.

She seemed like the odd woman out and she was. She was much bigger and taller than her sisters and not in a bad way either in my opinion. She was proportional and beautiful like her sisters but she was double the size of them.

So when she stood next to them she looked a heavy giant next to them and people commented. This no doubt did not help her self esteem issues.

WHEN IS IT GONNA BE MY TURN?

While I am sure these sisters love on another one cannot help but wonder about sibling rivalry with her ever popular gorgeous sister Kim and her now pregnant sister Kourtney. Both sisters had long term boyfriends while Khloe didn’t have any man to lover her up. Perhaps that played havoc on her psyche. Like Cinderella, she may have wondered when and if her Prince would ever come.

Maybe it was the fact that Khloe had no life of her own that she got involved in other people’s lives so intensely. On the show she appeared as the feisty bitch sister who was in everyone’s business,. She was actually downright nasty and sarcastic and way too judgmental. She had an opinion about everyone and everything and most of her options were negative.

ACTING OUT AND DUI

While watching the show,” Keeping Up With the Kardashians,” I remember thinking that she need a boyfriend to get her mind of everyone else’s life and focus more on her own. Her outward negativity and nastiness were clearly acting out the emptiness and low self esteem she must have been feeling inside. In fact, we saw her acting out when she made the news and got a DUI.

STRAIGHTENING UP HER ACT AFTER CELEBRITY APPRENTICE

She seemed to straighten up after her DUI and after she appeared on Celebrity Apprentice. Maybe the Donald Trump set her straight. In any event, I thought she did a good job on the show and I was impressed with how well she handled herself with celebs who were much older more experienced than her. It was no doubt her successful experience on Donald’s show gave her a more a more positive view on life and more self confidence, which she desperately needed.

MAKING HIM AN OFFER HE COULDN’T REFUSE

Then Khloe meets her Prince Charming Lamar Odom. She was looking hot and really started to feel good about herself which was a key factor in why Lamar had some interest as I am sure that he found this appealing.
For the first time in her life, Khloe’s size worked for her. Her 5’10 large frame to Lamar; 6’10 was no doubt a physical turn on to the both of them. No doubt, she he felt and looked petite. next to him. She looked and felt little and not super imposing as she did around her sisters, It made her feel more feminine which was yet another boost to her fragile sense of self.
From Lamar’s point of view, it’s always easy for a huge guy to find a good physical fit. For many supersize taller guys, it feels more physically comfortable to be intimate with a woman who is nearer to their size than not. So a tall thicker and curvier Khloe was as a goof physical fit making their intimate moments an even better fit. So, no doubt that was a big turn on for Lamar.

Also he was attracted to her physical looks as she very much resembled his baby mamma and longtime girlfriend Liza Morales .

They really didn’t have a lot to say or a lot in common after the sex part so As Khloe reported in the media they stayed in bed all day and did nothing and just watched TV. No doubt Khloe has her trusty Blackberry in bed with them and texted between watching TV with Lamar, having sex, and doing nothing.

IN THE HEAT OF PASSION YOU’LL SAY ANYTHING

Khloe was no doubt thrilled that for the first time in her life, she was actually able to spend time doing nothing with a man and be in bed with him, let alone have sex with him. Lamar I am sure was taken by the newness as well and really enjoying their sexual liaison a lot.

So I wouldn’t doubt that in the heat of the moment, Khloe heard words she never heard in her life. These words which came from Odom’s lips while in the throes of his lovemaking were something like “Ohh baby I love you, This feels so good, I could do this forever.”

Khloe, beyond thrilled and looked right into his eyes and said :Me too baby, I want to be with you the rest of my life.” Then the two no doubt ended their liason with the best possible sexual results. As soon as Lamar left their intimate embrace to go to the bathroom Khloe grabbed her Blackberry and texted Chris with a message that most likely read: Mom he asked me to marry him. I said Yes” Then she texted her sisters with the same message.

As soon as Lamar got back into bed to watch TV and do nothing Khloe tells him she is so excited about spending the rest of her life with him, He probably isn’t paying much attention because he is now more focused on TV and watching the basketball game so with a deaf ear says :yeah, yeah baby, Good, Now I just wannna watch this game for a bit OK.”

Khloe was cool with that as she had a lot more texting to do. No doubt the next text was to her producer of “Keeping Up With the Kardashians” Ryan Seacrest. Being the entrepreneurial little genius that he has become he most likely said, “Let’s make your wedding as part of the show. It’ll be a huge extravaganza.” She loved it!

LAMAR GOES ALONG FOR THE RIDE
Days pass and Khloe seems to have a little more energy instead of being so laid back and doing nothing, around him When he overheard her talking on the phone with her mom and sisters about wedding plans he wonders what’s up and asks which sister is getting married, When he finds out it that she is the sister, he turns ashen
After realizing that there may be an upside to this such as: all his newfound fame drawing more attention to his previously failed clothing line and the fact that he will be getting some serious bucks from media outlets exclusively filming and taking photos of the nuptials. He also figures he is attracted to Khloe in that she looks like Liza except without all the history. It’s a fresh clean start and besides Khloe is young enough to start having babies with. Also there is a prenup and he knows he’s got the best attorneys in town to cover his behind.

Although he goes with the flow and with the program, his body says “get me the hell out of here!”You can see it in every single photograph with the two of them. You can see the half smile and the stiffness and the lack of close physical contact that would expect from to lovebirds. He looks like he is going to his execution rather than to his wedding.

DURING THE CEREMONY

His wedding walk to the alter says it all. The body doesn’t lie! He looks like a dead man walking. He looks like he is on death row ready to get his last rights before getting a lethal injection.

DURING THE WEDDING CELBRATION

Lamar is even in shell shock during the celebration. Look at how stiff and uncomfortable they both ar. There should be no distance between any couple who just shared their vows, They should be hugging and kissing and all over each other.

POST WEDDING CELEBRATION

So the party is over and everyone is gone. Khloe dons something more comfortable- purple workout gear. Lamar is still in his wedding suit with tie askew, He gives his new bride a piggyback ride, Awww isn’t that sweet? It could be if Khloe was paying more attention to him and held him with her hands, instead of holding the Blackberry and texting on the most special day during her most special moment with her most special man.

KHLOE’S BLACKBERRY ADDICTION IS RUINING THEIR MARRIAGE

It is exactly a month since these two have ties the knot in a huge ceremony which took place November 3, 2009. It is about two weeks since the all the prenup details were ironed out and about a week since they made a down payment on a house and the honeymoon is clearly over!

Had Lamar spent more than 3 weeks with Khloe and not gone along with the flow he would have saved himself a lot of money and aggravation. He would have seen that Khloe most likely has a Crackberry addiction to her Blackberry. His case exemplifies why marrying anyone only after knowing them for three weeks is a bad idea.

Of course there are people who have done it and have even lived out their entire lives together, but this is the exception rather than the rule in this day and age. Khloe used the excuse that her mom Chris met Bruce Jenner and married him after three weeks. But her mom was previously married and Bruce wasn’t her first boyfriend. She was also not in her 20’s. She was a grown mature woman with kids and knew what she was doing.

It takes time to get to know someone’s habits and quirks. Some you can live with and others are deal breakers. This one is obviously going to be a deal breaker in the long run.

PUBLIC ARGUMENTS ARE THE FIRST SIGN A MARRIAGE WILL END

No matter how they spin it, this photo of Lamar’s and Khloe’s body language speaks volumes and tell the whole story. She is paying more attention to her Blackberry and he is pissed!
An eyewitness was quoted as saying the following as was reported on perezhilton.com and in other outlets:
“Lamar caused a huge scene. He got jealous because Khloe was texting at the table and he yelled at her to quit it. She refused, so he stormed off and sat alone at the bar. Khloe just ignored him…
He went and sat at the bar and watched TV by himself. Khloe was with her best friend [Malika Hagg] and the poor girl was totally stuck in the middle.”
The source reveals that there was no “kiss and make up” moment for the young couple.
And after some failed attempts to reconcile them by Khloe’s BF, Lamar left in a huff without ever speaking to Khloe.
Adds the source, “Everyone thought Lamar had left but then he pulled around front in his SUV and the girls went out and jumped in.

KHLOE IS IN DENIAL FOR HER CRACKBERRY ADDCITION
Khloe is going to blow this marriage big time because she is clearly in denial. Here is what she posted on her Twitter page regarding the incident:
“Im so tired of all these crazy rumors that Lamar n I r fighting!” page today. “Come on people the honey moon phase is the best! I love being married!’

A REALITY CHECK FOR YOU KHLOE

Well Khloe my dear, if you love being married and want to stay married get your blinders off and you head out of the sand. Open your eyes and see what IS not what ISN’T . What IS is that you are pissing off your husband and he is getting totally turned off with you because you are spending more time being a yenta on your Blackberry then spending time getting to know and paying your undivided attention to your man.

So if you keep it up here’s a reality check for you. He will get more and more pissed at you. He will come to resent your lack of attention. He will look at this as your being selfish and will be turned off to you in every way even sexually.

Then he will succumb to one or more of the many women who will most likely throw themselves at him after a Lakers game who wait outside the locker room. He may say, what the heck, my wife isn’t there for me and probably won’t notice or care anyway- she’s more into her Blackberry.

Then on road trips it will become easier and easier for him to cheat on you as he has completely emotionally distanced himself from you. So Khloe if you are addicted to your Crackberry be addicted when you aren’t around Lamar. In the meantime take care of your man! If you are doing something that pisses him off, respect that and stop it before it is too late. Trust me, he is not going to put up with it!

I were advising Lamar I would tell him to get an annulment asap and give you nothing in that pre nup because it would be null and void. I would tell him that if you are showing these signs so early on- after only a month- signs of selfishness and self absorption is not going to get better with time. It will get worse. I would tell him to run away from you like his hair was on fire- of he had hair! http://www.drlillianglass,com

Bill O’Reilly’s Body Language Shows He Wasn’t Too Thrilled Seeing Himself Parodied As Hostile In Your Face Sesame Puppet – “Spill O Reilly”

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Bill O Reilly was definitely not smiling at all when he met his doppelganger, the new Sesame Street puppet “Spill O’ Reilly,” who appeared on his show. In fact Bill’s BODY LANGUAGE indicated that he looked rather shocked at the Sessame Street puppet who mocked him spot on. Bill O’Reilly is only used to people fauwning over him, kissing up to him, or agreeing with him when they appear on his show, otherwise he lets them have it and goes off on them. So this situation was extremely uncomfortable for him as his facial language, body language, and tone of voice indicated throughout the segment. He clearly wasn’t used to anyone mocking him with such accuracy and it freaked him out!

As soon as puppet “Spill O Reilly” pops up in the guest chair across from Bill O’ Reilly, the first thing you hear Bill off camera saying is “WOW!” in a tone that indicates he is taken aback with what he sees. Maybe he is put off by the familiar little tuft of hair the puppet’s head, complete with a sidepart.

Then Bill hears the puppet’s loud, harsh sounding voice as the puppet obnoxiously shows his ego and says, while looking directly into the camera “ Where’s My camera? “ The puppet then beckons to the camera,” Come here ! Come! Close in ! using Bill O’ Reilly like command terms.

Then the puppet says in a loud obnoxious tone “This is My show! Welcome to Duh No Spew Zone! I’m Spill O Reilly. Then in mirroring Bill O’ Reilly’s body language, Spill O Reilly agressiviely extends his arm out in front of him and in O’Reilly like blue collar sounding diction, dropping off his” ing” endings and substituting his t and d sounds for th sounds, says:
”Now I know lately deres been controversey about Grouches on Sesame Street makin fun uh Fox News but I wancha ta know as a proud thridy somthin flag waving Grouch, I can tell ya dis” We Grouches are todally unbiased. We are faya (fair) and BALANCED (shouting loudly) completely non partisan. But cha wanna know da trut (truth) about us Grouches? Dis is itWE CANT STAND ANYBODY!

Bill is visibly taken aback as he leans back in his chair and is shock at what he hears and sees of himself being parodied.

Then the real Bill immediately licks his lips in discomfort. He is clearly not the star of this segment and doesn’t like what he sees.

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Bill then looks down as a showing of embarrassment and discomfort Then Spill O Reilly shouts out “WE CAN’T STAND ANYBODY! YOU ALL DRIVE IS CRAZY

Now Bill is REALLY ANGRY (Grouchy) and you can see the anger in his eyes and his lips and he licks them again indicating that his mouth is getting dry because he is really uncomfortable.

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Bill so completely shocked that his jaw open wide to indicate his shock over seeing an exaggerated version of himself in puppet form.

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Then puppet Spill promotes his book which Bill constantly does on his show and you hear the real Bill chuckling in the background off camera. But it is not a happy chuckle. It is a forced phony and uncomfortable chuckle as Spill says “ Buy my book now ! It’s a stinky pile of rotten Grouchiness.” Buy it or don’t whadda I care!”

There is no doubt that the real O’ Reilly is uncomfortable with this parody too close to the bone as he sees himself up close and personal and clearly does not like what he sees. We then continue to see Bill O ‘Reilly’s discomfort on his facial expression as he says to puppet Spill t O Reilly “ You’re a little aggressive there.” The puppet responds in a loud aggressive tone WHADDAYA MEAN? O Reilly Replies “You’re in people’s faces.

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The puppet Spill’s body language, with his wide open mouth and outstretched aggressive hand and finger angrily pointed directly at his lookalike Bill’ O Reilly says “ARE YOU SAYING IM IN YOUR FACE?”

Then we see the real Bill O” Reilly fighting back with the puppet as he now points his finger in the puppets face as the puppet he answers “Yeah” Bill is so unhinged by all of this that he feels he must change the subject to take the stink off of himself. He then says to puppet Spill” You know who you remind me of? —Barney Frank It is quite obvious that Bill can’t stand that the resemblance to him and the parody is so close to the bone, It disturbs him so much, that he shifts the his discomfort over by saying it’s not him who acts so obnoxiously, its Barney Frank!

Then as the segment comes to a close, Bill further shows his discomfort in an attempt to regain his edge by cutting Spill down and telling Spill that he needs a new tie and jacket But Spill regains the winning edge with his final words to Bill. Looking at his clothing, Spill asks Bill is if he can borrow his stylist. Then in pure comedic fashion, showing that he is truly a star in his own right, Spill examines his underarms and shares with Bill and with the audience that he has “stained himself .”So there you have it!

Even though Bill O Reilly’s parting words were “We’re very flattered!”Bill was clearly unflatterd! His choice the word “we’re” along with the monotone in which he said his parting phrase indicated that NOT flattered by Spill in the least. Bill used the word “We’re flattered as opposed to saying “I’m flattered” as a way of distancing himself from Spill. He also said it in a serious monotone- further indication that he was not flattered by seeing himself portrayed as a loud mouthed obnoxious, in your face, aggressive, tuft of hair side parted, ill dressed puppet named Spill O’Reilly. Sometimes the truth is shocking- especially when you see it so up close and personal. http://www.drlillianglass.com

While the Reality Show is Finally Over for Jon and Kate, The Real Life Show Just Began For the Kids- Get Them Into Therapy NOW!

KATE’S OVER THE TOP DRAMA

When you hear the words “It was cut short too soon, “ you usually hear them in the context of discussing a ”human life.” You hear it in talking about a 5 year old with leukemia who just took his last breath in your arms. You hear it at the funeral of a beautiful teenager who got killed in a car accident because of a drunk driver. Both of these horrific incidents merit the words “cut too short too soon”- not a television show coming to an end. Those were not the words to use because it is not accurate.

This show was NOT “cut too short too soon.” It came to an end and the timing is perfect. Who wants to watch a show about bickering parents with so much awful tension between them? Who wants to watch a short tempered verbally and even physically abusive mother give her kids bad advice ( ie. telling Leah to tell her classmate who saw her on TC that she didn’t want to talk about it). Who wants to watch a confused dad with loser friend (Michael Lohan) making horrible decisions (womanizing) and self destructing (chain smoking and drinking). If TLC knew these things about anyone they would never have given them a show.

Those kids need a life away from the camera. They need to be kids and they don’t need their personal business broadcast all over the world for everyone to see. At this stage in their development being on camera would have caused them more harm than good.

THE GOOD SIDE OF THE SHOW FOR THE KIDS

There is no doubt that the show gave these kids and this family an opportunity to make money and to travel and do things that they would not ordinarily get to do. But now that they have earned a lot of money from the show and from books, and lectures, they can use that money to travel and continue to do things to enhance their lives. But this time, they need to do it off camera.

Those kids are beautiful, bright, precious, wonderful little souls. There is no doubt that it was wonderful watching them grow into who they are today, But enough! Now let them be and let them live!

SADDENED BY HOW JON AND KATE DIDN’T GIVE THERAPY OR COUNSELING A CHANCE

After watching this final show I was really sad. But I wasn’t sad because the show had ended. I was sad for several other reasons. First of al, l I was sad that these two stupid parents who should worship the fact that God blessed them with 8 normal healthy beautiful souls, were willing to throw it all away WITHOUT giving it a chance with therapy.

While therapy is no guarantee that a marriage will work, you at least have to give it a try! I have seen lives transform and marriages that were just hanging on by a thread not only survive, but flourish because of therapy.

These kids need 2 parents. They need the balance of both of them. They don’t deserve the ugliness that happened between Jon and Kate. These kids knew exactly what was happening between their parents. They felt it and they could see it in their parent’s faces and body language every day.

Jon was an idiot to say he “despised” Kate and Kate was an idiot to abuse Jon and humiliate him. All that back and forth for so many months was horrific! What kind of example does that set for the kids? What these two selfish creatures did will have lasting repercussions psychologically. Those children will suffer immensely unless they get help in the form of therapy.

Dr Phil could have been a good influence in Jon and Kate’s life. He may have even saved their marriage for all we know. After all, he saved Oprah so who’s to say he couldn’t save Jon and Kate? Kate with all her narcissism and self absorption took to Dr. Phil. So perhaps he could get through to her and to Jon. That was a bad decision on Jon’s part to not let Dr. Phil intervene- even if it was on TV. What’s the difference? They went on TV anyway airing their dirty laundry to people who couldn’t help them. This way they could have gone on TV and aired their dirty laundry to someone who could help them. Instead, these two clowns made their lives into a circus. Who could ever respect either of them for what they did in front of those kids?

SADDENED BY BAD PARENTING

The fact that they have not put these kids into therapy is horrible! It is bad parenting ! And speaking of bad parenting, the last show was filled with Kate’s bad parenting! It was abusive and nauseating. Thank God we won’t ever have to watch her abusing those kids again. But in a way it may have been a good thing seeing them on the air, because it allowed us to keep a watchful eye on Kate . Now we can only pray those kids won’t continue to be abused by Kate.

SADDENEDN BY ADAN BEING VERBALLY ABUSED AND NAUSEATED WHEN HE WAS TOLD TO “ACT LIKE A MAN!”

I hated how Kate treated Adan. I hated how she said those kids were whining when they were walking to their neighbor’s farm to milk the cows. You can’t walk a mile as a child if you aren’t used to it. Your feet will hurt and you will get tired and sore. Those kids were tired and sore. That is why they were whining! They were uncomfortable! Let any adult who hasn’t walked a mile in a while do it and see if they don’t get tired and whiney.

Her abusive hostile harsh tones to precious Adan sickened me . There was no need to scold him. He didn’t do anything bad. No wonder this little guy looks so stiff and tense in his body language all the time and his face is so serious and worried so much of the time . He is no doubt, in fear that Kate is going to give him hell for the slightest infraction, so he tries to tow the line.

When she said to Adan “BE A MAN YOU’RE FIVE ! DON’T CRY BE A MAN! I wanted to scream in her face “ BE A LOVING MOTHER NOT A BITCH ! IF YOUR LITTLE BOY CAN’T CRY BECAUSE HE’S HURT OR UNCOMFORTABLE- THEN YOU, KATE DON’T CRY YOUR PHONY TEARS FOR THE CAMERA! BE A WOMAN! BUCK UP! How would you like it if you were spoken to like you spoke to Adan?

What she said to Adan was clear projection ! Those are exactly the words she wanted to say to Jon” BE A MAN- BUCK UP!” But say those words to Jon. Don’t say them to a little boy and traumatize him. Those words were to be said to Jon not a sweet child who didn’t want to walk because he wasn’t used to it and his little feet hurt him.

Her insensitivity made me livid! There is no doubt that this type of behavior is a sure fire way to emotionally scar and mess up a child! Not allowing a child to express his emotions is abusive! You are training him to repress what is natural and what he feels. He could turn those emotions inward and get seriously ill as studies have shown. Or he could turn those emotions outward and really act out inappropriately. None of this is good and it falls on your shoulders in terms of how poorly you are training him.

SADDENED AND DISGUSTED BY HER DISCUSSING OF THE BOY’S AND THEIR UDDER ISSUES

You could really see the disdain and disgust in Kate’s face as she talks about the boys and their “udder issues.” No doubt,in her sarcastic tone she was talking about their penis issues as she says “I’m not ready to deal with that.” Well Kate you better be ready to deal with that and stop making everything bad, dirty and nasty and icky! Boys are great! They Are Not Icky!

SADDENED BY THE KIDS NOT BEING ALLOWED TO HOLD AND CARRESS THE KITTY

I hated what happened with the kitten and the children and how Kate selfishly wouldn’t let them hold the kitten . To me it looked like she was hanging on to that kitty, not because she liked it, but because she may have thought it made her look good and loving and compassionate when the TV cameras were rolling. In fact at the end, she dismissed the cat like it was the prop that it was for her as she said matter of factly “we’re mot taking the cat home.”

Those kids were so precious and loving around the kitten. They weren’t hurting the kitten. Not allowing them to hold the kitten was mean (Mady’s words)and cruel on her part. Those little girls were a screaming at the top of their lungs as Kate selfishly took the cat away from them. They weren’t hurting the cat, they were tenderly loving it and Kate destroyed their moment.

SAD THAT KATE MAY CONTINUE TO COLLAPSE ANGER ON THESE KIDS

It was awful to see Kate alone with those kids. She took the joy out of any situation with them, harping on them all the time and now allowing them to just BE! When we used to see her with Jon, he was the buffer. She took things out on him, so she didn’t have to take things out on the kids. Now that he is out of the picture, those poor kids may no doubt get the direct effects of Kate’s hostility.

No matter what you say about Jon, he is a loving and affectionate daddy. The kisses and hugs are so important to the kid’s psyches and to their emotional development. Hopefully his love will cancel out the effects of Kate’s harshness and nastiness towards them.

He better fight for joint custody of those kids and not be selfish. They need him desperately! He can’t leave them alone with Kate all the time. Then they will be completely messed up! This way they at least have a chance. While he is an eff up in his personal life, he is not an eff up around the kids. Kate is an eff up around the kids- a mean (Mady;s words) and nasty one. I hate how she talks to them, I hate the sarcasm and snide comments and remarks and I hate the tone of voice she uses to them.

SAD THAT WHAT HAPPENED TO JON MAY HAPPEN TO MANY OF THE KIDS

And no Jon doesn’t get a free pass but he gets some kind of a pass for having the crap bet out of him emotionally and for being physically abused with” love slaps. Yes he was much like the kids in that he didn’t speak up and set boundaries. He could as an adult but the kids can’t as kids.

When he finally spoke out, he spoke through doing all kinds of self destructive things, This may very well happen to many of the kids when they do eventually speak out, after being verbally abused and physically abused by Kate. I hate to think about it! That is why they all need therapy so badly.

Mady is speaking out NOW . As we watched the show for the past 5 seasons, we couldn’t understand why she was always so upset and rebellious. Now we fully understand. She was reacting to Kate, no doubt.

SADDENED AND SICKENED BY JON’S COMMENT ABOUT PUTTING HIS KIDS OUT THERE FOR PEDOPHILES
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But back to Jon. It just came out through disgusting Michael Lohan’s secret audio taping of his buddy Jon, that Jon said to his best friend, “Toxic father Brutus Lohan” that "I put my kids out there to every pedophile on the planet and they never got paid for it." It is horrific enough that this private conversation was taped, but even more horrific that Jon actually spoke these words! He and Kate were clearly pimping those kids out and now he admitted it. Thank God they are off the air so they won’t be pimped any longer.

SADDENED BY BLINDED KATE LOVERS BLINDNESS TO HER ABUSIVE BEHAVIOR

And for you blinded Kate lovers, if you cannot see through her abuse and nastiness and still love her and see het doing no wrong, like I said in earlier blogs, you are identifying with her for some reason. Either your man did to you what Jon did to her, or you are like her personality -wise. Being a bitch and abusing others is not being a strong woman, In fact, It is being a very weak woman with a weak character.

There another reason you can’t see past her egregious behavior. It has to do with scientific research, that was conducted back in the in the 1970’s. Studies found that those who are physically attractive are perceived as being more successful, kinder, sexier friendlier and even less guilty of committing a crime.

That’s right, I am talking about classic studies where people were shown photos of two people and told they committed the identical crime. Those who were perceived as being more attractive, got off scot free. That is what many of you blinded Kate lovers have done here. You have given her the free pass and let her get away with her crime of verbal and physical abuse “ scott free”

There is no question that Kate is now physically beautiful – especially when you see earlier photo of her. She was cute in the earlier seasons, but now she is stunning. Objectively speaking, she is in great physical shape, ( thanks to a trainer and to Hailey Glassman’s daddy) she is now stylish in her dress, and even though her hair 1960’s do has become a joke visa Halloween wig, it does look cute on her. Her face is proportional as is her small nose and her large blue eyes are absolutely beautiful .S he has a beautiful large white shiny teeth a a lovely smile.

But when all that sarcasm comes out of her mouth and abuse and yelling it’s not lovely. She turns from being beautiful to being UGLY as sin. If you could get past her looks, you would not be giving her a free pass.

SADDENED AND MADDENED BY KATE’S DENIAL AND VICTIM ROLE ON THE COUCH

Hearing Kate’s last words as she sat on the couch talking about missing Jon in the driver’s seat and that she should be in the passenger seat I wanted to vomit. The reason Jon and Kate they are no longer is because it was literally only Kate in the driver’s seat throughout their entire relationship. She was in control and no one was allowed to drive that relationship but her.

So on the couch, once again she played poor victim Kate with the tears and stilted speech (wonder if she was being fed with a microphone through an earpiece again) Then she self justifies by saying “I never wanted this, I wanted People to step up. What people???? Why don’t you speak the truth and stop pussyfooting around and “deal with things.” You wanted JON to step up- not PEOPLE!

SADDENED BY JON AND KATE NOT THANKING GOD FOR THEIR 8 BLESSINGS AND GETTING THEM INTO THERAPY

Now that the show as we know it has come to end, and the divorce will soon come to an end, there is a good chance Jon will finally step up! But you Both need to step away from the limelight and the cameras and tend to the precious gifts God blessed you with. They are more important than any show or any episode!

Get them into therapy immediately ! Kate, stop being so mean (Mady’s words) to your kids! God gave you kids to love and to treat with kindness and affection, not to yell at and to verbally and physically abuse. There are other ways you can keep them in line. Watch Nanny 911 or Super Nanny.

You can change up your image and look pretty all you like, but always know that “pretty is as pretty does.” You need to ACT as pretty as you LOOK around these kids. Don’t continue to show them the ugliness we witnessed for the past 5 seasons! Be a good mother and get yourself and the kids into therapy while there is still some hope! And Jon- here we definitely agree with Kate on this one- GROW UP! MAN UP! AND STEP! And while you are at it get yourself into therapy as well. http://www.drlillianglass.com

Body Language of ALL Gosselin Sextuplets on Playground Show Terrible Sadness. They Need Therapy NOW!

These photos of the Gosselin  Sextuplets haunt me! They clearly show is what happens when you are ”mean” (Mady’s words), rule children with an iron fist, constantly reprimand them and harp on them for the smallest infraction, like having spots on their clothes and not allowing them to be kids and get dirty and explore. This is what happens when children see their mother bitching out their dad all the time and belittling him, and showing them that their dad is not to be respected, because he can never do anything right. This is what happens when kids feel the horrific tension between mom and dad, when they don’t have other relatives in their life to bond with, grandparents or aunts and uncles to spoil them, or cousins to learn from. And this is what happens when children FEAR you. FEAR is not LOVE. They look sad and miserable.

And speaking of fear, I will never forget the episode when one of the kids got hysterical in front of Jon while he as bucking them into the car seat because they had gotten dirty. Jon reassured and comforted the child that it was their mother who wanted them to be neat, but that it was OK if they were dirty and they didn’t need to get so upset.

What is even more repulsive about these photos is Kate’s body language when around these kids. They look like props for her. Her facial expression is distant. Her spatial relation to the kids is distant. There is significant tension and rigidness in her body. And what bothers me the most is you see her flanked by the two kids she favors- Colin ( the one we have  constantly seen hit and bully the other children who usually had a serious and mean expression on his face) and Hannah, her little helper around the house.

A MESSAGE TO ALL YOU KATE FANS WHO HAVE THOUGHTS OF DISAGREEING WITH MY BODY LANGUAGE ASSESSMENT

And please, please, to all you in denial, collapsing your own issues of a bad cheating husband, single parent with lots of kids identifying, equally abusive as Kate identifying , not the brightest crayon in the pack , BLIND, Kate “lovers”, DO NOT email me and tell me you don’t agree with my body language assessment because I don’t care what you think in this regard. Here is why:

I have spent two decades of my life studying Body Language and Communication and attended the best Universities in the nation including the University of Michigan where I graduated number one in my class , received my PhD at 24 from the University of Minnesota and a Post doctorate at UCLA School of Medicine at 26, and have studied with the “founding fathers” in my field of communication and in other related fields. I have written over fifty articles in professional journals, have researched the topic extensively, have been a university professor at one of the most prestigious universities in the world, USC, have written 15 books on various aspects of communication including my best seller Toxic People and a body language book”I Know What You are Thinking,” and  I have discussed  this topic in the media worldwide for two decades.

I have been respected enough by some of the most prestigious and popular media outlets to be a regular commentator on shows like Nancy Grace, ABC’s Dancing With the Stars, The Insider, and Entertainment Tonight just to name a few and serve as  their body language expert. I have appeared in newspapers and magazines throughout the world on a consistent basis, discussing body language of celebrities, politicians, newsmakers, terrorists, and criminals and have the honor of my own MONTHLY body language column in the most prestigious woman’s magazine in the world COSMOPOLITAN magazine called “The Real Story.”

I have worked with countless Academy Award winners and other household names for decades, helping them prepare their body language, vocal patterns for their movie roles from my first client- teaching Dustin Hoffman for sound like a woman for “Tootsie” to my last client Will Smith of helping him get his body language in character for “Seven Pounds.”

I have lectured on the topic of Body Language and Communication for over two decades. I have lectured to law enforcement about body language and how to spot body language “tells” in criminals which have proved to save officers lives. I have served an expert witness in criminal and state trials where I have used my body language and communication skill expertise in cases involving child molestation, rape, sexual harassment , attempted murder, and robbery, and illegal drug cartels. I have even used my expertise in divorce negotiations. I also serve as a jury consultant for criminal cases.

I am not telling you this to impress you. I am telling you the facts. I am telling you that I am the real deal and not some bullshit fake or phony. I know what I am talking about. I have combined my extensive knowledge in communication, psychology, and clinical genetics, and body language to educate and share with you the knowledge I have been blessed to have.

Therefore, I can tell you with the utmost self confidence and without ego, that no one in the USA, with the exception of Dr. Paul Ekman from Stanford who did the pioneering research on facial leakage and facial expression can come close to me in this area. In fact the popular Fox Show “ Lie to Me” is based on Dr. Ekman’s and his research. What Dr. Ekman has brought to the table in the area of facial leakage and facial expression, I have brought to the table in the area of Vocal and Speech Leakage and Voice and Speech Research as it pertains to the global aspects of body language.

So to ALL you Kate fans who have any thoughts of telling me you don’t agree with me, until you have the same education and background and have done significant research in the area as I have done, only then will I regard you as a professional peer and respect what you have to say about whether you agree or disagree with me on my body language assessment. In the meantime, learn from me. The lessons are FREE in this blog .

I had to mention that because I have received an email from a hateful, ignorant Kate loving, reader accusing me of making money off  of Kate. So to you- hateful, ignorant, Kate loving reader, it’s all free. As you can see above I have other ways of making money than from Kate Gosselin. I am also not doing of what else you accuse me – “riding on the coat tails of Kate Gosselin” to enhance my fame. Kate is only one the newsmaker I have analyzed during my past two decades of doing this work. If you bother to read my other blogs, you would know that.

And one last thing, please don’t email me with false accusations about myself and who I am because you may not have liked what you read about your beloved Kate. Don’t even bother. Trust me, I know myself better than anyone in the world (except for my mom lol) and made it a point to spend a lot of time and effort finding out about me and studying me and analyzing me. So you haven’t succeeded when you write mean things about me as your immature way of trying to hurt me. I actually find it humorous and chuckle. So don’t waste your time.

And FINALLY for the record, don’t ever accuse me of hating Kate Gosselin. I hate her behaviors. I think they are not serving her well. I think they did not serve Jon well. I think her behaviors are ruining her and definitely ruining her children as you will see you read on in this blog. Now back to the real issue – the kids!

KIDS LOOK LIKE THEY ARE GOING TO A FUNERAL AND NOT TO A PLAYGROUND

While the first two photographs are awful enough, in terms of analyzing the kid’s body language, when you look at what is happening with these kids on the playground it is horribly disturbing. And don’t dare email me and tell me that these kids look fine and that they are just kids.

Yes, they are just kids, but you have to be blind if you don’t see that they are unhappy, sad looking kids with serious faces. Kids are supposed to smile and laugh when they play. There is no laughter or smiles, only sour and dour expressions. It is not their fault, They are just leaking out their true feelings through their faces. Their limbic systems, located deep within their little brains which are responsible for their emotions, is showing up on their sweet faces. They have been policed with such a heavy hand by Kate that it took the joy out of playtime as we see here. Kate is not playing with them or interacting with them. She polices them.

What is also disturbing is that Kate doesn’t interact with the kids. Instead she watches over them like an SS officer in the Gestapo These are the saddest photos I have ever seen of children at play.

COLIN, THE BULLYING CHILD

Of course she does attend to the one child who is crying and seems to always be angry about something- Colin, Colin who is just like her, Colin, is her favorite and the bully. That’s right I said “bully”. And BLIND Kate lovers, please don’t bother to write me about me calling and labeling a child a bully.That is the consistent behavior he has shown on the show.

Watch the show and see he that is mean to the other children and pushes them. Instead of criticizing, spend your time reading my Toxic People book and look under the section of “The Bitchy Bossy Bully” and you will see descriptions that would apply not only to Kate but to a child as well- Colin.

If he doesn’t learn how to modify these behaviors as he gets older, it is not going to be pleasant for others to be around him. In fact if he pulls some of his crap we saw him pull on the show his siblings, with a bigger peer, you can bet that he will be in a lot of school yard fights and may come out the losing end. So his behavior needs to be modified now while he still has a chance – not when it is impossible.

GET THESE KIDS INTO THERAPY NOW! STAT!

As a nurse Kate understands the meaning of the word STAT. In nurse talk and doctor talk, it means NOW as it RIGHT NOW, WE DON’T HAVE A SECOND TO SPARE OR THE PATIENT WILL DIE! So to speak your language from back in your nursing days Kate Gosselin, GET ALL YOUR KIDS INTO THERAPY STAT- RIGHT NOW YOU DON’T HAVE A SECOND TO SPARE!

If you want to be seen as a GOOD MOTHER, please, I beg you, do this NOW! If you want to be seen as a BAD MOTHER, don’t get them the help they desperately need. There is no stigma these days about getting kids into therapy. This is not the days of straight jackets and people being locked away in bedlam mental institutions with deplorable conditions and archaic treatment. Get that image out of your head. Nobody will think you are a bad mother for getting them into therapy with a child psychologist once a week. They will think you are a bad mother if you don’t get them into therapy. You messed them up. There is no doubt about it. Now you can repair that damage by getting them to see the right person.

DR. PHIL WOULD WANT ALL THOSE KIDS IN THERAPY

I know that you love and adore Dr. Phil as much as I do. I think Dr. Phil is great! In fact, I just did his show last week for his show about “lying” and he and I agreed to do several more body language related shows. He is truly a super guy and he truly cares about people. He LOVES his audience and they LOVE him back. I saw that up close and personal. I watched him in action and believe me, he clearly knows what he is doing. He is the real deal. He has impeccable credentials and has also been a jury consultant. In fact if it wasn’t for Dr. Phil, there would be no Oprah today. She would have lost it all because of the suit filed against her by the meat industry. Dr. Phil saved her behind and she knew it. She was eternally grateful and did the right thing- sharing Dr. Phil with the public.

I know you reached out to him with Jon. It’s too bad you didn’t continue because he, if anyone, could help you get your marriage back on track. Even if he did in on camera where you and Jon seem to flourish anyway, it that would be great. But Jon stupidly backed out. This could have been a great opportunity for you. And knowing how you like freebies, the therapy would be free to you and Jon by the best relationship counselor- Dr. Phil. There is no doubt that Dr. Phil would tell you to get all your kids into therapy with a qualified CHILD PSYCHOLOGIST on a REGULAR BASIS– STAT!!!! That is exactly what I am telling you now.

GOOD MOTHERS ADDRESS THEIR CHILDREN’S NEED FOR THERAPY

After seeing these kid’s body language the sadness on ALL their faces in these photos taken a day ago, and you do not take them into therapy when they really need it, you are abusing those kids. Someone needs to step in and get them help. You are a very bad mother if you don’t do that for them.

Being a good mother does not mean making sure their clothes have no spots on them or that they are quiet. Being a good mother means attending to their every need. If they had a broken arm and you didn’t take them to the hospital to fix it you would be guilty of abuse. If you did not take them to a doctor when they had a high fever or vomited uncontrollably and they died, you would be guilty of abuse. If they were locked in a hot car without the windows open and you left them there and they died, you would bit only be guilty of abuse, you would now have criminal charges filed at you.

To me, not getting those kids into therapy when they desperately need it, is abuse and criminal. If you can’t afford it, ask you buddies at TLC. They made enough money to support and pay for therapy for those kids for the rest of their lives. Also I am sure each one of them have health insurance since many health insurances cover therapy. You can’t afford NOT to do this for them. They deserve it and need it desperately.

You say publically that because the show is no longer being filmed, the kids ”wailed and cried” when they found out. If that is the case damn it, get them into therapy just for that alone. Then you say the kids will miss the TV crew who were like family to them (which  believe is bullshit because they had various crew people over the years). But if that is the case as you claim, this is yet another reason to get them into therapy. One week when you were on TV, you stated you had the most well adjusted kids ( which I thought was total bullshit) . Then a week later you publicly announce that the kids are having a hard time with the divorce, which I totally believe. If that is the case, then that is yet another reason to get them into therapy. Since you have so many gripes about Jon and his lifestyle and how it’s affecting the kids and his babysitting fiasco, that is even more reason to get them into therapy.

Unlike being on TV, everything those kids say to the child therapist is between the kids and the child therapist. Nobody else has to know. It is safe and confidential, based on HIPPA laws, You are familiar with HIPPA laws being a nurse. You know that it means everything is handled with the utmost of confidence. So you have nothing to worry about in case the kids say something that may affect your public image. No one will know except the kids and the therapist.

PLEASE GET MADY SOME HELP, YESTERDAY!!

Besides angry, hostile , bullying Colin, Mady scares the hell out of me. Her apparently anger and frustration at such a young age is cause for concern. She loves her daddy and was even there to protect him as we all saw when you bitched Jon out at the Travel Store. This definitely has an effect on her. How you have treated her by yelling at her all the time and ignoring her, especially when it was your special day alone together was unconscionable. I even blogged about it. The way she has been treated will all scar her psyche forever.

She needs therapy to help her deal with all the hostility she obviously harbors against you. Just being a twin is hard enough and all that psychology that goes along with twin hood. Having a new sibling enter your home when you are four is an adjustment enough. But having six is overwhelming. Now you have to deal with all the psychology of having seven siblings. Then there is the pressure you put on her to help care for the babies.

Cara, her twin was a dutiful helper but Mady wanted no part of it, and rightfully so. She was a little girl herself and needed attention. You got on her case all the time as we saw for her not helping like “good” twin, obedient Cara. Because she didn’t want to cooperate, you made her into the “bad twin” It became a self fulfilling prophecy as she now only saw herself as the “bad twin” and the “bad child” and always acted out to get attention.

Who could forget her acting out and her misery at the child amusement park when the babies were younger? You said to Jon, “I can’t deal with her- you deal with her,” in such a mean an hostile tone. That made me sick.

If Mady was my daughter and craved that much attention, the last thing I would do is ignore her or reprimand her. I would provide an outlet just for her to express herself and get the attention she needs in a positive way. She was so happy during her modeling shoot. She is so animated and alive. She is spunky and bright. I would get her into acting classes or if she has singing talent or dancing talent develop those kills as an outlet for her creativity. She needs to be in little plays or singing shows at school. She needs something that is uniquely her own. But most of all she needs THERAPY STAT!!!!

SO Kate Gosselin, please finally show yourself as a good mother and not a bad mother which you are now being, by not addressing your children’s psychotherapeutic needs. Get these suffering children into therapy so their body language will reflect happiness and not misery.

Let’s see a body language with freedom of movement and a fluidly, instead of the rigidness and tense robotic movement we see now. Let’s see facial expressions with genuine happiness where both the eyes crinkle and the lips part and the teeth show instead of pursed lips and tight sad faces. http://www.drlillianglass.com

Kate Gosselin’s Body Language and Abusing Jon in the Travel Store With Kids Looking On Shows Why He Said He Despised Kate! Her Behavior Was Despicable!

Kate abusing Jon while Mady looks on

You cannot keep abusing and abusing and abusing a person and expect nothing to happen to them. I am not giving Jon a free pass for his bad behavior in the past. But after seeing how Kate severely and consistently abused and humiliated him without letting up on last night’s episode when they were in the Travel Store it is obvious that Jon’s emotional damn broke. It is obvious to me that his bad behavior was clearly an act of rebellion against Kate and her horrible abuse.

JON GETTING ABUSED AND HUMILIATED IN FRONT OF THE KIDS AT THE TRAVEL STORE

In last night’s episode, Kate and the kids are all sitting on the floor in a Travel Store getting ready for their trip somewhere. They were filling out some passport cards and for the first time we see a happy little Mady. Jon, standing, says in his usual mumbled low voice “ That is what will happen if I had to show my passport in Korea.” Kate snarkily retorts with an edge to her voice, “ You were a lot younger then.” Jon still standing, turns to her and says in a regular modulated voice ( NOT in a loud voice referring to the documents ) “you put Korea and its South Korea, They are two different countries.”

Then Kate, in her most obnoxious, bitchy vocal tone says “Hello are you just not.. “She turns around to look up at him from the floor and verbally abuses him with name calling saying “ are you not NUTS?” “the whole Triple A just heard where we are going !“ ( This comment is once again indication of Kate’s deluded self and her narcissism that they whole world or whole store in this case revolves around her. Nobody was paying attention to her or her family in the store. They were too busy doing their own thing.) She continues to bitch. And abuse “ Everyone heard us.. Good one Jon ( in a nasty snarky sarcastic tone)

MADY STICKS UP FOR DADDY

Then we see something very significant. Mady has now gone over too Jon’s side as he is being bitched at. She obviously knows what is coming and what we see next is amazing from a body language standpoint. She stands next to him with a serious expression and pushes her stomach forward as far as it will go and leans her body forward as if she is literally “puffing herself up” physically to protect daddy from mommy’ s verbal wrath of hell. It is as though she is making herself physically bigger in a subconscious little girl attempt to protect her daddy. She stands straight and her feet are close together as if to indicate” I’m here daddy and I’ m standing up for you.” It was the only touching thing about the segment.

KATE CONTINUES AND CONTINUES AND CONTINUES TO ABUSE

Then we see Jon meekly apologize as he says “I‘m sorry.” But Kate doesn’t even acknowledge his apology. Instead, she continues her verbal abuse towards Jon and in a mean, school maarm, admonishing tone says, “Did you not hear when I announced we were not saying where we were going!”

In a meek, defeated voice Jon says, “ No I wasn’t here,” He apologizes again as he says “I’m sorry” for the second time. Kate continues to ignore his apology and what Kate does next is HORRIBLE. Now we see her emotionally abusing the children by humiliating their father in their presence and talkinga bout him as though he was a non person and wasn;t even there. If she talks smack about Jon to the kids when he is there can you imagine what she says to them when he isn’t there. She is turning these kids against their father and we have just seen how she does it.

One of the kids ask Kate , off camera “Why are you upset?” She answers , in front of Jon mind you, as though he is a non person “ Cuz your father just made an announcement in front of everyone that he wasn’t supposed to.” Now this is a huge exaggeration! Jon did not stand up in front of the whole store and in a loud stentorian voice make “an announcement” everyone as she said. That is not true, She is in essence lying to these children about what their dad did.

She is delusional. He did NOT make an announcement He just said to put South Korea on the card, not just Korea, He was justified in what he said, They are two different countries. He wasn’t there to hear HER RULES, He innocently said what needed to be done and for that he was abused and humiliated in front of the kids and made to feel like a piece of garbage. He was abused, humiliated and emasculated and wrongly made to look bad in the eyes of his kids when he did nothing wrong!.

Then Jon says” I’m sorry “ once again, now for the third time in a mumbled humiliated tone, But Kate doesn’t let up. Instead of moving on, she continues to contort her face into a mean expression as Jon looks down at his paper in embarrassment. Then she continues to verbally abuse him as she says in front of all 8 kids mind you,“I don’t know what planet you are on,” said in a LOUD voice for ALL to hear.

Then we see something even sadder. Mady, still by her dadys side makes a symbolic gesture, several times, where she has her finger under her eye and flicks her finger away as if she is symbolically wiping away a tear. Mind you, she is not crying, although she has a serious facial expression. But her bosy language , in is saying “ I’m crying for you, daddy. I feel sorry for you daddy.” It was so sad to see. It was also sad to see a shot of little Colin and his all serious face as he looked away trying to ignore the whole abusive mess.

Next we see Jon walk away with head handing down in shame and humiliation with shoulders hunched, looking at the ground.

KATES REFLECTION ON THE COUCH- DENIAL, MINIMIZATION, AND JUSTIFICATION OF HER HORRIFIC ABUSIVE BEHAVIOR
Next, we hear Kate voice over saying, “Seriously I couldn’t believe it. Isn’t it amazing that 8 kids don’t say where we are going but one adult does!” Then we see a shot of Kate sitting alone on the couch where she says in a montone after the TLC producer questions her about what happened “ I don’t thing I handled that that wel” DUH!! It was obviously tha Kate;s remark was a spin statement to show the audience that she is admitting her mistakes – that she is not perfect, so she can be forgiven for her outburst. It is TLC’s attempt to try to rebuld her image and get her ready for her for new solo show.

Then we hear Kate minimize her ugly horrific abusive condescending behavior towards Jon as she says with a lack of remorse of her face or in her voice, “It happened as she sighs loudly What can I say! Then this abusive and self righteous, self absorbed woman says in her attemopt to justificy her ehhregious actions, “We didn’t end up going so what can I say..”

KATE’S CONSTANT ABUSE AND LACK OF RESPECT FOR JON MADE HIM REBEL TO THE EXTREME

You can say a lot Kate! For starters, you can say I’m sorry to Jon for beating the crap over him for nothing and you can you are sorry to the kids for making their dad look like a jerk to them. You can also say goodby to any of the fans you had left and to anyone else who say this episode . Who would ever think of watching you on you own show when we have seen you up close and personal. Jon did nothing wrong. You ripped the hell out of him and in front of your kids, That is bad parentiung, Thjat is poor judgment . You didn’t just do this once you did it a lot, Who wants to watch a show with a bad parent who is an abuser? Not me and not my readers and not anyone they tell about you. That is for sure,

ALGEBRA 101 AS IT APPLIES TO KATE GOSSELIN

Ands for ALL you Kate lovers you accuse me of being a KATE HATER , I have a message for you. Until I analyzed last night’s episode, I told you I didn’t HATE KATE and that I only hated Hitler and Stalin and sociopaths and child and animal abusers. The operative word on my list is “ABUSERS”. So if you go back to when you were taking Algebra 101 and recall the “associative property you will see how it applied here. To refresh your memory, if A=B and B= C then A=C . So to apply it in Kate’s case. If I HATE ABUSERS(A=B) and KATE IS AN ABUSER (B=C) THEN I MUST HATE KATE BECAUSE SHE IS AN ABUSER ()A=C)

Yes, after seeing this abuse in light of all that we know about these two, I can say without a doubt that I HATE KATE GOSSELIN’S ABUSIVE BEHAVIOR, herself righteousness , her narcissim, her minimizing, her justifying her horrific behavior, and her abusing those children by allowing them to see how horribly she abuses their father in his presence.

If ANY of you BLIND in denial bleeding heart Kate defenders and Kate lovers ever write me after seeing this episode, I will re-direct you to watch this episode along with every other episode she has abused Jon, the kids, or both, Now, knowing what we know about the Kate and Jon situation don’t even think about writing me a love note in defense of Kate.

If you do I will know that you are only identifying with Kate because a. you may be in denial b. you are not the brightest crayon in the pack c. you may be an abuser and identify with her to justify your own guilt in abusing others, d. you are a victim in that have a lot of kids and your husband left you with the kids so you identify with Kate as the victim she isn’t but the victim image you created about her in your own mind or e. you have collapsed your own issues with the womanizer in your life cheating on you with Jon and pity poor Kate.

Here is a reality check blind Kate lover, Kate is not a victim, She is not to be pities, She is a mean (in her daughter Mady’s words) and horrible abuser! Watch this episode over and over and over again until you finally get it! This is only one segment in one episode. Cnayou imagine close to a dozen yearsof this abuse? Put yourself in Jon;s shoes for a moment. How would you feel if everything you said was minimized, ridiculed and you were yelled at and made to feel like a non person in front of your kids.> You would HATE it! You would find it DESPICABLE, especially of you had a steady diet of this!

NO WONDER JON SAID TO CHRIS COUOMO HE DESPISED KATE AS HER ACTIONS TOWARDS HIM ARE DISPICABLE!

.Now we know whey he said to Chris Coumo on 20/20 in his first interview “ I DESPISE Kate” He was just speaking his truth and being candid. After seeing this episode there is no downt in anyone;s mind and if the Kate Lovers took off their blinders they would see “Kate IS DISPICABLE!” Especially when you see what she has done to Jon.

Jon had been in denial for way to long and finally came out with a vengeance and went off the deep end. But she ripped his testicles off with each cut and nasty comment. She made him feel low and awful bout himself about himself until the damn finally broke.

How could any man feel like a man or feel sexual or achieve an erection after being so humiliated and abused day in and day out. What we saw were little snippits of his abuse like in this episode. Think about a ten years of this abuse. It would make any man or woman if it was done to a woman feel impotent and non sexual, non attractive, and unwanted. It wouold destroy anyone;s self esteem.

So Jon wanted to see if he still worked down below and if being with someone else could remedy his impotent feelings. And guess what? Someone else showed him that he was still a man and he still worked down below. Then Jon tried another and another and yet another “ sexual “band aid” as he discovered that he was no doubt not only just working down there, he was working pretty well. So he wanted to make up for lost time. Unfortunately his immaturity surfaced and he ended up hurting a lot of people. You can’t use a woman to see if you work sexually and then discard her like a used Klenex. I am not justifying Jon;; cheating. But I can certainly understand what lead him to stray- Kate;s emasculation of him

TLC’S ROLE IN STANDING BY AND WATCHING THIS HORRIBLE ABUSE

After seeing this episerode Jon should sue TLC fo their negligence and in being a part of the abuse. Why didn’t they step up? Why did they let this happen for so long? I will tell you? Ratings! They threw Jon under the bus for ratings. They sadistically allowed filming of abuse – Kate repeatedly abusing Jon.

What if Kate would have taken a belt and beat the crap out of one of the kids? Would they have filmed that and aired it ? Would they air another episode of Kate abusing the kids only this time showing her giving a kid a black eye or breaking off one’s arms?

Or would they have put a stop to it and called 9ll or Child Protective services? Would they let that happen for ratings? That is exactly what they did with Jon. They showed him with his verbally abused black eyes and verbally abused arms torn off! Jon was humiliated. They showed that, They showed an abused and broken man. I used to respect TLC, but not anymore. I am repulsed that they allowed this to happen.

I hope that the Learning Channel learns form their own behavior and never allows such abuse to take place on the air again. It is NOT entertaining. It is upsetting. I am upset and millions of viewers are upset as well. They deserve to be sued by Jon just for allowing Kate to abuse him and filming it. The show is about the Kids growing up not about Jon being abused, It was unnecessary to show. Jon deserves all the money he is suing them for.

And for TLC to give this abusive bitch Kate a show its even more unconscionable. They are rewarding the Abuser. We have seen the real Kate Gosselin and no image makeover or spin can change it. http://www.drlillianglass.com