Body Language of Porn Star Trump Accuser In Question With Multiple Signals of Deception


While I take allegations of sexual harassment very seriously, after seeing so many signals in deception in the other Trump accusers and now in this recent porn star accuser, I am convinced that this is nothing other than a smear campaign. Like the other accusers this recent porn star came forth 10 years too late and 15 days before the election.

Screen Shot 2016-10-24 at 8.11.48 AM.png

Watching Gloria Allred  guide and coach her through the script is ridiculous, if not hilarious with Gloria’s serious puss reading the script  along with the accuser to make sure the accuser  doesn’t get off track or make any mistakes. Also the oversized glasses to make her look intelligent is so contrived and absolutely hilarious as well.The whole scenario is so laughable, especially since the porn star just put up a website to sell her porno wares the night before she held a presser to accuse Trump  of  something that  allegedly happened 10 years ago. The reading of the script is also suspect to me. If someone did something to me, I wouldn’t need a script. I could tell you directly without reading it.

Just so you know, many model actresses and even porn stars attend celebrity golf tournaments for pay in order to add some sexy color to the event. Most of these women jump at the chance to attend these events not only for the pay but for the chance to meet a celebrity, make career contacts to get other jobs as well as hooking up with, dating and perhaps even marrying a rich roller.  I know this for  fact because I have treated countless actress/ models  in my practice who have shared these experiences with me. Some have met and even married the men they met at the golf tournament. Others have bagged a film role or a television opportunity. The rich men want to hang with the pretty women and the pretty women want to snag a high roller for whatever purpose can benefit them.

So let’s get this straight.  It is in the morning and apparently  Trump is visiting the VIP Center  before the golf tournament begins, spots a an attractive porn star at the Porn company booth she works for and asks her to take a walk around the golf course. Already that sounds odd to me. Does he ask her to accompany him for his morning walk? Why does she go with him if she is manning the Porn booth.

Screen Shot 2016-10-24 at 8.20.55 AM.png.

He then allegedly asks her for his number when she is in the porn booth and she  gives him her number. If she didn’t want anything to do with him why would she give him her number? She said that he asked her to his suite but she felt uncomfortable so she had two other girls accompany her to the suite. So where are these alleged girls now? Why aren’t they up there  seated next to her and Gloria corroborating her story?

Screen Shot 2016-10-24 at 8.24.44 AM.png

Then the porn star breaks form her reading  and sneaks a peek  for the camera as she

Screen Shot 2016-10-24 at 8.27.58 AM.png

says she “didn’t feel comfortable ” as she she does a selfie- style lip pout for the camera.

Now  the  girls have allegedly all gone to Trump’s suite and what happens next is laughable to me. The porn star does some really bad acting as she acts all haughty and offended because Trump “grabbed each one of the girls and kissed them without asking permission.”  Is she serious???? First of all that is what people do when they meet you, especially in show business . They give you a kiss hello when they meet you.  No one asks permission to kiss you hello.  If you don’t like it you do an air kiss or you pull away. A Hollywood buss as I call it means “I like you”- “you’re Ok and welcome.” So  I see  absolutely nothing strange here, except for the fact that she is in the room of someone she allegedly  didn’t like or feel comfortable with. So porn star, why were you in Trump’s room in the first place?

Screen Shot 2016-10-24 at 8.30.40 AM.png

Now she breaths hard and then  licks her lips as you  can see which is usually a signal of deception as she said he was wearing pajamas. First of all wasn’t Trump already dressed earlier when he was allegedly at the porn booth and allegedly had her take a walk with him around the gold course? So why would he get back into his PJ”S. Had she said he was in a robe and naked underneath and his privates were hanging out, that would be one thing. But he was in in PJs. No way! I don’t buy it !

Screen Shot 2016-10-24 at 8.37.22 AM.png

Then she said  Trump had  a body guard was with him. Well I want to see that bodyguard and hear it from him as to what happened that morning. But there most likely was no body guard as revealed in her body language where she shakes her head NO as she mentions the bodyguard. If the bodyguard was there she would shake her head YES, not NO. This means there is a conflict in her words and her body language which is often a  signal of deception.

Then she gets even more ridiculous as she says Trump asked her about her porn life and what it was like and if she or the girls were married or single . To me that seems very reasonable and not out of line. He didn’t ask her  anything out of the ordinary. He was just making conversation, especially with someone he just met. which is a reasonable question when you just meant someone Then to me it is clear she is not telling the truth as she says

” his  questions it sounded like an interview. “PUHLEEEEZ . Asking about your life as a porn star is NOT and interview and he saying this sounds very fishy to me.


Screen Shot 2016-10-24 at 8.40.51 AM.png

Then she leaks out a smile which is classic”duping delight” signal of deception as she takes a deep breath.

She says a man called on Donald’s behalf.  Who is this man? Is he a butler,  a hotel worker, a waiter? She is not specific and  then she says he wants her to come back up to his room  35 minutes later which strikes me as very odd.

Screen Shot 2016-10-24 at 8.40.44 AM.png

As she says this we see her head cocks to the side which again may reflect a signal of deception.

And to me this is a non event and a non- story. So what that he  asked her to a dinner and she said no  and he asked her to a party and she said no. Then he allegedly asked her “What do you want?” To me based on Donald’s narcissism if you say NO to him , he will move on. With all the other beauties around, he is not going to pressure you. He will just go and find someone else.  So what she says does not  ring true to me.

Then what she says also does not ring true to me . A porn star’s motivation is usually money.So when he allegedly asked her “how much?,  doesn’t it seem reasonable that she would jump at the chance to name a price?  But then she said she lied to him and said she couldn’t be with him because she had to get back to LA for work.

Screen Shot 2016-10-24 at 8.46.33 AM.png

Now she lies as she cocks her head and makes  a loud expiration of breath as she says I did this as an excuse  because  I didn’t want hm to keep asking me. This smacks of  deception for a number of reasons.

First of all most of these women models are at the golf tournament to meet a man with status and money. I  know this for a fact as so many of them have been my clients. So there is no way she would turn down money or the time spent with a celeb unless she felt she could make more money with an even hotter guy or someone who could do something for her career.


Now this sounds  like a PURE LIE to me when she says it using  an upward inflection as though she is asking a question that she received a call from either Donald or a man on his behalf. Surely one would remember if it was Donald or not Donald offering you money.

One thing about Donald is that he knows how to read people in terms of their  body language and vocal tones. If he was not savvy in this regard he would not have become the success he is with people in business. So in my estimation, I believe he was getting some cue from the porn star or he would not have bothered with her.

If Donald wanted her to escort him to  a dinner and to hang out with him for the evening and she said she couldn’t because she had a paying job in LA , it seems perfectly fine that he would offer to pay her day rate for the job she might be missing in LA to compensate her for missing her job if she was with him. This happens all the time in show business and on modeling shoots. Sometimes a shoot runs over and the person may have another job. If they choose to stay,  a they are often compensated handsomely.  And it is negotiated usually through an agent. The fact that Donald even threw in the use of his private jet to help her get back to LA in a timely manner is also quite generous.

But I doubt that Trump offered her money or a private jet based on watching her hard  swallow as she said this. Oftentimes, a hard swallow may be a signal of deception in my view.

Then she says that these actions are a testimony of Trumps character. Well Miss Porn star what about your character of  engaging in sexual acts for money on film. PUHLEEZE!! Isn;t that raether hypocritical?

Now she  clearly  must be using Gloria’s  words as  she says saying he is a “mysogynist  and a sexual assault apologist.” These seem like words that she would not use based on the vocabulary she used in her presser.

Also Miss Holier than Thou Porn Star, Donald, didn’t sexually assault you according to your story. You willingly went up to his room ( with 2 other women you said)  and he asked you to dinner and if you would hang out with him. You said you had to get back to LA  for work so he offered to pay your day rate  and even loan you the jet so you get back to LA in time. So where is the sexual assault here?

If someone accused Hillary of this I would say the same thing so this is not just about defending Trump. I see deception and I see a lot of hypocrisy and I see an opportunist who just put up a website to sell her porn wares the night before she was going public with this ridiculous non- story. Gloria Allred is a Hillary supporter and delegate for her and  it is quite obvious that she is doing all she can to smear Trump with these women, like this porn star who has shown a ridiculous non-story and shown multiple signals of deception in my view.

























Madonna at 60 Showing Alzheimer’s Disease By Willingness to Provide Oral Sex to All Hillary Voters And Saying She Also Swallows?


Screen Shot 2016-10-20 at 10.28.23 AM.png

Even though it was pretty bad, suddenly Donald Trump’s saying that as a celebrity, you can”grab women’s pussys” suddenly doesn’t sound that bad when compared to Madonna’s recent comments that she wants to give oral sex to all Hillary voters and that she also swallows. Before you say “well Madonna isn’t running for office, Donald Trump is,” I will respond by saying Trump was not a politician 11 years ago when he said  what he did,  in confidence , not aware he was being recorded on a bus when speaking to another immature celebrity. While Trump’s comment showed entitlement as a celebrity and how he observed that women are willing to “give it up” just  to be around a celebrity as they showed little or no boundaries around him, ( hence the easy  “pussy  grabbing” which he could do ) Madonna’s statement is far more serious in my view.

Now that she is a 60 year old woman, one cannot overlook why she made this statement. If it is for effect – for the shock of it all,then her judgement is very poor. Part of having poor judgement is one of the major symptoms of those with Alzheimer’s Disease.  They may do things behavior wise that are socially inappropriate like suddenly getting naked in public, causing a public commotion, or having a temper meltdown, among many other abberant actions.

Memory  issues and suddenly making inappropriate or shocking statements are also other symptoms of the disorder.Even those Madonna had made many shocking and inappropriate  statements in the past, the fact that this is one of the most shocking and inappropriate statements she has ever made, can lead one to question her mental health status as well as her cognitive functioning. 

Who in their right mind would offer up oral sex to anyone who votes for Clinton and then cap it off my saying that they “swallow” the ejaculate?   Her skankiness  which we have just seen, has exacerbated perhaps due to her possible Alzheimer’s  Disease which may be a real  possibility. Even though she was skanky before in her actions and comments, perhaps at  her age  of 60, her actions and skankiness may become ever more pronounced possibly be due to the onset of Alzheimers Disease or  her having full blown Alzheimer’s disease. It cannot be overlooked in my view.

If she does not have Alzheimers and has undergone a complete examination by a physician to determine  that she doesn’t have it, then we see an absolutely pathetic  and desperate  60 year old  woman longing for the limelight that passes her by each day with new, younger and more talented people grabbing the spotlight. If this is her attempt to stay relevant than we must ALL deem her irrelevant and boycott her at all costs.

If she thinks that she is helping Hillary by her  intentional vulgar comments, she may just have help those undecided to vote the other way. They may think that if  this is an example of a Hillary supporter, then they want no part of it.

If Madonna has Alzheimers she needs to hang it up- her dancing shoes , costumes, and the microphone  immediately !  She needs to get out of the limelight and go out in whatever grace or dignity she has left so she doesn’t end up embarrassing herself.  If she is doing it for PR or for affect or shock value  then she needs to be boycotted as well. What decent mother would allow her daughter  or son to see a Madonna concert knowing that as a woman she speaks like she did. She is no role model and she is no entertainer. She is a nothing more than a vulgar skank. and her behavior should not be tolerated.

Yes she has been a controversial figure for years. But there is one thing when one is controversial and another thing when one has crossed the line to show  disrespect a Presidential candidate and offer to suck  any one who votes’ for Hillary’s genitals and have that person ejaculate in her mouth  as she states she will swallow their ejaculate.

Mind you that I am  certainly no prude and have I  heard it all throughout my life. Very little surprises me or shocks me. But Madonna’s recent actions not only repulses me as a human being but especially repulses me as a woman.Women have worked so hard to crack that glass ceiling and to get equal pay and equal recognition. For her to make such a vular  a statement  and associate it with what she would do to prostitute herself out to help the cause of another woman who by the way dedicated her life to cracking that glass ceiling is despicable.

If she has Alzheimers he must be boycotted so we don’t contribute to her further embarrassing herself. And of she is doing it for shock value and effect she must be  boycotted and not be given media time and held completely accountable for her Toxic Skanky Behavior.

Former Miss Universe Shows Signals of Deception regarding “Miss Piggy and Miss Housekeeping” Trump Accusation


Putting politics aside or how you may feel about Donald Trump, the specific accusation that the former Miss Universe  Alicia Machado, who gained 60 pounds, made about Donald Trump calling her “Miss Piggy and “Miss  Housekeeping” shows multiple signs of deception from looking away, to incongruous head movement in relation to speech, to duping delight, to specific speech tells indicative of deception.

In analyzing the Inside Edition video, where she speaks to my dear friend Jim Moret, whom I have known ever since we began our careers as reporters at the ABC affiliate in Los Angeles-KABC TV, I have seen many signs of deception as she reports that Trump called her “Miss Piggy” and “Miss Housekeeping”. Continue reading

U of Iowa Mascot’s Angry Facial Expression ‘Traumatizing’ Students- Is Barney A Better Choice for These Big Babies?

Screen Shot 2016-09-02 at 4.12.33 PM


Screen Shot 2016-09-02 at 2.45.43 PM.pngScreen Shot 2016-09-02 at 2.46.05 PM.png

When actor Clint Eastwood recently called the new generation a “Pussy Generation”-a  generation of weaklings with no backbone, who are easily offended, he may have been right on target, especially with what recently happened at the University of Iowa.

Apparently, the U of Iowa has a school mascot named Herky the Hawk, a cartoonish gold and black figure. The Hawk has an angry, aggressive  look, complete with furrowed forehead. This depiction is to reflect the fighting spirit during university sports games.

Apparently, a University of Iowa professor has requested that the U of Iowa athletics department change Herky the Hawk’s facial expression and make him look friendlier because the character’s current  facial expression is apparently traumatizing students.

Screen Shot 2016-09-02 at 4.38.55 PM.png

Resmiye Oral,  seen in the photo above, a clinical professor of pediatrics, apparently wrote  an email to the athletic department officials as well as to the U of Iowa Faculty Senate  where she stated,  “I believe incoming students should be met with welcoming, nurturing, calm, accepting and happy messages.”

“And our campus community is doing a great job in that regard when it comes to words. However, Herky’s angry, to say the least, faces conveying an invitation to aggressivity and even violence are not compatible with the verbal messages that we try to convey to and instill in our students and campus community,” she argued.

This Toxic professor in my view also told the Iowa Press- Citizen newspaper that she has been concerned for some time about Herky the Hawk’s lack of emotional diversity as she further stated ” “As we strive to tackle depression, suicide, violence, and behavioral challenges and help our students succeed, I plead with you to allow Herky to be like one of us, sometimes sad, sometimes happy, sometimes angry, sometimes concentrated.

In my view professor Oral needs to put her efforts on doing some meaningful research in her field instead of worrying about Herkey. Herkey has been around for generations and as not caused any lasting damage to any student’s psyche.

Screen Shot 2016-09-02 at 2.46.05 PM

If these big babies  with such tender psyche’s at the U of  Iowa can’t handle angry Herkey, perhaps they would be best suited to have another character as their mascot-purple “Barney” the dinosaur , who also happens to be a  huge hit with toddlers.

This is frightening to think that students cannot handle a cartoon mascot’s  angry facial expression. If it is  violence,  Professor Oral is concerned about, then she needs to not focus on the mascot,  but  rather, on the game of football. Will her next email missive be to banish the violent sport of football at the U of Iowa?  Does she believe football is too violent for student’s psyche’s and for their tender eyes to see?

And what about other sports? This can go very far if it is not stopped. Apparently officials with the U of Iowa  Faculty Senate told the  Iowa Press-Citizen that they are currently tackling the larger issue of ensuring that the university climate is one that is “safe and inclusive.”

Well here is the reality of life, U of Iowa students and any other student at any other university, as well as any faculty member who has been hiding behind the walls of the ivory tower of academia for so long,  they no longer have a clue as to how the real world operates and functions.

The world’s climate is NOT ” safe and inclusive” and that is the reality of life.  What better way to learn this message than at a university. At a university, you will have a glimpse of what life is really like, so that you can be better prepared to handle any of life’s annoyances and disappointments which you, like everyone else, will surely experience.

Screen Shot 2016-09-02 at 4.37.43 PM.png

In the university setting, not every student will get an award, a scholarship,  or be invited to join a sorority or a fraternity. A boy or a girl that you fancy may not be attracted  to you. In fact, they may ignore you. If you end up dating them, they may cheat on you, or  ghost you- dropping you like a hot potato for a reason unknown to you.  Not all students will make good grades and some will even flunk out. Some will be given grades that they deem unfair, while others will not be allowed to play on any one of the university’s sports teams. Some will  have to drop out because of financial  or family concerns. Others will excel in school and be admitted to grad schools, law, vet, or medical schools, while still others, will be admitted nowhere. Some will get excellent grades and even graduate with honors, only to find they can’t find a job and have to work in a department store as a sales clerk, summa or magna cum laude or not. Such is life. Life is full of ups and downs and it is not fair. Life is not “fair and inclusive.” Any university that gives students the illusion that it is, is not doing their job  in preparing students to survive in the real world.

In the real world, there are lots of people with lots of opinions. Some opinions will be similar  to yours, while other’s opinions will be the complete opposite. Just because someone has a different philosophical, religious, or political view, you need to respect that they are entitled to their opinion. Like any mature adult you need to learn to “agree to disagree”. You don’t need to kick them out of your life, avoid them, resent, hate them or find a “safe place” to run away from them.

In the real world, some people won’t like you for no reason at all. Other’s won’t like you because of where you are from, your family background, the color of your skin,  your personality, the color of your hair, how you look,  how much or  how little money you have, how successful or unsuccessful you are,  or how attractive or unattractive you are. Like it or not, that is the reality of life.

What you learned in the first grade -that everyone has to like everyone and get along is what your first grade and subsequent school teachers told you because they didn’t want to deal with a classroom of chaos and fighting children. But the truth is that in the real world,  you will NOT like everyone and not everyone will like you and that is OK. Some people will be Toxic to you and you will be Toxic to others. That is a reality of life, not only for  for human beings, but for animals as well.

Screen Shot 2016-08-22 at 2.40.22 PM.png

When I am at the park with my goldendoodle Annabella, even though she likes most dogs, there are some  dogs, she simply  doesn’t care for. She is not playful or friendly to them, like she is to others. It is her animal instinct kicking in that tells her who is friend or foe. The same is true for us humans. Our instincts also tell us who is Toxic, who to like, and who not to like.

And here is a “newsflash” for the real world:  THERE ARE NO SAFE PLACES! If someone offends you with their ideas and beliefs – (and they will), get over it!  Move on. Don’t sulk and brood and cry. Mommy and daddy, may have provided a safe physical and emotional haven for you at home. But in real life,  there are no safe havens. Maybe you got an award for just showing  up at a team sports game when you were younger. Maybe your parents helped you with your homework or may have even done it for you. If you had trouble with a classmate, friend, or teacher, perhaps they were there to fight your battles. But in the real world you can no longer rely on your” helicopter parents.”

Screen Shot 2016-09-02 at 3.26.55 PM.png

When I read that  students said they “didn’t feel “safe”at one of  the most prestigious universities in the south, Emory University in Georgia  simply because someone wrote the word TRUMP on the sidewalk, I was appalled. They clamored that they were “in pain” over this. Well if writing the name of a political candidate  in chalk brings you pain, then you will have a very miserable and painful life.

Students at Emory University, claimed that  writing ‘Trump 2016′ on Sidewalk Is a Racist Microaggression …,” with references to students needing “trigger warnings” and “safe spaces” to protect them from presidential candidates’ names and slogans. For many, it was another sign of college students being so overly sensitive, that even political campaigning could be seen as hate speech.

Screen Shot 2016-09-02 at 4.40.50 PM.png

Well, college students, get over your being overly sensitive. There are two major political parties in this country. While you may prefer one candidate, there are others out there who may prefer the other candidate. If someone supports a candidate you don’t like, they are  not  committing a hate crime. Conversely, if you support a candidate someone else, likes, you are not committing a hate crime.

So whether it is dealing with an angry looking school mascot, who has harmlessly been around for decades,  or having a difference of  political opinion from someone else, grow up and stop acting like a toddler- hiding in a safe place like mommy’s skirt or in a special room.

Not everything will make you feel comfortable in life.  So deal with it! That is what grown ups, not babies, do in the real world.

Huma Abedin’s Body Language Showed Long Time Disgust-Finally Kicks Serial Sexting Weiner to the Curb

Screen Shot 2016-08-29 at 11.41.13 PM

Screen Shot 2016-08-29 at 11.39.29 PM

When I saw the documentary “Weiner” about Anthony Weiner’s sexting scandal and how he attempted to run for Mayor of NY, I cringed every time his wife Huma appeared on screen. She clearly didn’t want to be there. In fact, her body language screamed “get me out of this relationship.” There was a lot of eye rolling on her part  as well as a great deal of  physical distancing between her and her husband.You could see and feel the tension between them throughout the documentary.

In the above photo of her in the film,  we see her at a group campaign staff meeting, discussing how to spin her husband’s debacle. As you can see, her arms are crossed and she looks disgusted.  He body is tense. Eventually, she walks out of the room, leaving the group  and Weiner to fend for themselves.

Screen Shot 2016-08-29 at 11.41.13 PM

Whenever the two were seen on screen together, she often rolled her eyes, didn’t smile, looked sad, and appeared tense. Here you can see the tension in her face, especially in her jaw region. This photo above says it all. It says she is completely disgusted and turned off by her husband and at the time of the film, was  just “standing by her man” mostly for political reasons.

But Abedin finally had enough when she found out that not only was her husband sexting again with other women, but he did in when he was in his bed, sleeping next to his son. The fact that this is now made public has humiliated Huma to the core of her being.

Her statement to the press was   “After long and painful consideration and work on my marriage, I have made the decision to separate from my husband.

Apparently, Weiner has been sexting a woman from January 2015 until now, when the woman revealed what he was doing- showing off his abs and his crotch, She revealed tghat  they talked about sex.

Screen Shot 2016-08-29 at 11.57.54 PM.png

In one message, Weiner  wrote, “Someone just climbed into my bed.”He then texted the woman a photo showing him in his underwear with erect genitals, as his 5 year old son lay curled up next to him.

While it is one thing to cheat on his wife and sext, it becomes a whole different story when a child’s photo is taken and someone sexts a photo where the son is included . It shows that Weiner has no boundaries and extremely poor judgement.

So why did Anthony Weiner keep sexting women after his wife gave him a second chance? There many reasons:                                                                                                                                      a. He has a compulsive sexting addiction.                                                                                                 b.  He has a need for attention with a variety of women.                                                                      c. The desire to live in the  danger zone on the razor’s edge and sext strangers who could           potentially expose him is thrilling for him.                                                                                      d. He has such self loathe, that subconsciously he wants to sabotage his life.                             e. He’s in a loveless sexless, marriage where his wife is never there because she is at                  Hillary’s  side as opposed to being with him. So this is his sexual outlet.                                 f. He resents Huma and all the fame and  public attention she has  which is a constant                reminder of the fame and public attention he no longer has.                                                         g. He knows that if Hillary should win, Huma will have a major position and that will                  make him feel even worse about himself.                                                                                             h. He is bored and has nothing else to do all day long.                                                                        i. He is depressed and this is a distraction from how bad he feels about his life.

The bottom line is that subconsciously he wanted out of his marriage and finally got his wish. No doubt, Huma feels relieved that she is finally untangled from this Weiner mess. For her, this may be a blessing in disguise. While she may have wanted to dump him earlier, she followed in the footsteps of her mentor Hillary, who was equally as humiliated by her own husband Bill, for years. Like Hillary, Huma was determined to “stand by her man.”

What has happened to Huma has reawoken what happened to Hillary in the past, where people questioned why she didn’t leave Bill after he  publicly humiliated her with so many alleged affairs.

But, in Huma’s case, she could no longer allow Weiner to humiliate her, especially when he included his son in his sexting. Even Donald Trump weighed in with support for Huma as he said,” She is probably better without him.”



Toxic Ex Playmate Dani Mathers Body Shames Woman Due to Her Own Flawed  Body and Face Issues 

Screen Shot 2016-07-14 at 7.18.47 PM


Screen Shot 2016-07-14 at 6.34.00 PMScreen Shot 2016-07-14 at 6.35.02 PM

There is a saying that ” when you point the finger at someone,  there are three fingers pointing back at you.” So, when  ex -Playboy Playmate, Dani Mathers body shamed an innocent woman by taking the woman’s photo while the woman was naked and showering at LA Fitness- a woman  who was doing something  good for herself like going to the gym and getting fit, it was appalling.

Screen Shot 2016-07-14 at 7.04.40 PM

What kind of person would do this? It is a person who has an overly inflated sense of self,  who thinks they are so pretty and look better than others. But truth be told, pretty is as pretty does and Dani Mathers is pretty ugly in terms of her character as far as I am concerned. And further truth be told, deep down to the core of her soul, Dani Mathers most likely  does not  feel  that good  about her own flawed areas of her face and body, or she would never have projected her own body shame on to someone else. Because she was able to hide  behind the  Playboy brand for so long and all the perks that came with it, it masked her true self loathing. Unfortunately for her, millions of people have now seen the truth about Dani Mathers and her life will never be the same as she will be shunned, perhaps forever.It’s starting to happen now as she was fired from her radio gig and she will see that life will become very hard for her to get ahead in life. Some things are forgivable, but  this is not one of them because it speaks to her character and to the core of who she is.

I have known so many Playboy Playmates throughout the years.Unfortunately  there are those who think much like Dani Mathers. I have worked with so many of them as my clients in my private practice, to help them improve their communication, speaking, and voice skills when they have to do interviews, acting roles, or have to open their mouth in public.

Screen Shot 2016-07-14 at 9.03.04 PM

It is ingrained in them by their fellow Playmates, Hugh Hefner, his staff, and men  in general, who look up to the Playboy myth, that these girls are special. Men  literally drool over them. I have seen it with my own eyes.  They can’t wait to get  close to them. Men ask for their autographs on photos and pay these women to write something nice to them. Men will pay a ridiculous amount of money on ebay to purchase their used bras, panties, old shoes, tee shirts, and  whatever else these entrepreneurial  Playmates are selling online -from porn videos to nude photo shots of them.Others manage to bag suckers who feel that it is  honor just to pay their bills, with little or nothing in return. For some men, only a weekly or monthly phone call from the Playmate will do. For other men, a weekly meal will suffice. These smitten men often pay  monthly rent, phone bills, wireless services, acting classes, modeling photos, car payments, insurance bills, and even give them a monthly stipend. Others buy them cars, pay for plastic surgery, botox, fillers, makeup, clothes, computers, mobile devices, lavish meals, and trips to exotic places.

Men shower them with gifts, clothes meals, and  free travel on a regular basis.  This constant attention from so many different men gives these Playmates an attitude – an attitude that they have power  (which they do have when they are young and pretty and which they lose as soon as they age) and that they are above anyone else. This spoils so many of them. Doors open for them left and right, like it did for Dani and that spoils them as well. They have the contacts and the Playboy brand that carries many of them pretty far.

Screen Shot 2016-07-14 at 9.03.28 PM

When they are young, many Playmates  often feel they can get away with anything and they can. Lots of men line up to date them because they think it is prestigious among their peers to have a Playmate on their arm,  date her, or even marry her. The smart Playmates  or lucky ones marry well. They find some incredibly wealthy man who supports them in high style for the rest of their life, like Barbie Benton (Hugh Hefner’s ex)  did  when she married real estate tycoon George Gradow. Others  aren’t so lucky or smart as they end up marrying sick  fanatics who try to  control them, end up abusing them, or even killing them. That is the other extreme and sadly what  happened to  Playmate Dorothy Stratton.

Many go from one rich boyfriend  to another, to keep them in style and pay their expenses. Others  may join high end escort services, where they meet top men  from politicians to rock stars,  A list actors, corporate owners, producers, directors, and even princes. Did you ever wonder how some famous well known guy met his wife , who happened to be a former Playmate? Well now you know. Others  may even possibly become high end call girls.

Some of them actually have a charismatic  personality and talent like radio host and former View cast member, Jennie McCarthy.  The Playboy brand allowed her and others access to people who could help them with their careers. If  Kendra Wilkinson or Holly Madison had not been Playmates, appeared with Hef on “The Girls Next Door” reality show, and used their connections,  they would never have  their own reality shows, highlighted in Vegas, endorsed products, appeared on Dancing With the Stars , married a high profile athlete, or appeared  in the tabloids on a daily basis. No one would even know their name.

To keep up the perks that come with being a former Playmate, most know they have to keep up their looks. Otherwise, the reality is that it is over for them.  This has happened to a number of former Playmates I know. So those who want to still stay in the game, go to all lengths to make sure their body is thin by  getting lipo, ribs removed, fat injected, breast and butt implants, face peels, and lip fillers. And who pays for this when so many of them don’t hold a job, other than an occasional model or acting gig?  With so many of these women, especially as they begin to age, it is often  the  smitten man or many smitten men. In the past they would never give these men the time of day. But now since they are aging and need the upkeep, they will gladly deal with these once shunned men, just because they  will pay for different aspects of upkeep for that Playmate image.

So no doubt, Dani Mathers had a lot of perks for being a Playmate. She even had over one million Facebook followers who liked her page. That is a lot of followers, many of whom sang her praises on a daily basis, flattered her ego, and told her how beautiful she looked in the latest photo she posted. She got  modeling  opportunities and doors opened for her.

Screen Shot 2016-07-14 at 9.32.00 PM.png

She got a lot of business opportunities to represent certain products because she had so many followers . In fact she hawked her own edible marijuana line to her over a million followers.

Screen Shot 2016-07-14 at 9.43.27 PM

She even had a gig as a  radio host, something that may have never happened had she not been a Playmate. But unfortunately for her that radio gig appears to be over.

Screen Shot 2016-07-14 at 8.11.14 PM

All of this fan adulation, open career opportunities,  and socializing with celebrities must have gone to her head, just as it has done with so many Playmates of the past I have known.  It is no doubt that she most likely  really believed that she was above everyone and that  any woman who didn’t spend the fortune to have all the cosmetic enhancements or  those who were not fellow Playmates, were beneath her. Others were worthless and disgusting in her mind. That is why she essentially wrote that she was disgusted looking at the naked woman in the gym and that her eyes could not unsee what she saw.

All of the perks she was lucky to receive in her life since being a Playmate, clearly  didn’t build her character , as she showed little compassion or concern about anyone other than herself. That is why she showed no compassion and felt the necessity to put someone down . Her true character was also revealed when she wrote a letter of apology to the Playmates, and not to the woman she harmed and shamed or to a letter to the  the gym, where she most likely got a free membership like other Playmates in the past.

But if we look closer at Dani, we will see that she does have some body issues  of her own that I am sure she is well aware.  We all have flaws and none of us is perfection when it comes to our body and face. In fact  many of the Playmates you see in the photographs  are either airbrushed or photoshopped. They are well made up and well lit and placed in very flattering positions, using the right camera angles.

As someone who knows a great deal about body language and body image and body aesthetics, I will point out Dani Mather’s body and facial flaws, which she is no doubt well aware, which will show you why  deep down, she may have felt so badly about herself that he felt so compelled to trash someone else’s body.

For one, Dani’s body is out of proportion.  Her arms appear too skinny in contrast to her breasts. Her hips are too large in relation to her breasts and her legs.

Screen Shot 2016-07-14 at 7.07.21 PM

She is also very boney in appearance if you look at her back.  It is not attractive and makes her look fragile. Her  breast implants don’t  look natural.

Screen Shot 2016-07-14 at 8.28.45 PM

Her breast implants leave a lot  be desired as they seem to just have been just placed on her chest. In fact, her cleavage looks odd and  indented  as she is too thin and boney to have such a large sized cup. There are also unattractive moles on her chest and abdomen area.  In my view, she needs to get them removed now or they will grow much larger as she ages and will look unsightly. Additionally, her arms look skeletal and odd, especially in this photo.In my view it is not sexy or attractive.

Screen Shot 2016-07-14 at 6.30.53 PM

Here is another photo of her skeletal  arms and legs which seem incongruous to her breast implants.

Screen Shot 2016-07-14 at 8.29.19 PM

Her buttocks are flat, misshapen and  bony, and she suffers from swayback where there is too much curvature in her  lower spine. Without makeup you can also see that he skin tone appears to be rather pasty.

Screen Shot 2016-07-14 at 9.37.52 PM

Her abdominal area is misshapen and it looks as though  she may have had some bad liposuction or bad body sculpting. You can see her hip bones, but there is fat protrusion around the hip area which is odd. The lower area of her stomach  also protrudes.In my viwe this does not look attractive. Also her arms appear too thin and th boney elbows make them look out of proportion.

Screen Shot 2016-07-14 at 11.41.17 PM

Overall, her body proportions look off as she appears to be high waisted. Her knees als look knobby and bony. In looking at her photo in comparison with other Playmates, she appears to be one of the shortest Playmates in stature, which would eliminate her chances of becoming a model.  Perhaps her lack of height also contributes to her low self esteem.

Screen Shot 2016-07-14 at 6.35.02 PM.Screen Shot 2016-07-14 at 5.39.50 PM

Facially she is out of proportion as well ,with a  wide based, troll- looking , ski jump nose ala Richard Nixon style. The columela of her nose droops down too much in relation to her nostrils, which is not perfection as far as nose aesthetics is concerned. Her smile is also not that attractive with prominent chin and masculine appearing jawline. The indented lines on her face under her cheeks are  too deep and seem to age her For an almost 30 year old, these lines are a bit too deep.

Screen Shot 2016-07-14 at 7.13.28 PM

She also has an abnormally  large and wide mouth  which seems to take up most of her face when she smiles or laughs as you can see which makes her face seem out of proportion.

No doubt, she must be well aware of her own  her body imperfections which were pointed out above.  The illustration  of her body flaws are not done to be mean, but rather to show you what she may also be seeing  on a subconscious  level when she is alone and naked and looking  into the mirror at herself.

On a surface level, she has convinced herself that she looks great and is flawless. This is  is why she openly posts the flawed photos of herself.  It is as though she is in denial. In addition, there are so many followers, fans and smitten male worshipers telling her she looks great, that a part of her has come to believe she looks great. But deep down, probably knows better. Otherwise, she would have never body shamed the innocent woman. In shaming the woman,she  projected her own self loathe on to this woman.

Screen Shot 2016-07-14 at 7.05.20 PM

The tone of her voice was equally as troubling when she made her  public non heartfelt phony apology. It was not an apology to the innocent woman, but rather  a statement insisting she’s not like that and she won’t do it again.  It was pure selfishness and narcissism at it’s peak.  It was ALL about her and not about the other woman she shamed and harmed.  There was not an ounce of sincerity on her facial expression or in her tone.

Dani said she was Snapchatting and wasn’t familiar with how  Snapchat worked. Once again, it was about her, not the woman she shamed. She said she was Snapchatting to a personal friend when she wrote “ If Can’t  Unsee This You Can’t Either.” What kind of person makes fun of another person and sends it to a friend? A TOXIC BULLY does this. A TOXIC MEAN  GIRL does this. This video she made added fuel to the fire and angered people more because they knew it was phony and non heartfelt.

Dani Mathers revealed her true character. She is Toxic Person. I know a thing or two aboyt Toxic People having written the best selling book on the topic. She is not a good person because no good person would think of shaming or bullying another innocent person and make fun of them. There are some things which cannot ever be forgiven and this is one of them in my book.

She has not only hurt this  innocent woman, she has hurt other women who wake up each day not feeling good about their bodies. She hurt women who do whatever it takes to get themselves to the gym to try and help their bodies. She hurt every woman who is uncomfortable seeing herself naked. She hurt every woman who has been teased and humiliated about her weight.

Apparently LA Fitness was having none of this and did the right thing by calling the police and reporting her. But the police may not be able to do anything about it unless the woman comes forth and presses charges. I hope this is the case. I hope that the woman sticks up for herself and fights back. I pray that she doesn’t retreat into herself,  become depressed and devastated by what has happened to her. I hope the woman seeks financial remuneration for her emotional distress that this horrible incident  will have caused. With her million followers and edible marijuana business, Dani may very well be able to afford the lawsuit filed against her. It would case any woman emotional distress. In fact, it has caused most women who  found out what Dani  Mathers did to this woman, emotional distress.




Huma Abedin’s Body Language in Documentary ‘Weiner’ Shows Agonizing Emotional Devastation of A Humiliated Wife

Screen Shot 2016-06-17 at 5.16.13 PM


Screen Shot 2016-06-17 at 5.16.13 PM

After seeing the  documentary “Weiner”  which won best -film at the sundance Film Festival and is about Weiners attempted comeback as a NY mayoral candidate, I found the film o be  very disturbing.

While there were some humorous moments throughout the film, fascinating behind the scenes footage where you can really see how political people and their teams spin things,and electrifying moments showcasing  Anthony Weiner’s intense charisma, the film saddened me.   Continue reading