Body Language and Silence of Gosselin Twins Reflect Anger at Mom As Kate Is Enraged

 The silence  of Cara and Mady on the Today Show spoke volumes as they were asked if they were doing OK. Clearly they are NOT OK. They are obviously angry at mom.  They were both asserting their power by using this opportunity in an attempt to embarrass their mother, who appears to be on a quest to get back in the limelight with a new reality show. 

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As Mady was asked if things were OK, she cocked her head and pursed her lips,  which indicated that she couldn’t reveal the truth even though she may have wanted to tell all. 

When Mady refused to speak, Kate clasped her hands as she would with a young toddler and said “Use your words”. This was humiliating to say to a teenager who obviously didn’t have any words to tell lies about how wonderful things were on the homefront.

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Kate was shocked and looked at Mady straight in the eye. They both had an eye to eye confrontation. Mady was not backing down. She was not going to play along and make like everything at home was fine and dandy when it was not the case. Even though Kate looks like she is smiling, it is a phony smile to mask her anger towards Mady. 

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Cara was sullen and mute throughout the interview. She refused to say a word as she clenched her jaw shut. 

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 Kate was not happy with Cara,  who in her early years on “Kate Plus 8”  seemed to be Momma’s little helper and ally. Things have certainly changed . We see how Cara raises her shoulder and is literally giving Kate “the cold shoulder”. There is also a lot of tension on her face. Kate is furious as we can see from her body language> Kate glares at Cara, *who ignores her mother as Kate purses her lips  and clenches her jaw in anger as she eyes her daughter.

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Kate is disgusted with Maddy as well as you can see by the look of anger on  her face. Mady obviously feels the tension and has resorted to playing with her hair as a result of comforting herself . She automatically cocks her head to be out of Kate’s  direct line of vision. She also hunches down.  It is her way of physically minimizing herself against Kate’s wrath and the tension she feels coming from her mother. Cara also feels the tension as she gazes at her sister with concern.

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Kate tries to do damage control but can’t help leaking out her angry facial language. Maddy looks away from her mom, focusing on the interviewer. Mady’s shoulders are still rounded while Cara looks down. 

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Here we see Mady leaking out a  a self satisfied smile as she knows exactly what she did by not speaking. She is clearly  pleased with her accomplishment at embarassing her mother on national television.

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As Kate tries to spin things,  she manages to put a dig in about Jon by saying how he and the public have said that being on television has damaged the kids. Kate says that because of this wrong information, she is now forced to come forward and speak out. Obviously she manipulated her teenage twins to do her bidding via their interview in People Magazine. But it all backfired when the teens were put on the spot and now had to speak for themselves in a  spontaneous manner. They couldn’t bring themselves to do it.  This screenshot shows how it is clear that the girls don’t want to be a part of Kate’s campaign, They are detached from Kate as they both look down with tense facial expressions. They know that their mother is spinning things to make herself look good and  it is obvious that they don’t want to go along with the charade any longer.

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Cara’s fist-like and gesture is indicative of anger. She is holding on to herself for self comfort as she wears a tense facial expression. Mady is also holding on to herself as she clasps her hands between her legs for comfort. There is a lot of physical space between her and her mother as she cocks her head and minimizes herself. Kate is holding on to herself as well as a means of containing her anger towards her daughters. Kate appears to be full of tension in her face and body. 

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Cara purses her lips which further indicates she wants to remain silent on the matter as Mady looks down with a sad facial expression. No doubt she knows what lies ahead when the interview is over and the cameras are turned off of her- a very unhappy mother. Kate leans away from Mady and literally gives her the “cold shoulder” as she gestures with tense hands and a very angry look on her face.

When the girls were asked if they want to get back on TV with a reality show, this was the only time Mady light up as he eyes brightened for a moment. But she couldn’t answer the next question as to why she wanted to be on TV- because it was fun or because she wanted her life out there. No doubt she remembered the perks and the travel and all the goodies of the past that came with being on TV and she misses that. Maybe she feels that having another reality show will appease Kate, which may in turn make living with her mother a lot easier and reduce the tension and anger around the house.

This interview showed us how all is not well in that household, no matter what these girls may have allegedly told People Magazine.When it was just them on the spot  and no publicist or mom speaking on their behalf, they refused to lie. I give them a lot of credit for that. 

 

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7 thoughts on “Body Language and Silence of Gosselin Twins Reflect Anger at Mom As Kate Is Enraged

  1. That’s the thing about children, they stop playing your games around 15 or so. I know I did. My narcissistic father always expected me to be so perfect and I constantly tried to make sure we looked great to the outside world. I am 43 now and I don’t play that game anymore. Sadly, these girls dislike their mother, probably dislike their father too. They’ve been thrown into the TV reality star graveyard and will have to pull themselves out because neither of their parents are going to do it clearly.

  2. It’s known that Kate has an explosive temper and that she’s physically, emotionally and verbally abusive toward her children. Because of that, I wish people would stop saying that the twins’ silence was a intentional act designed to “get back” at their mother. Please remember that they are trapped in that house alone with her, with no one to see or hear what goes on, or to protect them from her wrath.

  3. That was one of the most strangest television interviews I’ve ever seen. I don’t know if the girls were doing it on purpose or if they were “shy” like Kate is now trying to spin it.

    It opened my eyes tho. I always thought the family enjoyed being on tv because Kate said they did. Now, after that interview – my opinion has changed.

    Someday, maybe Mady or Cara will write about it. When they are older and find their “real” words. It would be interesting to hear what was really going on.

  4. I wonder if this interview has anything to do with Jon gosselin and his girlfriend being on vh1 “couples therapy” this week..I hope he crucifies Kate and dumps that trash of a girlfriend. Ugh

  5. Keep up the good work, Dr. Glass! Keep telling it like it is with Kate. She needs to be exposed for the “greedy grifter” we have come to know. She only wishes she could have the money Kris Jenner is making. Never going to happen.

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