KATE FILLED WITH ANGER WHICH KIDS MIRROR
After watching Kate Gosselin’s latest interview with Meredith Vierra on the Today Show I saw an angry, bitter, and petty woman who just can’t let go of her hatred towards Jon.
She is in such denial that she does’nt have any clue that her inner hatred and anger is being mirrored by those kids and literally destroying them. As she took her anger out on Jon and continues to be filled with hatred, her kids are taking their anger and hatred out on the other kids. at school
They have anger issues because she has anger issues. It’s not because of the divorce. It is because she is so angry about the divorce and that anger carries over to them. Lots of kids are products of divorce and they don[t go around beating on and cursing at other kids.
THE LEG KICK
Kate began the interview kicking her legs. When someone kicks their legs when they are about to be interviewed it means they are very uncomfortable and are not looking forward to the interview because they probably will not be forthright with you.
THE HEAD COCK
Then in a monotone she says ” We are doing great” as she opens her eyes wide. This eye widening is often a signal of deception. Then she says We are very happy and adds the word “actually, ”When you have to add the word actually” it most likely means that things are not actually that great.
When Kate was asked about whether the two of the kids were expelled from school she cocks her head to the side. This is often a signal of deception. She then speaks in a staccato hyper articulated speech pattern saying ” That is false.” When one does that, it is usually signals deception. Also there was a lot of fidgeting with her hands. This is another sign of deception.
Now we hear her convoluted attempts filled with ums. It does not make sense as it is disjointed. She is searching for words as she knows what she is saying is complete spin and nonsense.”
We have a situation where we my kids um are in an academic situation where academics um are pushed and I fully support it. Combined with kids who were having to just go through with a divorce. Their parents suffering some of those normal feelings
When someone speaks in fragments like you see above they are lying, When they speak in tangents they are lying.
The telling thing here is her words ” their parents suffering.” It shows just how narcissistic she is. She doesn’t say the children are suffering but instead brings it back to herself, saying that she is suffering.
‘Then she says and the two collided and they were not doing well with the combination. What about a simple YES THEY WERE EXPELLED BECAUSE THEY ARE TROUBLED EMOTIONALLY!!
Body language wise look at Kate’s upturned palm. What this means is she is begging for Meredith and the audience to to believe her roundabout circumvented deceptive answer.
Look at Meredith’s facial expression. It says that she isn;t buying Kate’s nonsense. either.
KATE’S SELF ABSORPTION AND BRINGING THE TOPIC BACK TO HER DIVORCE
Kate says I felt so alone, I talked to other moms who had gone through the divorces. This is is NOT about Kate and her divorce. It is about the kids but she is obviously too self absorbed to see that.
Then she protests so much as she shakes her head NO, knowing full well what she is saying is complete BS as she says ’Its NORMAL Stuff as she shakes her head no.
Then she suddenly looks down. This is a huge indicator of deception as she says I did what I could do we mutually agreed. I brought them home with a private tutor
Then she says …um um (she smiles as though she remembered to say something she left out as part of her spin) She says and Early education teacher…
Kate is speaking in fragments which means she is most likely reciting some rhetoric she was no doubt told to say . She obviously messed up her lines.’’
Then she shows just how in denial she is as she recites : It is dealing with the very normal results of a divorce.”
WHAt???????? Most kids have parents who get divorced and d they don’t beat one another and curse them like her kids allegedly did. How about admitting that their anger is the result of a hostile hateful and angry mother whom they no doubt mirrored. They saw her anger and abuse towards their father almost every day of their young lives.’
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Kate obviously knows what she is saying is complete BS. That is why she purses her lips in an attempt to hold back all the BS.
STILL BITCHING ABOUT JON
Then Kate Gets bitchy as she has to say how Good she is and how BAD Jon is. She just has to tell one just how she reached out to him first, and how it depend on the day and the hour , thus giving him yet another zing . This is a man she not only emotionally destroyed and emasculated throughout her marriage by hitting him and belittling him, but now she has removed his voice
The man isn’t even allowed to go on the airwaves to defend himself or he will get fined and lose what little he does have.
LEAVE JON ALONE!!!!!!!!
Why does she have to go there? Why can’t she leave him be? If he is the father of her kids and always will be as she made sure to say on the show, then she needs to leave him alone and stop trashing him.
He loves his kids and is the reason they will probably have a chance at life. He has only given them love nd affection.
Now that he has a beautiful lovely and beautiful woman in his life – Ellen Ross, those kids will finally know about a healthy male female relationship. They will see a man and a woman who respect one another not a man and a woman who constantly bicker like they saw with Jon and Kate .
Then she says And Honestly when I think of the old days I try to email him and write him and give him a call. When someone starts a sentence with Honestly chances are they are not being honest,
Then Meredith relayed to Kate how Jon apologized on his twitter account publicly for what he did to Kate. Instead of acting like a mature adult and saying I appreciate it or petty Kate says she doesn’t consider interviews and twitters an apology and that she never got a an apology yet.”
HOW PETTY!!!!!!!!!
Kate, get over it! Talking like that is what will ruin your kids forever. Your pettiness will transfer over to them.
Then she disgustingly says ” Strangely and ironically I have forgiven him..’’
If you have really forgiven him then why the shoulder shrugs which indicate deception. Why all the high drama? In my view Jon is the one who needs to forgive you for abusing and emotionally torturing him until he went over the edge.
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KATE LEAKS OUT ANGER, AND MORE ANGER !!!!!!!
Then she leaks out ” people who are close to me are upset that I don’t get that angry. And who are those people, Steve Neild the bodyguard?
Then on the next breath she leaks out “I am angry,” Then she changes her mind and says What good does it does it do I don’t have time to waste”
But her expression and vocal inflection say it all. She scrunched up her face and goes up at the end of the statement as though she is asking a question. She clearly knows she does not believe what she is saying.
Kate, here is a very valuable message to you. Since the therapist is allegedly already in the house to take care of the two angry home schooled kids, why not have a session with the therapist as well? The therapist can help you get over your anger towards Jon.’
Your anger is making the kids angry which is destroying their little lives. Your anger is being mirrored by them in school. You talk about sending them back to school . Well here is a secret. They will never make it back and succeed there unless you get to the root of the problem-your deep rooted anger.
ADDITIONAL PETTINESS FROM KATE
Kate haven’t you done enough to punish and destroy Jon? You have silenced the man so he cannot speak up or speak back. You have taken away opportunities for him to make big money on the media and now you are suing him for 125K for child support.
Please tell us how this man is supposed to earn a living when you have destroyed his opportunities. Tell us how he is supposed to have a full time job and have no money for nannies and maids and still take care of the kids when you are out and about?
JON IS RIGHT!!!! GET THE KIDS OFF THE AIR
Jon was apparently livid when Kate left their kids with a teenage babysitter whom he did not know and the sitter was instructed by Kate not to talk with Jon.
Kate just dismissed these concerns. The fact that two of the children showed behavioral problems would be a red enough flag for any parent to take their kids off the air. Jon has tried.let’s hope that he succeeds before it is too late.Let’s hope that a disaster can be avoided. . www.drlillianglass.com
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