Josh Duggar’s Wife’s Self Blame As to Toxic Man Josh’s Cheating Says She’s In Denial

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Josh Duggar, the eldest son on TLC’s Reality Show “19 and Counting” who admitted to sexuay abusing his sisters, has now

admitted that he is a hypocrite and has a secret addiction to pornography as he was caught on the Ashley Madison site- a site

which caters to married cheaters having affairs. Anna Duggar, Josh’s wife is clearly in denial and engaging in self blaming for

Josh’s egregious behavior.

It is reported that Anna says she is not leaving her  cheating husband and will stick by him. In fact she is reported to be turning

to her faith much like her in-laws and doing a  lot of praying. In my view she and her in-laws are doing a lot of denying.

No prayer and no faith can help a very mentally sick individual  with perverted behavior, like Josh has shown to be. he needs  a

lot f therapy and not the faith based religious kind of therapy which clearly did not work on him.

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According those close to her, Anna is  trying to absorb some of the blame. for Josh’s perverted actions of cheating on her. In fact she apparently blames herself for not being more aware of the pressures Josh was under . She apparently is beating herself up for not having counseled him better.

In my view  her alleged  statements  reveal that she just as disturbed as her husband. She has no connection with reality. There is absolutely nothing she could have done to prevent Josh cheating on her, no doubt when he was pregnant.

It will most likely never happen, but this woman needs to get as far away from Josh and his family as soon as possible. Most likely she will continue to live in denial with her head in the sand like an ostrich. She will never face the reality that her husband has some severe mental problems. She  most likely will never listen to anyone who tells her that it is not her fault and that Josh did this on his own and she is not to blame in any way, shape. otr form.

While religion and faith is a great thing for most people. in this case it is not a great thing as we watch Anna stubbornly hide behind her religion and their faith and refuse to see the reality of her very disturbed husband.

Donald Trump Shows Most Confident Body Language of All Candidates

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Screen Shot 2015-08-14 at 12.13.54 AMThere is no question  the candidate who showed the most self confidence  through his body language during the debates was

Donald Trump. He  was the candidate who appeared to be the most at ease even when difficult questions were thrown his way.

As you can see in this photo he is the only candidate leaning forward which indicated his eagerness and readiness.

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His gestures were fluid  which reflected his ease on the stage. He did not make any of the mechanical gestures which

many of the politicians made where the thumb and the index finger was pinched. Instead he made gestures which matched

his emotions and what he was saying.

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candidate who did this.

Regarding his response to the Megan Kelly question, he handled it well.  While there is no dispute that a  question about  how

Trump feels about women should have been asked, the way in which it was asked was sneaky and inappropriate in my view.

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First Megyn starts the question off with a very pleasant face as she looks directly at trump and says One of the things people love about you is that you speak your mind and you don’t use a politician’s filter. ”

Then she says however it is not without it’s downsides particularly when it comes to women. You’ve called women fat pigs, slobs, and disgusting animals.”

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Trump then interrupts  with stating “Only Rosie O’Donnell” which received a roaring applause from the crowd. And by the way Rose O’Donnell was the one who began the fight with Donald Trump with her name calling and  disparaging remarks about his physical appearance. Trump in turn, fought back and mirrored her Toxic name calling.Screen Shot 2015-08-14 at 12.41.21 AM

Megyn Kelly then recounts that Trump said to a Celebrity Apprentice contestant  “It would be a pretty picture to see her on her knees” In the first place. the contestant  was Brande Roderick who can’t recall this ever being said to her and strongly defends Trump on this matter. ”

Megyn then appears to sneer at Trump as she looks directly at him with narrowed eyes as you can see in this photo above and says in an admonishing tone”  Does that sound to you like the temperament of a man we should elect as president?” She doesn’t ask :what do you have to say about this? Instead she attacks his temperament. When Trump subsequently said there was “Blood in her eyes” what he was saying  was that she was out for blood and it showed in her eyes. We saw her narrowed eyes on screen, but trump saw her piercing eyes glaring  directly at him while she asked the question, so clearly he saw a lot more of the negative emotion coming from Megan than the viewer watching the debate.

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Trump was visibly disturbed about her question as he purses his lips and tightens his jaw in anger. Then Megyn in essence associates him with the “War on Women.”  Trumps answer was that he has no time to be politically correct  and then says how the country has no time  to be politically correct as he

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made karate chop like gestures to emphasize his point which also reflected his anger and annoyance at the question.

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He then shows his palms in an open gesture as he explains that oftentimes what he says is fun and kidding and we have a good time.  He then goes on to let Megyn know that he has been nice to her even though she has treated him not so nice and that he said he could not be so nice to her  based on the way she has treated him. He also reached out and said he was sorry that she felt that way.

Then after  the debate, Trump was true to his word and was not so nice to Megyn as she let everyone know that she had blood coming out of her eyes and had other disparaging things to say about her.

One thing about  about Donald Trump which everyone  should know from reading his book The Art of the Deal, is that  his philosophy is that if someone hits you hard, you hit them back harder. And he did that in business  which was  one of the key;s to his success and has been doing it with everyone who attacks him, including Megyn Kelly.

And once again to refresh everyone’s memory  as I have said throughout my blogs, I am not a political person and have no agenda here as I merely report what I observe from a body language and communication standpoint.

Disagree With Radaronline’s Negative Headline & False Spin on Kim’s Selfish Body Language at ESPY’s

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I completely disagree with Radaronline’s headline as I do not believe Kim Kardashian was being selfish in anyway or looking for the camera at the ESPY’s. Instead she was focused on Caitlyn and very attentive.

One thing you can  count on is that whenever I am interviewed is that I will ALWAYS be honest as I have complete integrity when doing a body language analysis. The press can never sway me into saying something that is not there, just for the sake of  their spinning their article a certain way. When I see that happening, I will not participate.

When I was interviewed by Radaronline about the family’s reaction to Caitlin’s speech, I was extremely positive as ALL the family members listened attentively and were emotionally moved.  They I was asked about Kylie’s looking miserable. I assured then that Kylie was emotional based on  the moving things  Caitlin said in her speech. I assured them that she was not looking miserable but very much relating to what Caitlin was saying.

I also emphatically  told radaronline that I didn’t want to be a part of any negative article concerning Catilyn or her family as I completely support Caitlin in all of her endeavors and will in no way be a part of anything negative about her or related to her.

So when they saw that they were going in the wrong direction regarding Kylie and that I would not comment negatively, they turned their attention to Kim. I again assured them that Kim’s body language showed love and support towards Caitlyn.

They realized they would not get anything negative from me so they sought the services of another body language expert Patti Wood who was obviously  willing to say something negative about Kim being selfish and looking for the camera.

Thus I was shocked when the ugly headline read :

The Kim Show! Body Language Experts Claim Selfish Kardashian Was ‘Looking For The Camera’ During Caitlyn Jenner’s ESPYs Speech”

This was disgusting!  I am not the body language expert who said this as the headline is a bold faced lie!! Kim was NOT looking for the camera. She was focused on Caitlin and I resent this false headline as I had no part of this.

Here is exact;y  what I said:

In the beginning of Caitlyn’s acceptance speech “Kim Kardashian is smiling proudly,” says body language expert to the stars Dr. Lillian Glass, who has worked with such huge names such as Dustin Hoffman and Sean Connery.

This is what Patti Wood said:

However, “Kim had her arm across her belly to call attention to look at her and could not bring herself to clap,” says another expert, Patti Wood, who is the author of Snap: Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language, and Charisma.

So in essence  I NEVER said this. It was only ONE body language expert who said this-Patti Wood said this. So the  headline “Body Language Experts (plural) is completely wrong completely false!

I did say the following statements which were ALL positive about a positive occasion:

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According to Dr. Glass, “When Caitlyn is talking about the family, Kylie and Kendall are moved by this as they wipe away their tears. They are emotional because Caitlyn is getting emotional.”

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“You can see in this shot that all of Caitlyn’s children are taking in and digesting all of what she is saying in her speech and in this particular shot, Caitlyn is talking about how the journey has been inspiring and frightening,” says Glass.
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Brody Jenner is listening attentively and you can see the seriousness in his face,” Glass says of Caitlyn’s son, who was there with his girlfriend Kaitlynn Carter
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According to Dr. Glass, “When Caitlyn is talking about the family, Kylie and Kendall are moved by this as they wipe away their tears. They are emotional because Caitlyn is getting emotional.”
“The whole family is really moved when Caitlyn says that she is proud to have them all in her life,” says Dr. Glass.
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Perhaps the most moved of all was Caitlyn’s mother, Esther, who almost missed the event due to having surgery just one week prior. “Her mother is beyond proud and is beaming the entire time,” Dr. Glass tells Radar.
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After Caitlyn thanks her mother and tells the audience that she is her source of courage, Kendall and Kylie’s raw emotion “shows how they love their grandmother so much and are moved by what Caitlyn said about her.”
So you can see that I NEVER said ANYTHING negative unlike Patti Wood who commented:
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Everyone’s focus was on the Caitlyn’s speech for the entire time “except for Kim Kardashian,” says Wood. “Kim is looking for the camera, not looking at Caitlyn,” Wood, who has not ever worked with the family, tells Radar.
As you can see it was only Patti Wood’s opinion, not mine. Sothe headline stating “Body Language expert(s) plural is FALSE! It is only one body language expert’s opinion and I completely disagree with that opinion.
You can’t control what the press will say or what headlines they will manufacture, so thankfully we have blogs such as this one to set the record straight.

Toxic Bill Huy of ‘Beautiful Audio Books and Rori Raye Mislead Public in Ripoff Tapes of Dr.Glass’ Book

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It is ironic that someone whom I would consider a “Toxic Man”, Bill Huy, owner of “Beautiful Audio Books” was out to scam the public as he tried to promote my”Toxic Men ” book by misleading the public. He allegedly put a series of 6 “Toxic Men” tapes  on youtube thorough his alleged youtube accounts with such names as: Herzaman Audiobooks , Sachs, Isabella Vorreyt, Best Audiobook Collection, Raleich Lefebvre, White E-Book, Rufus Walsh, and the wierdest name of all,  uradiobooks harry potter.

 That means there were 42 “Toxic Men” tapes out there, that were reported to be done by me. In actuality this was not the case. They were not done by me and I had nothing to do with these particualr tapes.

The tapes were promoted with a word for world blurb that was taken directly from my book. They even wrote the exact words in my book that Toxic men is not about male bashing. 

My book was featured on the left  side of the screen with my name prominently displayed. Next to my book on the right side,  was a large photo of a woman’s face that was clearly not my face. Apparently, the woman in the photo as well as the book company were allegedly  attempting to pass this woman off as me. They allegedly wanted the public to think that this woman was Dr. Lillian Glass who was now doing a series of six audio tapes about Toxic Men and promoting it. Well that was NOT the case.

The reason why I had not done the tapes previously was because I detested the name of the book “Toxic Men”. It was not my choice but rather the brainchild of some  petty editor at Adams media. I wanted the book to be called “Toxic Men and Toxic Women”, as  when you read the book you will see that it pertains to both men and women The book is about BOTH men and woman not just men. But the  company insisted it be called “Toxic Men” becuase they said women buy more books than men

so “Toxic Men” would appeal to more women. I thought that reasoning was stupid and let them know my feelings. While I love the contents of the book and love what is in it that can help anyone who is in a toxic relationship or is healing from one,  I still  hated being associated with a book title that makes me sound like a “man hater” when I am just the opposite. I love men and didn’t want to be mislabeled because of this book.

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So I was never  about to promote a series of tapes on Toxic Men unless there were accompanying tapes  about Toxic Women.Thus, I was certainly not promoting these  6 audiotapes.

When I listened to the tapes I was even more shocked than seeing a photo of this woman next to my book. I was shocked to hear her Toxic voice. Yes- Toxic to my ears point of view. When a person has a sickeningly sweet sing song tone, rest assured there is trouble brewing. I detest these type of voices because they are often associated with passive- aggressive and/or deceptive personalities in my view.

Low and behold, this was the case here. This sickeningly sweet voiced woman who was talking on these series of  6 tapes was indeed deceptive as she tried  to pass herself  off as the author of my book on Toxic Men. After forcing myself to listen to her tapes I was even more sickened as I thought  the information was ridiculous and seemed to come out of another century in how to “capture your man.” This woman who has no credentials was hiding behind my credentials and reputation and misleading the public about my Toxic Men book.

In one of the 6  tapes she slipped out her name – Rori Raye. I had never heard of her so I looked her up on the internet and found that her sickeningly sweet deceptive and phony sounding voice didn’t belie her. Apparently others who dealt with her found her deceptive enough to report her to Ripoff Reports. In fact there were 3 separate Ripoff reports about her.There were also several complaints about her to the better Business Bureau. Several allegedly reported that she was a scam and a liar.

I then went to her website and saw a HUGE red flag. When someone does not have a way to contact them on their site know that there is a great chance you may not be dealing with someone who is forthright. Then I saw her youtube account and was now convinced that this woman was less than truthful. Remember that photo  above that was plastered next to my book to give the illusion she authored my book? Well that same photo appeared in the left  corner of  her youtube account. There was also a woman on the right side of the photo  on her youtube page which looked completely different than the woman featured next to my book. Who was that woman who looked so different?

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Well, it was none other than Rori Raye- a then and now photo. Below is a photo of  how Rori Raye looks now.
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Needless to say I was furious about all of this. I HATE when people do deceptive things with other people’s intellectual property. I hated this just as I hated when a woman named Marcia Petrie Sue, a public speaker  who calls herself an Accountability Expert, when she wasn’t very accountable herself,  did word for word copying of my book.
She then had the audacity to call her book Toxic People, the same name as my book which I wrote 13 years earlier than her book, which  in turn caused confusion in the marketplace. I ended up suing this woman in US Federal Court  in 2010 and winning the case against her. Marcia Petrie Sue  is now and forever branded as a “copyright infringer” or in layman terms – “a plagiarist.”
  I hate it when people don’t do diligence  and look on the internet or on amazon and do a search of names of books already out there before they write a book. I hate when people take my ideas and concepts  and words and claim it as their own. They are just the same as  thief who comes into your home and steals your silverware, jewels, computer or your car. Instead of stealing material things, they are stealing intellectual things.
I don’t care how rich or famous a person is- they cannot take my brand away. My  brand is Toxic People and I have it trademarked and now enforce that trademark regularly.
I refuse to be victimized by intellectual property thieves. That is why I am armed with one of the best Intellectual Property attorneys in the United States representing me- Eric Bjorgum, He represented me in my Federal case against Marcia Petrie Sue. In fact, last  just week he won yet another major intellectual property. and trademark case.   I feel a lot less anxious and a lot safer in the world knowing that Eric Bjorgum is the strong wall behind me.
Eric suggested that I contact youtube and file some copyright infringement reports to remove the offending URL’s and thumbnail photos of my book and this woman’s misleading face that she is the author of my book. I took his advice and initially filled out  48 forms to remove the URLs. Youtube was great and removed most of them as soon as they could.
But that was not the end of it. Apparently Herzaman Audiobooks , Sachs, Isabella Vorreyt, Best Audiobook Collection, Raleich Lefebvre, White E-Book, Rufus Walsh, and the wierdest name of all,  uradiobooks harry potter  re-uploaded the 6 tapes with brand new URL’s (allegedly). It was like playing “whack a mole” at the state fair. As soon as youtube blocked a tape, a new one with a new URL surfaced so I had to do the process over and over again until I must have sent out close to 200 requests to block the tapes.
I was so frustrated that I gladly waited on the phone for an hour until someone from youtube answered and gave me the email address to contact them directly. So  I wrote an email to youtube about my plight and they continued to block them. At last count there were only 4 tapes on Isabella Vorreyt   and 5 vtapes on the account of Raleich Lefebvre.
That means there were only 9 of these tapes out of there instead of the multitude of others. There are still some thumbnails on these two accounts which need to be taken down as well.
This is how I spent most of  day today- talking to youtube, Eric Bjorgum, playing tape “whack a mole” writing emails to youtube and filling out youtube copyright infringement forms.  Thank goodness I had some kissing and cuddling breaks from Annabella.
The bottom line to all of this is that you have to protect your creations. Whether it is photography, the written word, music, lyrics, art, fashion design,  jewelry design, computer software development, medical equipment development, choreography, or anything else you must protect what you created. Whether you create a human being or create a product or a book or a song, the creative process is all the same. What you create becomes your baby and you must always protect your babies.

Hillary Does NOT Suffer From “Uh Huh Syndrome” On Listening Tour As Sex Difference In Communciation IS Noted

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As I have repeatedly said, I am not a political person and this is not a political blog. I have no agenda and I am merely reporting what I observe and I observed something very upsetting that the press seems to be doing with Hillary Clinton as she is on her Listening Tour.

As a Presidential candidate, Hillary is on a Listening Tour whereby she listens to people’s opinions. In our culture you say umhm or uh huh to indicate to the other person you are listening and processing what they are saying. That is exactly what Hillary was doing when she responded with umhum to people’s comments and opinions. Yet some silly reporters culled a so called expert who ridiculously said Hillary suffers from Uh Hum Syndrome.

Hillary Clinton does NOT suffer from Uh Huh Syndrome or Um Hum Syndrome or any other Syndrome. She is doing what ALL candidates do who are on a listening tour.

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In his ignorant  article author  Derek Hunter stated “Mrs. Clinton nodded and said “Un-huh” 88 times during this stop on the New Hampshire stop on her “listening tour.”  I say, THAT”S GREAT!” It means that 88 times she was polite enough and responsive enough to acknowledge what someone said and respond with uh hhuh and nod. It is no surprise that the article was written by a male who is clearly not familiar with Sex Differences in communication.

Then they culled an equally ignorant female expert, Lynn Weiss who wrongly stated  Hillary was suffering from Uh Huh Syndrome . They even put together a video of how many times she said Uh Huh during her listening tour in an attempt to embarrass her:

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What both the author of the article and the so called expert  failed   to recognize is that women listen much differently then men listen. Men may say nothing as you speak. They may say uh huh only if they agree with something said. Women on the other hand say uh huh to let you know that they have heard you, not that they necessarily agree with you. It is a form of politeness which is meant to encourage the speaker to keep talking and that they were heard.

So here we see our first signal of misinterpretation of a female candidate and making a mountain out of something that is a natural phenomena for women.

Before journalists and so called experts begin to criticize Hillary’s communcation patterns they need to read   my classic book He Says She Says closing the Communication Gap Between the Sexes  which they can get on Amazon    http://www.amazon.com/He-Says-She-Lillian-Glass/dp/0399518126 so  they don’t  continue to spread wrong information and end up with egg on their face.

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Heather Mack Cocky, Entitled, Diva Body Language After 10 Year Sentence for Mother’s Murder

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Heather Mack,the troubled and entitled Chicago teen who constantly fought with her mother to the point that police were called countless times. She was taken on a  vacation to Bali by her wealthy socialite mother, Sheila von Wies Mack in order for the two to to bond and spend quality time together. But rebellious Heather wanted no part of it, So she invited her boyfriend Tommy Schaefer to join them in Bali, much to her mothers dislike.

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When checkout time came around, Sheila refused to pay for the boyfriends hotel bill which angered him. Angrily, he  hit her with an object, killing, dismembering her body and stuffing it into a suitcase. Pregnant  Heather and her boyfriend then  fled to a nearby resort and planned to board a plane the next day for the US but they were caught and taken to jail. In jail Heather gave birth to a baby girl. The couple has finally been sentenced- Heather for 10 years and her boyfriend for 18 years.

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Heather showed no remorse for her mothers death and celebrated by guzzling smuggled in alcohol from a plastic bag. As you can see from her actions and body language she is loving her life in Kerabokan Prison in Indonesia. She is acting like a star and loving the attention lavished upon her by the press.

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She mugs for the camera and jokes with the press and calls them by name- Ari, Osha, etc. She beckons them to come closer to her cell to get a better photo and even scolds them for publishing what she considers unattractive photos of herself in the press.She mugs for them as you can see in the above photo.

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Her biggest complaint about the sentencing was that her boyfiend will have to be in prison for 8 more years when she is released and she is not happy about that. In fact, she calls it unfair. She says that he daughter needs to have her father around when she is a young girl and is upset about that. She is clearly more upset about that than she is about her mother being  dead and gone forever.

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Meanwhile, Tommy’s body language after his sentencing of 18 years was revealead by his gestures in  angrily swatting away reporters and in shooting them an obscene gesture with his middle finger. His anger is also revealed in his tight muscles around his lips and in his biting his lower lip.

In reality,  these two spoiled and entitled creatures have nothing to be angry about. They should both be jumping for joy. If their crime would have happened in the US they would have received life or the death sentence. They also could have received a death sentence by firing squad in Indonesia but their lives were spared according to the press because they were the parents of a newborn baby.

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At first it was reported that Heather was awkward with the baby but now motherhood has kicked in and her  maternal instincts seem to have taken over. She appears to be affectionate towards the infant as she comforts the baby is often seen rocking it. Maybe this is the silver lining that has come out of such a dark situation. According to  Kerobokan prison officials,  she will be allowed to keep the baby with her for a period of six months. After that the baby will be with relatives. The only hting is that there are no relatives on her side, so perhaps Tommy’s parents will care for the baby. On the other hand, perhaps a kindly Indonesian family will take care of the baby and bring the baby to see her mother for regular visits. Heather could certianly afford to do this as she inherited the millions of dollars left by her now deceased parents.

Since Heather has money, life in Kerobokan prison will be easy for her. Instead of the traditional squat toilet she will be able to have a western style sit down toilet.  She will be able to order in food from the outside and will receive top dental and medical care. She will have her own quarters with clean linens and will be allowed to freely roam the premises at her liesure . She can watch all the TV she likes and see the latest DVD’s which are regularly brought in by volunteer workers.  If she wants to do so, she can get a college education via correspondence course, If she was smart, she should look into that so when she comes out of prison in 10 years she could begin a  new life with a new  set of skills due to her education. She will be able to have a cell phone and use the computer to her heart’s desire.

Tommy may have it even better  than Heather in prison as he too will have all of these things in Kerobokan Prison but he will have tennis courts and tennis matches where he can participate. He can help raise dogs in the prisoner assistance dog program they have, he can continue his education as he too as complete access to computers and cell phones. He and header can speaker 24 7 id they like. They can video chat and text one another at will.

Since the emphasis at the prison is rehabilitation, they have sewing, silversmithing,reflexology, and Norwegian philosophy classes, and  hairdressing and barber skill training. They can also continue with a formal education at any University of their choosing that offers an online degree or a correspondence type of program. They can also get all of the psychological counseling they want as there is regular counseling by visiting psychologists. So Heather an work out her mother and her mental issues, while Tommy can work out his anger issues.

The whole situation is so terribly sad.  At 62, Shelia von Wies Mack is dead after close to two decades of struggling with her very difficult daughter. May she now rest in peace and may Heather treat her own daughter a lot better than she treated her mother.

Jodi Arias Musgshot Shows She’s Scared As Reality Finally Sets In

Screen Shot 2015-04-14 at 11.11.26 PMGone is the smug smile, the cockiness and the “I know I am going to eventually be a free woman” attitude.  Present is the fear based on her  tear glistened eyes, flat mid-face, pallid skin tone,  and  the tight muscle tension in her  lower jaw. Her autonomic nervous  system has taken over and gone into high gear. This is not the face of the Jodi we have come to know over the past seven years.It is a Jodi that just had the most severe reality check of her life- that she can no longer manipulate people or the system and that she will only leave prison in a pine box.

While she knew she would get punished for what she did to Travis,  there is no doubt that she thought she would be getting out in 25 years or less. As  this reality settles into her mind and soul, the once happy go lucky  Jodi with her dangerously  sickening sweet sing song voice will become more and more depressed as the drawn out long days stare her in the face.  When you do see photos of Jodi on the coming years, she may not look recognizable to you as her facial muscles will morph into giving her an whole different look and it will not be for the better.

In Perryville no one will be putting up with her shenanigans. Her  smug ” I am smarter  and better than you” arrogance will not do her any favors in prison among the other inmates.

Jodi is not a likable person and didn’t have many friends in life until she joined the Mormon church and then for the first time in her life,  found a whole new social life because of Travis.

While her new Mormon friends embraced her initially, they soon became wary of her. They felt something was off with her and ended up not liking her. Jodi did not learn how to make friends  and influence people throughout  her life. While she learned to manipulate, seduce, and blame others, she never learned how to genuinely connect with others. Her lack of social skills will not put her in good standing in prison. In fact, it will make her a moving target of hate from her fellow inmates.

So don’t be surprised if down the road,  you hear that Jodi has been involved in some type of attack or assault by fellow inmates. This is not wishful thinking. Jodi just happens to be a good candidate for being assaulted due to her cocky arrogance and the ” I’m better than you” air she gives off.