After watching the Duggar parents in action on Meghan Kelly’s FOX interview we never need to see them on any other reality show. This interview is the most real reality show there is about the Duggars as we can clearly her and see their denial, ignorance, double talk, and hiding behind their faith as well as their blatant LIES, and finally their leaked out intention as to why they did this interview. It is clear that they did it because they want to preserve their Duggar brand by doing a mea culpa in stating that they were “bad parents.”
But they did something else which negates all of this and shows how phony their intention appears to be. They verbally leaked out that they were suing the police through a Freudian slip I will show you later in this blog. They also turned the tables and made the police the bad guy for leaking out this information. In doing so, they are taking the onus off of their child molesting son and the attention off of what is an egregious act and blaming someone else.
I have always warned my readers and those who attend my seminars that whenever you hear a person – especially a grown woman with a sickening sweet breathy baby girl voice, know that something is not right with that person. They are usually passive aggressive and they are not being authentic. They have something to hide.
This turned out to be the case in watching the interview with Josh Duggar’s mother during her interview with Meghan Kelly on FOX News. It spoke volumes. Her fetal- like hunched over appearance with rounded shoulders and head down, clearly showed that she was in fear and was obviously dominated by her aggressive husband as he spoke in clearly rehearsed rhetoric. She looked like a scared child and sounded like one as well. Her tears in the interview were fake as there was no liquid coming out of her eyes. She wiped away non-tears.
This interview also showed that Josh Duggar’s parents are in great denial and are still covering up for him. Since he was the culprit, why wasn’t he at the interview? I will answer that obvious question for you. He was not there so that the elder Duggars could protect their brand, just in case Josh said something that would do irreparable damage. What they don’t get is that their interview on FOX did irreparable damage to their brand.
STILTED AND REHEARSED SPEECH
When the father spoke, it sounded stilted and not spontaneous, It sounded as though it was rehearsed. As soon as a question was asked by Meghan Kelly, they Duggar parents both looked at one another as if to reassure one another as to who would be the one answering the question.
As further proof that this interview was rehearsed and that they had set lines to say, look at this photo below with Mrs. Duggar holding the actual script in her lap.
Another reason which makes me confident that it was rehearsed, is that Mrs. Duggar brings up the phrase “we had one little ray of hope” right at the beginning of the interview. In the middle of the interview, Mr. Duggar uses the exact same phrase of ” a little ray of hope”.
His speech pattern was staccatto and stilted as though it was clearly rehearsed and guarded. Her breathy child- like tones indicated that she was not being authentic in her delivery either.
PALMS DOWN AS A SIGNAL OF DECEPTION
When Mr. Duggar said that Josh came to him on his own and was crying because he improperly touched some of their daughters, I saw signals of deception. First of all I doubt that a 14 year old boy would volunteer this behavior which in my view may have gone on for quite some time. I doubt that it was just a one time occurance as research shows in those who molest children. The main signal of deception as he said this was that Mr. Duggar’s palms were down as you can see in this photo below, Also the fact that he had to look at his wife for reassurance is also telling and adds to my belief that this father may not be totally truthful.
When Meghan asked Mr. Duggar about going to police. Mr. Duggar made it seem like it was the right thing to do and that he did it so that Josh wouldn’t have this hang over his head the rest of his life. As Mr. Duggar said this he breathed hard and looked away and then looked back at his wife. First of all, the Christian Clinic where they sent Josh would have been liable if they didn’t report this child abuse to the authorities. Perhaps they encouraged Mr. Duggar to do this. Perhaps they reported the sexual molestation themselves, or threatened to to do so if Mr. Duggar didn’t do it. The fact that Mr. Duggar gave so much detailed information as to where he reported it (at the police station near his home) and gives such a detailed explanation as to why he reported it to police, leads me to believe that he was highly encouraged to report it by the Christian clinic or that the police contacted him about the matter. It seemed that he may have been showing up based on their request. Since all records have allegedly been destroyed, we will never know this information. But it certainly seems that way to me.
Then the sickeningly sweet voiced Mrs. Duggar interjects and looks at her husband for reassurance as she says how devastated she was.Then she looks up and to the side as though she is manufacturing what to say . She looks to her husband, and then looks to the side as though she is thinking what to make up next.
LOOKING AWAY AND TO THE SIDE TO THINK WHAT TO MANUFACTURE NEXT
After she says the “one ray of hope was that Josh had a tender conscience” she says something that puts up a huge red flag/ She says” He was the one that came and shared on his own even though the others really didn’t know anything.”
That is way too much information for this statement to be true. And then she says WHAT??? ” Didn’t know anything?” Of course they knew something as they were the ones being molested for God’s sakes. Of course they knew something! This statement proves she is trying to spin it her way and make light of the situation.
MR. DUGGAR’S PROTECTIVE HAND OVER HIS GENITALS
When someone places their hand over their private parts when they speak. it means that they are feeling vulnerable. It is interesting to note that Mr. Duggar is speaking about sexual molestation and is covering up his own sexual organ with his hand. He is clearly feeling vulnerable.
HYPER DRAMATIC AND FACIAL EXPRESSION THAT TRIES TOO HARD TO CONVINCE
Then she gets so hyper-dramatic and says that as parents “we are failures.” She says we tried to raise our kids to do what’s right and to know what’s right. She knows she doesn’t believe that. She thinks she and her husband are great parents. Otherwise why would they appear on TV as America’s great parents with 19 children who are living the devout Christian lifestyle? This is hypocritical and ridiculous and no one is believing that she thinks she is a bad parent. She doesn’t believe that for one millisecond.
Then we see her wide eyed googly- eyed appearance. When people open their eyes so wide they are trying to convince you that what they are saying is truthful. In essence, she is trying way too hard to get her points across and is not succeeding in doing so.
Then there is the fake cry. First of all, when you cry there is liquid running out of BOTH of your eyes in terms of tears. You don’t cry without tears and you don’t immediately go from a cry to a normal facial position. That is what Mrs. Duggar did which indicated she was not really crying but attempting to cry on cue for dramatic effect. No doubt, whom was ever coaching her must have told her to shed a few tears of sympathy. But it didn’t work.
MR. DUGGAR’S SHOCKING REACTION REGARDING DAUGHTERS
When Meghan asked him about looking at this issue from the viewpoint of his daughters, he ignored the question. He double talked, beat around the bush, and did not answer the question head on. In fact he never answered the question. That spoke volumes to me. It said that he was more concerned about his son and protecting him and his Dugar brand and all the goodies that come with it- like millions of dollars than he cared about his daughter’s welfare. That said it all to me and frankly it sickened me.
He also said that Josh called up one of the molested daughters to apologize and she didn’t remember what happened. Oh my God!!! This screams that ALL of these people need serious therapy. They are either in denial or have put it out of their mind because they don’t want to destroy their brand.
They also spoke about the girls in third party as “victims” not as daughters. This is disconcerting. They have in essence detached themselves from the girls and what happened to them by referring to them in third person. This was devastating to witness.
BLAMING THE POLICE AND LEAKING OUT A LAWSUIT BY THE DUGGARS IS BREWING
When Meghan asked if they were concerned about what Josh did and going public, they were honest and forthright for the first time in the interview. They really did not think there would be a problem after their initial visit to the police department. They were sure all would be fine and that since Josh was a juvenile at the time, it would also be swept away under the rug and that was the end of it.
But then it re-surfaced and Mr. Duggar was mad as he demonstrated in the video. Suddenly his speech was faster and louder and his tone now had an edge to it. He then leaked out the word “suit” as she said this was a suit and then corrected himself. That is called a Freudian Slip. It speaks volumes when analyzed in specific contexts. In this context he was discussing the police and the association of a ” suit” came out. To me that is very telling as it reveals his inner intention is to sue the police.
BLAMING THE POLICE FOR HAVING AN AGENDA AND DISCUSSING A BRIBE
If the Duggars are considering suing the Police they had better watch what they just said about the police and accusing them of having an agenda as both Duggars said this simultaneously as though it was rehearsed. They also spoke of a bribe. Now they have opened themselves up to a whole different level of investigation. Did they give a bribe to the police to look the other way and destroyed the files? Who bribed who? What was this bribe and why and how much money was involved in the bribe? They said some pretty derogatory things about the police chief that is now public record.
In their attempts to sue the police for releasing the files, they may find that they are the ones being sued for defamation and opening up a whole new can of worms. In essence, I believe through this interview they have further shot themselves in the foot or in the mouth so to speak.
HAVE THERE BEEN OTHER INCIDENTS OF SEXUAL MOLESTATION THAT HAVE GONE ON IN THAT HOME?
When Mrs. Duggar shared that big boys can never have the little children on their laps and that they can never play hide and go seek or end up in pairs it sickened me. That is not normal behavior in any family. Children should be free to play hide and seek and go seek and go off in pairs without worries of one molesting the other. This was a huge red flag to me.
If Josh was a sexual pervert at 15 and molested his 5 year old sister, that may have been one Duggar child (Josh) being a molester. But now that this hyper watchful rule applies to ALL of the Duggar childRen what does that mean? It makes me want to ask the question as to whether any other younger children have been molested by any other older children?
In my view, I think that this family needs a visit from Child Family Services to see exactly what has been going on in that household. At any rate, ALL of the molested daughters MUST have some therapy for what happened to them. The fact that some have allegedly relayed that they don’t remember , speaks volumes . Oftentimes when incidences of sexual abuse are not addressed, it can have serious psychosocial repercussions.
Believing in God and asking him to take away your sins doesn’t make you less accountable for your actions. Josh needs to address what he did and all of the girls need to address what was done to them. Now that Josh has children of his own, he especially needs to face what he did so that he doesn’t repeat these actions with his own children.
MESSAGE TO MRS. DUGGAR
When Mrs. Duggar said Josh was interested in girls and that is why he molested them I wanted to vomit. She is the one who needs therapy most of all. She is in denial with her baby girl breathy passive aggressive voice. How could she say such a thing?
In her final statement with her her wide eyed look AND breathy baby girl voice, she brings up the obviously rehearsed word ” agenda” once again in an attempt to take the onus off of her sexually molesting son and put it on others whoM she feels areout to destroy her and her family and make money off of this incident as she describes it. She then ends the interview by saying that God will make this all OK.”
No, Mrs. Duggar, you cannot hide behind God in this. God will not make everything OK. It is not OK when a teenager abuses children and when you and your husband have tried to sweep this under the rug and now blame others for what your son has done. Maybe God wanted this information released in the universe by whatever means, in order to show the world what a fake reality show you have and how you must not be looked up to and admired as being such ideal parents you claim to be .
You have shown that, like an ostrich, you have your head in the sand when it comes to Josh. You are more interested in protecting your son and your brand than you are in oding what is right . You showed us all what a stupid and ignorant woman you are by saying that children need to be protected from transgender people who can go into girls bathrooms and molest them. In order to relieve you of your gross unawareness, I will inform you that transgender people have no interest in harming children. Their interest is in living their lives as a member of the opposite sex.
The man you need to be concerned with coming into your little girl’s bathroom is you own flesh and blood son- your child molesting son- Josh Duggar. When we point the fingers at others t,here is often three fingers pointing back at us as is the case here.
SHOULD CHILD PROTECTIVE SERVICES GET INVOLVED?
A three or five year old child who looks at the genitals of a child of the opposite sex out of curiosity – “I’ll show you mine if you show me yours” may be acceptable in terms of normal development but it is NOT normal for a 15 year old to look at a five year olds private parts. It is sick and is what a pedophile does. If Josh did this as was revealed in the media, he was and may still be a pedophile. Pedophiles usually don’t change their behavior unless they are given hormone treatment or castrated. The recidivism rate among child molesting predators in prison is astounding. They can never be cured. If Josh is presently a bona fide pedophile I am deeply concerned for his own children.
TELLING AND TRAGIC INTERVIEWS WITH THE SEXUALLY MOLESTED DUGGAR DAUGHTERS
At the end of this tragic FOX interview which revealed so much about the Duggars, there was a teaser about an upcoming interview with the Duggar daughters- the victims of Josh. Although one cried, she was not crying because she was molested. Instead she was crying because the information was released and made public. The other daughter was defensive and also blamed others like the person who released the information, instead of blaming the culprit who molested her- Josh.
That spoke volumes about these young ladies being in denial. They need professional help asap and I pray that they get it.