Body Language Shows How Many Female Celebs Were Overly Affectionate and Flirtatious With a Then Powerful Harvey Weinstein

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As we have now know, Harvey Weinstein has been accused of raping, harassing, and  abusing women throughout his reign as Hollywood’s most powerful mogul and starmaker. But as you can see from the body language in these photos  of  Harvey Weinstein with various female celebrities, there were those who were quite affectionate with him.  Many were even outwardly receptive and perhaps even leading the affections as you can see in some of the photos below.

Perhaps some  they played the “kiss up to Harvey to get ahead or stay working  game”,  “the Emperor has News Clothes when the Emperor is really Naked  game”, or perhaps they were  victims of Stockholm Syndrome where they identified with the perpetrator. Perhaps some were overly affectionate because they wanted to  be or remain in his good graces, star in hs next movie or do a business deal with him.

While many were late in the game to join in and denounce Harvey it is hard to believe that they didn’t know what he was really like. Everyone knew.  Hollywood is like any small town where everyone knows your business and what you are all about. They either chose to look the other way and ignore it, they knew and didn’t care, or they went along with it.

Whatever the case, you will see just how many celebs, who have now joined the bandwagon to denounce Harvey  were indeed singing a different tune about him earlier.

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Meryl Streep’s body language showed she really liked Harvey as she takes the lead and in an aggressive position has her arm engulfing him as she reaches over his chest to his arm. In the photo on the left she leans right into Harvey, whereas he is not leaning into her. Many feel it was too little too late when she denounced Harvey and now you can see why.

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Another latecomer to denounce Harvey is Judy Dench as she leans back in comfort as Harvey hugs her. Harvey also tells a story  on a Brittish talk show where  he says she  showed him her butt tattoo. That is pretty intimate. Was this her way flirting with Harvey and in turn keeping her working status with him as an older actress?

Screen Shot 2017-10-22 at 2.35.32 AMHeidi Klum certainly knew where her bread was buttered as Harvey chose her to be the host of Project Runway, which jumpstarted her career as a host and talent show judge so here she is kissing him, She is all over harvey with her hugs and kisses as she aggressively engulfs him and nuzzles up to him.

Oprah also is the one initiating a kiss to Harvey and  intiating a hug towards him as she  has done a lot of business with him. She doesn’t outright denounce him publically,  but instead calls what happened a “watershed moment.”

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In this photo  above, Rene Zellewegers arm is draped  strategically positioned between Harvey’s legs and she is way too comfortable around Harvey, which fueled many rumors that she actually slept with Harvey http://wild941.com/2017/10/13/renee-zellweger-sleep-harvey-weinstein-fame/  Perhaps that is why  now she has been lying low and keeping quiet about the Harvey scandal.

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Jennifer Lawrence leans into Harvey with an open mouthed  hearty flirtateous laugh as she ingratiates herself to Harvey.

While Jennifer now denounces Harvey and says she  is disturbed by him, she openly engaged with him in a flirtateous manner with head thrown back and was very receptive to him as you can see by her body language. She hugs him tightly and presses her chest into his body.

Screen Shot 2017-10-22 at 2.56.13 AMFor someone who complained about being threatened to wear his wife’s dress designs , Felicity Huffman seems pretty aggressive with her engulfing hug and leaning her body into Harvey.

These are just a few examples of the countless stars  who fawned over Harvey who then had the power to make or break their careers- even those who were already successful. Now they denounce him. Some say they never knew. But in such a small town where there are no secrets truth be told- everyone knew. It also makes you wonder how many female stars actually had sex with Harvey  or  allowed his shenanigans in exchange for a role or a career in order to get ahead  in one way or another.

It shows that the while the casting couch has certainly victimized many, in some cases that couch may have been used further one’s own career and status. Now I am not accusing any of these women above of doing so, but know that this may very well be  another side of the story for some of the women.

Harvey has proven to be a disgusting pig  who detests women and looks at it all as a sick game to fuel his perverted predatory needs as so many people can’t be making this up. In my view he needs to be in prison for what he did to so many people. But we cannot overlook that here is  also another dark side to this story. That side is that perhaps there were those women who knew about Harvey’s ways and tried to use it to their advantage to get what they wanted out of him as well. Once again.

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Body Language Shows Otto Warmbier Did Not Steal Banner and Was Used by North Korea to Teach USA a Lesson About Their Cruelty As He Returns in A Coma and Dies

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There is nothing more  tragic  than what happened to  22 year young college student Otto Warmbier who had a beautiful future ahead of him.  He has died of a brain injury where the oxygen was cut off to his brain and the brains cells began to degenerate leaving him essentially a vegetable.North Koreans said he was in a coma for a year because of botulism ( the same thing botox is made of) and that he took s sleeping pill. Doctors in the US who examined his comatose body thoroughly and  said there was no trace of botulism but that his air supply was cut off causing the brain damage.

The propaganda by the North Koreans was that he stole a banner. They gave some cockamaimie reason that Warmboer did it for the church and on a $200 bet. This is ridiculous according to his father Fred Warmbier in that he wasn’t a member of the church and certainly did not need $200 to win a  bet. That sounds like something a naive Korean propagandist would make up.

As we learn more and more about Otto we see he was a super bright young man who never even had a fight. he was not a trouble maker.

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After again reviewing the tapes of his allegedly stealing a banner, in light of what we know of Otto, I have doubts that he did so.  It seems very mechanical and staged. It is my view that perhaps he was made to do this by the North Koreans, who then filmed him. I believe he was singled out because of his height. he was the only one in the group who could easily reach the banner and take it down.

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Look at the photo of him with some of his fellow students who were on the trip with him in North Korea. Observe his height and his presence.

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Now look what Warmbier does with the banner. he places it down on the ground. To me that seems odd. If he was planning to steal it he would not have put it on the ground in a mechanical methodical way. Instead he would have folded it under his arm and quickly walked away. But that is not what happened

From what we know, he was a very intelligent young man and has never been in trouble or even had a fight according to his father. Usually when people steal banners or commit acts of vandalism they don’t do it quietly. They do it in the presence of others as a form of showing off. His walk is too mechanical for this to be anything other than a staged attempt in my view by the North Koreans to show he did something wrong.

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His apology was a performance  as his father admitted in his presser.   But nevertheless he was in sheer terror as he did what he was supposed to do- apologize for his act which no doubt the North Koreans staged.  His praying above was real and his face shows he is in terror. As he looks up to pray to God he says ” Save this poor innocent scapegoat.” He is in essence telling us that he was used as a scapegoat by the Koreans to show how bad the Americans are and to detain him and punish him as a symbol of punishing the US.

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Look at his face. he is in anguish. He knows exactly what will happen and he is devastated.

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Screen Shot 2017-06-19 at 8.58.56 PM.pngHe did what the North Koreans told him to do and made a public apology which he read and which the North Koreans, no  doubt wrote for him to say. In this photo you can see the script that he was no doubt forced to read.  His father said that he was proud of his son’s performance as that is exactly what it was. Look at Warmbier in this photo. He is alert and his skin tone is flush and his eyes are open and bright.

 

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As he apologies he is in tears as he is forced to say what never happened and apologizing for something he was told to do by the North Koreans. Look at his right wrist , To me it looks bruised as though he was placed into tight handcuffs.

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As he stands up and realizes he will be going into a hard labor camp, the realization hits him hard and he is in mental and emotional agony.

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As soon as Warmbier is taken out of the courtroom his skin tone has changed. He is more pale. he is subdued as though he may have been given a shot or a pill to calm him down as  he is dragged by these two North Korean enforcers and Warmbier can barely stand on his feet. He can barely walk.

Screen Shot 2017-06-19 at 9.10.07 PM.pngHis devastated parents were told nothing and were not allowed to have any contact with him. the Obama administration told them to lay low and they did NOTHING to inform the parents as to what was going on or to help get their son released. The father n essence said that he holds Obama and his administration responsible for not doing anything to help their son. They were only told a week ago that their son had been in a coma for a year. This in my view is unconscionable and cruel and inhumane. But that is exactly what Kim Jung Un wanted to do. he wanted to show how cruel he could be on the world stage and he succeeded. It was only through the efforts  of the Trump administration and Rex Tillerson  that Otto Warmbier was released to his parents.  Unfortunately, he was released to them  as a comatose vegetable instead of the vibrant son they once knew.

Screen Shot 2017-06-19 at 8.57.37 PM.pngIf you look at Otto on his arrival he looks pale and cannot move on his own. Apparently though medical tests it was revealed  that he would not see or hear and that there was extensive brain damage. His father said that when he arrived his face showed a lot of tension but when he settled in at the hospital and his mother was at his side along with his father  his face relaxed. Obviously he was given a  lot of touch and made to feel comfortable- something he was deprived of for over a year in North Korea. Whatever brain cells he had left in terms of hearing and feeling, he knew he was with those he loved him and his facial muscles and body language responded.

The brain damage was so extensive that there was no way Otto could recover, so his parents made the agonizing decision to let him go. No parent should ever have to make this decision, but in Otto’s case, there was no hope and no chance of recovery whatsoever. The damage done to him in North Korea was so massive, he could not be rehabilitated. Perhaps his systems were shutting down as well.

Perhaps the parents took him off life support and gave life support of his organs to those who could use them like donating his heart, liver,  kidneys, eyes, lungs, pituitary gland, ear bones, and skin. Perhaps they gave others a gift of life through Otto so that Otto could live on through them. But we will never know at this point.

May this precious young man forever rest in peace and may his legacy be an example to every American who travels abroad. Do NOT go to countries where the Department of State reports there is danger. Do not listen to any advertisements from any other country telling you it is safe to go there when the Department of State says the opposite.

I have no doubt that Otto Warmbier was singled out and  used as a political pawn to be used as an example of what North Koreans are capable of doing. If you have that gene that makes you live on life’s razor’s edge and want excitement, find it elsewhere, not in North Korea or in countries where the Department of State tells you to beware.

Kathy Griffin Body Language Shows Fake Apology And Should NEVER Be Forgiven

Screen Shot 2017-05-31 at 12.30.19 AM.pngThere is absolutely NOTHING  funny about comedian Kathy Griffin’s showing a macabre shocking beheaded President  Trump with blood dripping down his face and matted into his blond hair . It’s one thing to disagree with Trump or his policies and to voice  opposition but this is unacceptable to do something like this. She  needs to be held accountable for her behavior forever and boycotted from all media, comedy venues and needs to be dealt with legally for inciting violence against the President.

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Watching her pathetic hollow monotone apology was equally as repulsive.It is clear that she ONLY apologized because of the backlash which she openly admitted. Any apology that is made for that reason should never be accepted. Hers was not a true, heartfelt apology as she rolled her eyes and grimaced, Her Facial Language said” I;m forced to do this so that is the only reason I am apologizing. Look at her insincere facial expressions. There is  no remorse whatsoever.

The first phoney thing about her is her lack of makeup. This is a woman who is ALWAYS made up and for her to go without makeup shows how phony and contrived she is being.  Look at what she does with her lips. Its a defiant lip position which indicates she really doesn’t want to make this apology as it is not from her heart.

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She says Hey everybody it’s me as she bows her head. This indicates that she is embarrassed by the negative feedback she received.

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She says “I sincerely apologize” as she shakes her head “NO,” When you make a positive statement followed by negative body language like shaking your head “no: it is your body leaking out that you are not really apologizing.

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She then closes her eyes as she says she apologizes which also indicates that she doesn’t want to really apologize. When someone honestly apologizes they open their eyes.

Screen Shot 2017-05-31 at 12.46.12 AM.pngShe said “I am just now seeing the reaction of these images. ” As she says this she closes her eyes as to subconsciously not wanting to see how bad people’s reactions to her action s were. She doesn’t take responsibility as she says the “reaction of these images.” In essence she is distancing herself.

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Then this creature has the audacity to roll her eyes and says I crossed the line- I moved the line and then I crossed it. Her Facial Language shows that she is defiant and disgusted at having to apologize. It looks like a spoiled child rolling their eyes because they have to do something their mother told them to do that hy didn’t want to do.

then she shows how unapologetic she is as she says she realizes that the image “was disturbing.”WHAT???? The image was disturbing???? The fact that you could show a beheaded President of the United States that you have in essence murdered in effigy  is more disturbing.”But she does not address this as she obviously thinks there is nothing wrong with that. She just thinks it is wrong because the image of a bloody face and matted blood on the hair is disturbing.

Then  without apologizing this egomaniac says she” made a lot of mistaks” in her career and will continue to make them. Well here’s a  news flash Kathy, you will no longer make any mistakes in your career because it is essentially OVER!

When CNN is against you and your buddy Anderson Cooper chastises you and Chelsea Clinton who is a staunch supporter of her mother  Hillary and is always quick to criticize Trump, says it is a “no no” to joke about killing any President, you are doomed. Squatty Potty just fired you and I doubt if anyone will hire you as they will not want your “stink” on them. Even those celebs who are against Trump find your actions appalling. If CNN puts you on for New Years eve you can bet that CNN will be boycotted even more than it is already. They can’t afford to have you on any longer as their ratings are too low already.

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And when you read a tweet that says:

Threats made against @SecretService protectees receive the highest priority of all of our investigations. #ProtectionNeverRests

— U.S. Secret Service (@SecretService) May 30, 2017

It means that the “head”  you are holding up detached from it’s body and dripping with blood  to indicate a death, may very well reflect  your own head as you have certainly killed your career forever.

ASSAD’S BODY LANGUAGE AND VOICE ON BBC IN RESPONSE TO NOT HAVING CHEMICAL WEAPONS SHOWS HIS MANY SIGNALS OF DECEPTION

Screen Shot 2017-04-14 at 3.18.18 PM.pngWhen someone begins a statement with “So” it is not a got sign in the telling the truth department.  His looking down is also a red flag in terms of being honest and forthright.

Syrian President Bashar al-Assad  says “we don’t have any chemical weapons” and says this in a monotone with a glottal fry as he dies off at the end of his statement which is usually a major signal of deception,

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He then gets really breathy and his breathing changes as he says “we gave up our arsenal two years ago.”. This is also a signal of deception in most cases. As he says this he looks down and you can see the visible change in his respiration as he uses more upper chest breathing.

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He says even if r had them we wouldn’t use them ( said in an unemotional montone) , he then says UH ( another signal of deception in this contexts) as he says he have never used UH our chemical arsenal in our history. His head is cocked to the side as you see here which is also often  signal of deception considering the context. His voice is breathy and waivering and not solid as one’s voice would be if they were being forthright in denying chemical attacks.

When asked by the interviewer what happened, he doesn’t make sense. He says “as I said” but he didn’t say .. Then he blames it on Al Qaeda.

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With head still cocked to the side and monotone low intensity and low volume speech pattern, he covers himself for liable as he says It is our impression that the West – the United States is hand and glove with the terrorists. As he says this there is a mono-expression which means no emotion and no reaction on his face. And then he raises his eyebrows which means he is doubting what he has just said which is a signal of deception

He continues to die off at the end of his sentences and is barely audible which is yet another signal of deception. He continues to cover himself by saying “that is what we believe .” He doesnt accuse, he just gives his opinion so legally he can’t get into hot water.

He says that the US made this up as a pretext and “that is what ‘we” believe.” He says it is propaganda and thereas no investigation. As he says this he is still monototne and dies off at end.

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Now look at his body language,turned inward His  toes  are turned inward whichin dicates insecurity on his part which is also reflected in his tone and voice pattern and his fingers are interlocked as he gestures.

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You also see a shoulder shrug which further indicates deceptive movement as he continues to point the finger at Al Qaeda.And he begins his next statement with a long EHHHHH sound which does not do much for his credibility in my view.

“About the attack it is not clear whether it happened or not”, says Asad. He dies off at the end as he says this which is a signal of deception.

He also shows the back of his hand as she gestures which can also bee seen as a signal of deception along with his barely audible voice which speaks volumes to me.

He then says we don’t know if it   happened or not as you  can’t tell since there are so many “fake videos” out there  on the internet now. He says they are Al Qaeda who shave their beard wore white hats and appeared as humanitarian  heroes which is not the case. As eh says this he strugs his shoulder.

He also questions of the children were really children of that area or if they were dead at all. The then asks who committed the attack if there was an attack?

The fact that he is asking questions, instead of giving answers concerns me.  When people ask a myriad of questions as opposed to giving facts, it is often suspect and leads one to believe they are not  being forthright.

He says you have no information at all as he shrugs his shoulders. Well since he is being accused, why not get some information and show proof that he didn’t do it as he said. But by asking questions and pointing the finger and speculation it makes one further dowt Assad’s veracity  of what he is saying and credibility.

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At the end he gets defensive and puts his hand between his legs indicating that he is feeling vulnerable in doing this gesture. He gestures with his palms to him and that is also not a good signal as far as being truthful is concerned in my estimation.

Screen Shot 2017-04-14 at 4.49.38 PM.pngAnd finally what really makes me believe he is not being forthright is that when he is asked if he thinks this is a fabrication, looks down and shakes his head no when he should be shaking it yes as he relies, :”Definately, a 100 percent  and stammers on the words huh hundred percent. His voice and tone is also disturbing to me in that it is too monotone and he is way too inaudible

In order to get a baseline of how Assad sounded earlier in his speeches, his voice appeared strong and audible and his gestures were more formidable and forceful. So that leads me to believe he knows a lot more than he is saying in the interview to the BBC.

Casey Anthony’s Revealing Voice In AP interview Shows Shows Signals of Deception, Arrogance, Annoyance, and Hostility

 

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Then the reporter asks Something about drowning possibly. Casey  immediately turns arrogant in her tone and gets louder in volume and  says everyone has their theories and punctuates it with a monotonous I don’t know devoid of any emotion.

Screen Shot 2017-03-07 at 9.46.40 AM.png She is asked so your parents had her. Her voice us up as if asking a question as she said “My did did?” To me that is a signal of deception.

Screen Shot 2017-03-07 at 9.49.04 AM.pngWhen asked how did it play. She say I did what I was told. I don’t remember too much of what  ( and then she hesitates and stops for a second and says happened. which is another signal of  deception in my view.

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When asked when things went wrong, he answer makes no sense. The reporter says ” IS that how it went” She says No  and there is a ( pause )  and then she slowly articulates “What I remember is my mom  coming in  before she went to work and saying goodby to us”.” AS she says this is sounds like she is putting a lot of effort into thinking about what she is going to say about this as she speaking time is slow. She then pauses. which is unnatural and says ” And then waking up several hours later.”

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And now we really see deception.  First she repeats exactly what the reporter says in parrot-like fashion. This is often a signal of deception n my view.”Several hours later” which she said is NOT “an hour or two hours” later as she now tells the reporter. So in essence she just lied as she now changed her story.  The reporter asks “Don’t you wish you know what happened.” Casey sounds very defensive in her tone as she says “Absolutely”.

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What happens next, is totally nauseating as Casey says Caylee would be 12 this year.When the reporter asks what would she be like, Casey projects her own rebellious attitude  at tat age and hostility on to Caylee as she says ” total- bad ass asn laughs and even goes so far as to describe the type of music the dead child would be listening to is she were alive.- classic rock and says how she would be playing sports and “not takin’ shit from anyone.” This is Casey’s projection and idealization of herself, which she clearly projected onto her dead daughter.

She now lives and works with the private investigator on her defense team Patrick McKenna. She then defensively says how she doesn’t care about what people think of her but the revealing part is when she says I sleep ” and then she pauses  for a second as she continues with pretty good at night.” to me that is a signal of deception as one wonders if she really does sleep pretty good at night when deep deep down in her subconscious she knows what happened to her dead daughter.

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What makes me further think this is deception is when she showed off Caylee’s a finger painting artwork to the interviewer and openly sobbed. Unike during her interview. she obviously she feels emotion about Caylee, and maybe that emotion is guilt and remorse for what she allegedly did to Caylee.

 

 

 

 

Nancy Pelosi Body Language- Hypocrisy, Anger, Deception Busted About Russia

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This is political  hypocrisy at it’s finest. Right after Nancy Pelosi’s accusations against Republicans over Jeff Sessions’ alleged meetings with the Russian ambassador, she showed some revealing body language which shows there is clearly more than meets the eye as far as Nancy Pelosi is concerned as she did the same the same thing  as Sessions when she was asked a similar question. Since the body doesn’t’ lie, Pelosi’s body language says it all and it looks to me like she was taken aback. Does she herself have something to hide?

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Politico reporter Jake Sherman directly asked Pelosi “You’ve been in Congress a little bit and you’re in leadership, have you ever met with the Russian ambassador?’

Pelosi was shocked!  this was revealed in her immediate awkward silence which took much longer than a person who had nothing to hide answering the question.  Pelosi  phumfered “Not with this Russian ambassador, no,” before  she quickly tried to change the subject and move on. When you put the word “no” at the end of a sentence, there is often trouble brewing. When you are being open and forthright you say No at the beginning of the sentence and then go on to explain. So immediately it put a huge red flag up for me.

Thne she explains herself. When you give an open honest answer you don’t explain and sound defensive  and have a catch in your tone. Then Sherman asked “Is it normal to meet with ambassadors?” and her reply was “Yeah,” She did not says “yes it certainly is, or yes or yes it is. She blurted out a yeah.

Her body language also  seemed to me to scream many signals of deception.

screen-shot-2017-03-03-at-10-21-49-amFirst she shows the back of her hand which is the first bad signal.It shows she is shocked at the question as she looks away.

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Then she closes her eyes as if not to deal with the question- to shut it out literally. She also reaches for her throat which is the most vulnerable part of your body. It is a form of self protection and means she is feeling really vulnerable at this question being thrown at her.

Screen Shot 2017-03-03 at 10.24.56 AM.pngNo here she is super angry as she makes a karate chop gesture as you can see the movement of her hand which is caught in the photo.She also looks away as she can’t even face the interviewer which is another bad sign. In essence her karate chop gestures says “cut it off.”

Screen Shot 2017-03-03 at 10.25.52 AM.pngShe is still showing the back of her hand and not the palms which is yet another red flag signal to me.  She also does not look at the interviwers which is yet another signal red flag moment.

Screen Shot 2017-03-03 at 10.27.20 AM.pngNow this is a very serious moment for me red flag wise as she shows how vulnerable she is now that she in essence got busted. She reaches for her vulnerable area- her throat region.

Screen Shot 2017-03-03 at 10.27.59 AM.pngNow her facial expression really shows how angry and upset she is that she got “caught with her pants down” so to speak. She is no dummy when it comes to the game of politics and she knows the repercussions of this question and her mind is spinning at 100 miles per hours to see how she can now spin her answer to look good to the public. The hand on the throat which remains is now even more telling when matched with her upset facial expression.

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So there you have it- one politician call the kettle black when her pot is just as black. This my fans and friends and readers is why I detest politics. It is full of these lies, these games, and this hypocrisy which we have just seen. It is why I support no party over the other and no candidate over the other. It is why I am impartial and neuutral because they both end up doing and saying the same thing at one time or another. So it is a waste of time to keep it all straight as far as I am concerned.

Politics is a game as we  just saw and it is a very serious and dangerous game. It is about besmirching one to others and vice versa. So if you ever dare to accuse me of being partisan or representing one candidate over another I will refer you to this Pelosi blog I just did.

 

Dr. Lillian Glass’ Communication and Handshaking Advice to Trump To Make Friends and Influence People

screen-shot-2016-11-13-at-6-26-44-pmThere is no question that  Presidential Candidate Donald Trump, did it “his way” and won the election.  But now that he is the President, as a 30 year veteran communication expert,  I would like to offer him some very useful advice. I  recommend that he tone down “his way” in terms of how he communicates publically. The bragging, self aggrandizement, constant self reference, lack of humility, using over inflated terms terms like “never in the history as anyone…” as it pertains to his achievements  needs to stop immediately.

 It is starting not to  work with friends and supporters and it is definitely not working with foes. It is merely adding fuel to their fire.

The universal rule of communication is  humility.  No one responds well to a braggart. No one likes to hear someone tell how great they are even if they invested a cure for cancer and solved the national debt. First and foremost, he must STOP constantly talking about himself and bragging on himself and saying how great he is. He needs others to say that about him. He does not need to say it about himself.

While  it may have worked with the late  boxer  Muhammed Ali, it was often tongue and cheek and said with humour.  It even worked for Trump when he was a celebrity and entertainer. But as a President,  it looks awful when Trump says it about himself. As a world leader, it  smacks of arrogance, self absorption,  and insecurity. It is  just plain bad form.

No matter where you live in the world, there is no doubt you were raised hearing the saying “don’t get big headed” or “don’t get too big for your britches,” don’t brag about yourself” or  “Stop showing off .” Most cultures appreciate graciousness and humility, especially when it comes to one’s own achievements. 

Yes,  self confidence is wonderful and it is essential to have a healthy dose of self esteem and confidence  for what you have done, what you are currently doing, and what you plan to do. But Keep it to yourself  or only share it with your intimates and very close circle of friends and family. Let people know your achievements but do it humbly.

No one likes a continuous braggart or someone who exaggerates for effect, or  who is big headed. It alienates  most people and it is off- putting. That is how many physicians who tend to be too full of themselves often end up in trouble with patients and in legal disputes.

Now that he is the President, he needs to keep it less personal and strictly focus on and discuss the issues just as passionately as he talks about himself.  He needs to speak less about himself and more about us and how the issues affect us.

TRUMP”S PRESSER CALLING OUT FAKE NEWS 

 Donald Trump’s recent presser focused on setting the record straight and  admonishing the “fake news” and  many less than professional journalists. In my view his speech was correct and what he said finally  needed to be said. Had I not personally  experienced  what he is talking about – the spin and negativity, I would have never believed what Trump was saying. But he is absolutely correct in this regard. 

MISINTERPRETED TRUMP/ ABE HANDSHAKE AND FACIAL GESTURE 

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I have been doing countless interviews about the Trump/ Abe handshake all over the world and have been setting the record straight that there was no problem between Trump and Japanese Prime Minister Abe. In fact their body language each showed that they really liked one another.  This was indicated by their body language. Trump did the double handshake which shows genuine affection and Abe leaned into Trump and his toes pointed in Trump’s direction, indicating he really liked Trump. He also showed a genuine smile with his apples of his cheeks raised, eyes squinted, and teeth showing. 

No one overpowered anyone. As they were equally formidable in their approach. In fact Abe directed the photo op as she told Trump “look at me” which Trump immediately did. They maintained. eye to eye contact as they both  had a strong handshake. In fact Trump remarked that Abe had a strong handshake.  

When the photo op was finally over and they both broke their strong handshake, Ave looked up ( as though he was searching for someone) and immediately an aide ( in glasses) came over to him. He did NOT roll his eyes at Trump. Japanese people do not do that when they are exasperated or when they are not happy about someone. So the take that journalists had on this was wrong. Many called me to verify that the relationship between Trump and Abe was bad. i told them that is was not and set the record straight. Most journalists were great and reported my take and saw my point of view.

But there were others who simply would have none of it.I found that distressing. When the election was taking place Quartz, a new publication which is an offshoot of the Atlantic Monthly paid me to write a story on Trump and Pence’s handshake and body language which I gladly did.

Several days ago, I got an urgent email from one of Quartz’s writers Selian Cheng who wanted to know my take on the Trump. Abe handshake.  The article involved no pay as it was just my opinion. I got back to her immediately with the view I described above. Then  never heard back from her. Finally,  she emailed me to let me now she found someone else and wanted to use other body language expert to get their different view.

I then emailed her back and asked why she even bothered to contact me in the first place if that was her aim all along  as it wasted her time and mine. After reading the article in Quartz which she wrote, it appeared to me in my view  that my quote didn’t apparently match her spin of the story which was very anti-Trump and mischaracterized the whole handshake situation,. So she simply got another body language “expert” ( and I use that term loosely)  who’s views may have  matched her agenda in my view. It saddened me as that is not how I learned to do journalism as a journalism student at the best journalism school in the country, USC.  

I felt bad about this so I wanted to share my thoughts with the Editor in Chief of Quartz. Unfortunately I didn’t get the chance because his Editorial Assistant Molly Rubin, with whom I shared why I was calling, in  what I perceived as a nasty tone, said “thank you very much” and hung up on me. So there you have it!  Obviously she didn’t want to hear what I had to say on the matter and with the Toxic behavior she showed me, I doubt anyone got my message or concern.

FUTURE BODY LANGUAGE  ADVICE CONCERNING  HANDSHAKING 

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Donald Trump is a man who is very demonstrative and effusive in terms of his affection. He even kissed Pence when Pence was  nominated as Vice President.

 Many are not used to it, so they are taken aback and they are making a huge deal out of his  kissing, handshakes and effusive greetings.

 But I can assure you the way he meets and greets is part of the norm in Hollywood and Trump is very Hollywood when it comes to his greetings. People tend to be more   open, affectionate and effusive in show business than they are in other businesses. So we tend to be used to this.

Personally, I find it refreshing. If you really like someone , you let it be known. That is what Trump did with Abe, Pence, Trudeau and others he likes. With Trudeau, they not only shook hands, they both embraced shoulders which is an even bigger display of mutual affection. It is NOT by any means a power play when it is mutual. It showed they were on equal footing in terms of their affection towards one another. 

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Trump doesn’t hide his positive emotions and I say he should continue to do what he is going in terms of being genuine  in his meet and greets, which have received world- wide attention.

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Apparently many world leaders who are planning to meet President Trump in the future are concerned with how to approach the newly elected President when they meet him. “How can the leader best shake his hand”  was the question a Chinese journalist  from China’s major newspaper asked me in regard to Chinese President Xi’s upcoming visit to the United States.

 I let her know that the best way to approach Trump in terms of his hand-shaking is to mirror him. If he does the double handshake with his hand on top of Xi’s, then Xi, also needs to do the same . This will indicate mutual warmth and affection and will not be read as Trump taking charge or overpowering. I also suggested that Xi match Trump’s strength and firmness in terms of his handshake.

 I also suggested that Xi not bold back and be genuine in his feelings, because Trump certainly will hold nothing back.  I assured the Chinese journalist  during our interview that the body doesn’t lie no matter how hard you may try to control it. The truth always leaks out.