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It takes a big person to admit wrongdoing and an even bigger person to accept a heartfelt apology.
Media mogul Rupert Murdoch felt so bad about the murdered girl who had her voice mails hacked into that Murdoch ”held his head in his hands, many times” as he apologized to the girl’s parents for his newspaper’s culpability.
The girls parents showed their ability to forgive by stating that they hope that News of the World will now publish the truth and not engage in these nefarious activities.
Besides holding his head in his hands several times which means “woe” and despair” and “extreme contrition,” when mobbed by the press he managed to once again express his sorrow for what had happened. He placed his hand over his heart which indicated heartfelt sincerity and true sorrow.
He continued to hold his hand over his chest as he turned around, which indicated his sincerity and true sorrow for what happened. www.drlillianglass.com
Why now after 41 years has Libyan leader Muamar Ghadaffi become so vocal and violent where he has ordered mass killings of his own citizens and even ordered the sabotage of the oil fields?
In observing his body language and actions during his last rambling speech which often was disjointed , my view is that he has been given some bad news regarding his mortality and he is now determined to leave his mark of destruction.
In his rambling speech that does not make sense at times he looks consistently frightened . His cotton mouth indicates that he is tense and pressured . He is full of anger and rage and even wide eyed fear as determined by his facial expression in the photo below.
His left fist was clenched consistently as he gestured. This indicates extreme anger. What is most striking is that while he gestures with his right arm but his left arm barely moves during his negative emotion filled speech. This may possibly indicate that he perhaps has suffered a stroke or has a lesion to the right side of his brain which may be indication for this physical response.
The left side of his brain which affects speech and language appears to be intact as he can form adequate sentences and phrases. The fact that his speech is fragmented and disjointed my thus be due to psychological implications – severe depression at knowing and realizing his soon to be his fate.
It may also give some credence as to the recent Wikileak reports about the cables which were intercepted about various world leaders that Ghadaffi always traveled with his Russian nurse. Now we may be seeing exactly the reason why he may very well need a nurse by his side at all times.
The phrases from his speech below validate that he knows his end is near and how he wants to leave as a hero- a martyr.
“I have paid the price of my remaining here “
“It’s not possible that I leave this place”
“I will be a martyr at the end”
“My father warrior of the warriors over there that is my grandfather my uncle they are warriers and generations”
“We will lead the whole world and cannot be stopped”
I have paid the price of my remaining here.”
” I am higher than other leaders in the world”
This rhetoric clearly indicates how desperate his attempt is to make himself known to the world and to leave something of himself behind that will always be remembered – chaos and destruction.
In these recent series of photos taken at the Nuclear Security Summit, Barack Obama’s body language shows a range of emotion,. It shows how he really feels about certain world leaders and how genuinely feel about him.
Because the body doesn’t lie, if you closely examine President Barack Obama’s body language and facial language you can see exactly what he thinks of certain world leaders and what they in turn think about him.
OBAMA’S HEIGHT DOES NOT FACTOR IN TO THE BODY LANGUAGE EQUATION
While he is considerably taller than a lot of the other leaders, Obama;s height does not factor in concerning what I have observed facial and body language wise. His different reactions towards various leaders range from complete dislike and anger, tension, condescension, deference, to extreme friendliness.
NO LOVE LOST BETWEEN FRENCH PRESIDENT NICOLAS SARKOZY AND US PRESIDENT OBAMA
Perhaps the clearest example of no love lost between two world leaders can be seen between French President Nicolas Sarkozy and Barack Obama. Sarkozy clearly does not like Obama. First of all his body is turned away from Obama. They are also both looking in different directions which means that they are both not like- minded .
When a person puts up their forhand hand like you see Sarkozy doing it says “ stay away from me” or “keep your distance. It is not a welcoming gesture by any means. It blocks communication and contact. When you do not see a palm of the hand facing up, you can rest assured that it is not a welcoming gesture.
Obama has a very tense grin which speaks volumes. While his lips may be smiling, his eyes are not doing any smiling. You do not see high raised cheeks. This indicates that his smile is not genuine in the presence of the French leader.
Also Obama’s hand, which he is about to place on Sarkozy’s shoulder as a power play and a means to gain the upper hand, appears claw-like and cupped. This indicates anger.
Also as both leaders hold their respective hand at their side you can see tension in their hands and fingers as their hands are slightly cupped. This indicates both tension and anger between the two.
So body language- wise we see that these two leaders are clearly not on the same page and clearly do not like one another.
OBAMA’S ANGER AND QUESTIONING BODY LANGUAGE AT ISRAELI DEPUTY PRIME MINISTER OF INTELLIGENCE DAN MERIDOR
Baseds on his cupped hand and the distance he is keeping between himself and Israeli Deputy Deputy Prime Minister of Intelligence, Dan Meridor, Obama is clearly disturbed and angry that Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu didn’t show up and instead sent his Deputy Prime Minister.
Obama cocks his head to the side , indicating doubt and not being sure of the motive of sending a Deputy of Intelligence.
Obama is clearly uncomfortable and not very welcoming. Obama is also very stiff, indicating tension and coldness on his part.
On the other hand, Dan Meridor is quite warm and welcoming. He leans in and offers his hand, which is on top in a firm grip. It shows confidence. He is showing a very open greeting, but unfortunately it is not being reciprocated by Obama.
OBAMA SHOWS ANGER AND HOSTILE BODY LANGUAGE TO CANADIAN PRIME MINISTER HARPER
The US and Canada have always had a great relationship with one another on political front. In the past , whenever you saw US or Canadian leaders together you could see the warmth between them body language- wise.
But in this photo, you would never know that the US and Canada were allies and had a good relationship.
Whenever anyone points a finger at you, like Obama is doing to Canadian Prime Minister Stephen Harper, it is a very bad sign. It is a clear display of anger and hostility.
Obama’’s other hand is tense and cupped, also indicating anger. His body is stiff and pulled away which indicates a distancing between the two.
Canadian Prime Minister Harper looks like a school body being admonished. He is very angry as indicated by his definitely cupped fist- like hand gesture positioned at his side. He is looking down, which is also a bad sign and a signal of embarrassment.His body is stiff and his forehead is tense which indicates anger. His body is still and is turned away from Obama, off to the side, as he is not directly facing him.
It is very clear from this photo that there is something very wrong between them, No one ever points their finger at another in Western culture without it being a sure signal of aggression and anger.
Conversely no one looks down and is turned away from the person to whom they are speaking unless there is severe tension and upset in the relationship.
OBAMA SHOWS DEFERENCE TO RUSSIAN, CHINESE AND SAUDI ARABIAN AND PAKISTANI DIGNITARIES
In stark contrast to this body language with French President Sarkozy, Israeli Deputy Prime Minister of Intelligence Dan Meridor and Canadian Prime Minister Stephen Harper, Obama’s body language shows deference and reverence to the leaders of super powers China and Russia and to the richest country Saudi Arabia and to Pakistan, the country known to allegedly harbor the majority of the terrorists including our public enemy number one , Osama Bin Laden.
Obama rounds his shoulder, his arm is bent and he is on the receiving end of the handshake, This clearly indicates his lack of showing power. He also looks down at the ground which clearly shows that he is not he Alpha leader as he actually bows in deference to the Communist Chinese leader Hu Jintao
Since they are both about the same height, Obama needed to look at the Chinese leader eyeball to eyeball, Lowering your physical position in many Asian cultures means that you are saying you are not as powerful or important as the person to whom you are greeting. This is a very bad way to convey strength of a leader of a super power.
Perhaps Obama misunderstood that China is not Japan. It is not a Chinese custom to bow. It is a Japanese custom to do so , when you are in Japan. But when you are in the United States , as were the members who attended this Nuclear Security Summit, you need to do as the Americans do and not bow, but rather shake hands.
Obama’s gesture of bowing to the Chinese leader, who in stark contast had the body language of a King, with ramrod straight posture and squared shoulders and direct eye contact with his head lifted upward and strong stiff outstretched arm with a firm handshake grip. Hu Jintao shows that he has the power in his handshake as his thumb presses over the middle of the back of Obama’s hand.
He is clearly in control over Obama from a body language standpoint. This is not a good message to put forth from a fell0w leader of another super power. In my view it shows weakness on Obama’s part, a message I am sure he does not want to relay. Unfortunately he did so with his body language.
Obama needed to show the same regal posture he showed with the leaders of lesser powered countries like Norway and Poland. He needed to stand up straight a nd look at Hu Jintao eyeball to eyeball.
His shoulders needed to be squared back and his head needed to be up. The message that Obama sent to the Asian world by his deferrential body language is that he is not a strong leader and that he literally bows to the strength of the Chinese.
Also regal and king- like is Russian leader Dmitry Medvedev.He will not allow Obama to engage in a power gestures of placing his hand on Medvedev’s shoulder. Instead, he counteracts Obama’s power gesture by placing his open hand with splayed fingers across Obama’s elbow. In doing so, he even takes up more room, grasping Obama’s body as he places this thumb on Obama’s bicep and presses down on it. He also leans back from Obama.
Obama’s head is turned to the side and bowed, thereby indicating deference. Obama tries to lean in towards the Russian leader who will have no part of it as he backs away with his upper body.
We continue to see Obama’s bowing and weaker behavior from a body language point of view as he stands next to the Russian leader. Obama places his hand on Medvedev’s shoulder which learly repulses Medvedev.
That he why Medvedev moved his entire arm forward as you can see in the above photo. You can also see that Medvedev cups his hand in contrast to Obama’s open hand, as further indication that he does not welcome Obama’s power gesture. Medvedev’s uncomfortable and tense facial language also speaks to his discomfort.
Even though Obama attempts to show his power with his hand on the shoulder gesture, the forward thrust of his body language and facial language belie him.
Obama is tense and frowning, indicating insecurity , which is highlighted by his rounded shoulders and bowed head. He does not show strength of leadership in this body language stance.
With the Saudi Arabian Prime Minister of Intelligencce Prince Muquib al ‘Saud’s body language is regal,strong and indeed prince- like with his straight posture, Obama is also round shouldered and bowing, albeit not as intensely as he did to the Chinese leader.
Obama’s lower body andbuttocks are back while his upper body leans forward, His facial language with pursed lip shows deference as well.
Obama also tries his hand on the shoulder, ” I like you” gesture with King Addullah of Jordan, who pulls awy from it, as he turns his shoulder up towards the President.
King Abdullah looks very king like with his straight ramrod posture and no doubt does not want to be seen in a formal photo being man handled by anyone, let alone an American President.
Even though King Abdullah is smiling, there does appear to be some tension in his face, indicating a slight discomfort with Obamas gesture.
Obama leans in towards the King, not only with his shoulder and upper body but with his head. The King does not reciprocate,thereby leaving an obvious physical distance between the two.
Obama’s leaning in towards the Kings shows his deference towards the Jordianian King.
.Obama also shows bowing and deference with Pakistani President Yusif Reza Gilanai. He is ramrod stiff and doesn’t even look at Obama.
Obama is looking down and bowing, as likewise he does not look at the Pakistani leader. Obama’s other hand is in a gesture as to accommodate the Pakistani leader.
GERMANY’S ANGELA MERKEL’S POWER PLAY OVER OBAMA
Obama continues to show deference as he bows to Germany’s leader Angela Merkel. He leans into her and clearly likes her a lot as he does a double handshake and looks at her eye to eye.
She however, had the upper hand body language wise as she reaches forward to touch his shoulder. Her head is tilted and she has a genuine smile as does Obama.
In fact there is a softness in Obama’s face as he greets Merkel, indicating a warm connection between the two world leaders.
OBAMA SHOWS LOTS OF LOVE AND GENUINE ASFFECTION FOR OTHER WORLD LEADERS
The mutual hand touching and mirrored facial expression where both leader’s eyes and lips show that they are in synch with one another. Their body language further indicates that there is genuine affection towards Obama and South African leader Jacob Zuma.
This genuine open handed splayed fingered bear hug between Brazil’s leader Luiz Lula and Obama shows genuine and sincere affection. Their respective head and chin, resting on one another’s shoulder confirms their extreme warmth and closeness towards one another.
Looking at their facial expression and the way each of these to leaders literally light up when they look at one we can see a tremendous closeness.and lots of warmth and affection.
Obama smiles a genuine smile with his eyes crinkling and his lips parted. India’s Prime Minister Monmohan Singh has an expression of knowingness as his bright eyes with raised cheeks along with his warm smile and direct eye contact indicate that he is in the presence of a good friend.
There is clearly a lot of mutual love and respect between the two world leaders.
We may recall that Obama hosted his first formal State dinner for the Indian leader several months ago where the social climbing White House party Crashers the Salahi’s- Michaela and Tareq crashed the event.
OBAMA SHOWS THE GAMUT OF EMOTION TOWARDS WORLD LEADERS
So Obama clearly has his favorites. There are those leaders he likes, if not loves, and there are those whom he obviously cannot stand, as determined by his body and facial language towards them.
There are those to whom he shows deference, while are others to whom he shows anger. To others he shows arrogance .
Still there are other to whom he shows extreme confidence as in the case of Finland’s leader Halonen. His body language may even be perceived as condescending.
When there is a lot of physical distance betweentwo people and they have different emotional expressions or are looking in different directions as in the case of Mexico’s President Felipe Calderone and President Obama, they usually are not like minded.
Obama’s looking down while Calderone looks directly at him appears as rude andindicates that he is not as focused on him.
Even though there is no physcial contact with a handshake as in the case of Obama and Norway’s leader Jens Stoltzenberg there is a mutual likability between the two as indicated by the position of their feet.
When two people’s feet are pointed atone another in the same direction, there is usually mutual respect . You can be assured that they both have pleasant feelings towards one another.
The bottom line is that even though we may not be privy to their direct conversations, we can learn a great deal as we read between the lines when we look at Obama’s body language in relation to his fellow world leaders. http://drlillianglass.com
President Obama got a lot of approval from the Japanese for this body language. In Japan the lower you bow means the more respect you have for someone. As you can see he has bowed very low indicating extreme deference. In a culture where age is revered, Emperor Akihito, who will soon be turning 76 was shown a sign of admiration. So Obama’s very low bow was a good thing for intercultural relations.
I am a firm believer that if you go to someone’s country<
a. know the rules and protocol before you go
b. follow the rules and protocol while you are there and
c. continue to show respect for the people and the country while you are there.
Perhaps the President leaned from the faux pas his wife Michelle made a while back when she casually patted England’s Queen Elizabeth on the back when they visited the Queen their Buckingham Palace . While I personally thought it was a very sweet gesture of affection on Michelle’s part- a gesture that a warm American would make, she was not in America. She needed to follow the protocol of what is expected when dealing with a Queen of England.
As Michelle unknowingly put her arm in back of the Queen like we do in the US, the Queen ‘s body language showed she was uncomfortable . She did not like what was happening. The Queen’s body is turned away from Michelle and her arm is stiff and in an awkward position (near Michelle’s buttocks}. The Queen does not reciprocate and put her hand on Michelle’s waist as one would expect. No doubt this an awkward moment for the Queen as her body language showed. She was not used to people breaking protocol which was established among the British Royalty for centuries.
There is no question that the queen wasn’t too happy about this as you can see her clenched fist on Michelle’s buttocks. That is a clear sign of inner anger and upset. It indicates that she was not happy with this. The Queen was not alone in her feelings as the British press gave Michelle a lot of flak for breaking protocol and as they saw it, not showing respect for the Queen.
Tomorrow Obama goes to China where they will be doing something that most Americans would find offensive. Apparently they have constructed a huge bust of Obama modeled after his Man of the Year photo in Time Magazine. They will be lighting him on fire very few minutes. They have constructed holes for gas to escape as the stature will ignite every few minutes. In the US that would be a huge insult to burn a President but apparently it is not in China. There it is the biggest compliment. It means he is “ so hot right now.” In fact the artist who constructed the work said “this piece represents energy and life that Obama has given to the world.”
So as the saying goes ”when in Rome do as the Roman’s do.” http://www.drlillianglass.com