By now we are all aware of Caylee Anthony’s grandmother, Cindy Anthony’s manipulative comments. During television interviews and in a court of law, she has repeated that she believes Caylee is still alive when she knows that it is utter nonsense. In fact you can clearly see her signals of deception with pursed lips and shoulder shrug in the above photo right after she made the preposterous statement about Caylee being alive.
Adding to Cindy’s nonsense are her statements about what a great mother Casey was to Caylee and how much Caylee adored Casey.
But if you really examine at the photos of Caylee and Casey together from Caylee’s birth until the end of her young and innocent life, you can see that it certainly does not look as though a. Casey was such a great mother or b. that Caylee adored Casey. In fact it looks to me that little Caylee couldn’t stand Casey. In many of the photos she couldn’t wait to get away from Casey.
Based on my observations of the photos I will show you of Casey and Caylee throughout the years, it doesn’t look like there was a lot of Tender Loving Care or motherly bonding on Casey’s end. Instead, it looked like there was a lot of Tender Self Loving Posing on Casey’s part. You can see this in the above photo, which was one of the last photos taken of little Caylee. Casey is posing with a fake grin, while a serious looking Caylee does not look very happy at all.
But there was definitely TLC and bonding between Caylee and grandmother Cindy throughout Caylee’s young and precious life as you will see. Look at this photo above. You can see the genuine love and happiness on Caylee’s face and on Cindy’s face as well. These are genuine happy smiles.
CINDY AND CAYLEE’S REALTIONSHIP
Perhaps the lack of bonding may be due to Cindy’s interference early on, where she was the first to hold newborn C aylee . Cindy took charge of the illegitimate baby Casey produced right away. It seems to me that Cindy had a huge hand in naming the baby- Caylee. It is a combination of her two children Casey and Lee, hence Caylee. Naming a baby also adds to the bonding process. So if Casey had no part in naming the baby, that was one less element in the bonding process with her daughter.
In the above photo as baby Caylee lies in Cindy’s arms, you see Cindy affectionately kissing Caylee as she sleeps comfortably and nuzzles into Cindy’s body . Part of the bonding process involves smell. So if Caylee was mostly nuzzled into Cindy and smelling her instead of her birth mom Casey, chances are that baby Caylee bonded with Cindy and not Casey. Besides Cindy’s smell, Caylee must have felt the intense love towards her from grandma Cindy, unlike the non- love or emptiness must have felt when she was in Casey’s arms.
In looking at the photo above you can see how early on in her life, when she as being held by Casey, Caylee seemed to want to get away. She doesn’t nuzzle into Casey’s body, but turns away instead. She also clenches her little fist in anger and makes a facial expression indicating discomfort and upset. This photo shows that she is clearly not bonded with Casey.
In looking at this photo with Cindy and Caylee you can see how Cindy absolutely adores Caylee and dotes on her. Little Caylee seems so happy and confortable around Cindy. Even her litttle shoulder is nuzzled into Cindy. Cindy had a warm grasp on the child’s lower body as she pulls Caylee towards her.
And finally this photo above says it all when it comes to Caylee and Cindy. You can feel the love and affection between both of them. Caylee feels so comfortable around Cindy that she easily places her elbow on grandma’s lap as they lean into one another. Caylee is genuinely happy and so is Cindy.
CASEY HATED CAYLEE FOR TAKING AWAY CINDY’S LOVE THAT WAS SUPPOSED TO BE FOR HER
Perhaps there was so much resentment by Casey while seeing that Caylee’s was being given all of Cindy’s love and attention over and over again that it was too much for Casey to handle. Perhaps that may be the reason why Casey didn’t think twice about getting rid of her daughter. Perhaps deep down she perceived Casey as her number one competition. So she had to destroy her forever.
The fact that she consistently refused to tell Cindy what happened to Caylee even hours after she arrived home without Caylee in tow , even after brother Lee pleaded with her, speaks to how she knew Caylee was the light of Cindy’s life. She knew that Caylee’s absence was devastating Cindy. She obviously relished seeing Cindy’s agony. That is why she refused to tell what happened to Caylee. Nothing made Casey happier than sadistically toying with her mother’s emotions just like she felt Cindy was toying with her emotions by loving Caylee more than her.
Further evidence of the competition Casey felt between herself and Caylee was clearly revealed in the jailhouse tapes. Cindy brought up how Caylee liked to eat bagels. Casey immediately interjected , “what about me, I like to eat them too!” Another revealing statement was when Casey said that she was Caylee. Talk about over identification!
SADISTIC DISPLAY TOWARDS CAYLEE
Perhaps the most disturbing video which we have seen over and over again is of Casey “playing” with Caylee on the floor. Caylee kicks her feet as she tries to get away from Casey. At the end of the video we see Casey turning her head away as Caylee keeps kicking to escape from Casey’s grip on her.
To me this does not show tender love and affection. Instead it shows sadistic behavior. Caylee clearly wants to get away from Casey and Casey is not letting her leave- hence the kicking. It is clear that Casey is uncomfortable in this situation.
To me, this photo says it all. Casey’s facial expression shows disdain, aggravation, and frustration at innocent Caylee’s existence. Caylee does not look happy either. You can see the red marks under her eyes which may be indicative of a lot of crying and emotional abuse int he presence of Casey.
Since the beginning of her tragic life, Caylee didn’t feel appear to look very comfortable around Casey. Casey seemed to treat her like a prop- an object instead of a loved daughter.
As Caylee grew older, she continued to be used as a prop by Casey. Here Caylee does not feel the same love and affection she feels from Cindy. There is such a marked contrast in her body language when she was around Casey as opposed to when she was around Cindy in that time period. Caylee instinctively does not lean into Casey. She doesn’t smile and has a deadpan expression.
As Caylee gets older, she is still not smiling around Casey. While Casey is grinning a phony grin, Caylee’s facial expression speaks volumes. She is serious and does not look like a happy child.
In the above photo, it is still difficult to see any affection or bonding from Casey to Caylee . Instead Casey is smiling her phony grin while Caylee’s attention is elsewhere . Caylee points and pulls her body away from Casey as though she wants to get away from her. There is no nuzzling or cuddling.
NO GENUINE SMILES FOR CAYLEE OR CASEY
In photos where Caylee does happen to be smiling, it is not a genuine smile with cheekbones raised. Instead, it is a forced, crooked uncomfortable, tense and contrived smile when she is around Casey.
It is as though someone who took the photo told Caylee to smile and she obediently complied. But her smile does not appear to be heartfelt. In fact it is a crooked smile. When you see a crooked smile in children it usually means internal anger and unhappiness.
This cooked and non genuine smile continues as Caylee gets older. Look at the distance between her and Casey. Caylee leans her head away from Casey which speaks volumes. There heads don’t even touch. Casey is posing and so is Caylee. Caylee’s arm is out in front of Casey as though she may have wanted to physically reach out to Casey. But Casey has not responded to Caylee’s open gesture. She does not embrace Caylee or show he affection. She is too busy posing.
In this photo above you can see the lack of love and affection as Casey grabs Caylee’s wrist. Casey doesn’t even hold Caylee’s hand, but looks down as though Caylee isn’t even there.
Caylee is not happy about this as you can see her little fist like hand position. This indicates that she appears to be upset in her mother’s presence. There is so much distance between the two as well. This photo shows how negatively Casey really felt about Caylee as she walks several large steps ahead of her.
This tragic photo seen once again is the most disturbing photo when looking at Casey and Caylee who are completely disconnected. Caylee is not smiling at all and looks very unhappy. What is most disturbing is the little mark on her cheek along with the bags and circles under her eyes.
When children have such bags and marks under their eyes they are often deprived os sleep and enough rest. It is also a signal of emotional abuse and may indicate that a lot of crying took place.
The mark on Caylee’s once flawless face is also upsetting to me. In light of what we assume Casey did to Caylee, was she also smacked by Casey? Heaven only knows the torture and abuse Caylee may have possibly received at the hands of Casey when no one was around.
CAYLEE’S HAPPY BODY LANGUAGE AROUND OTHERS
If you scroll back up and look at the photos of Caylee and Cindy , you can clearly see that she was very capable of being happy, affectionate, connected, and loving around someone other than Casey- namely Cindy.
If you look at Caylee’s body language other people. she is happy and connected as well. Look at her cuddly, comfortable pose with her great grandfather. Her open hand on his chest shows she is open and affectionate towards him.
Look at Casey’s genuine smile with family friend Ryan Paisley. She’s at ease with him as she rests her arm on his shoulder .
Look at Caylee’s relaxed facial expression and comfortable body language with grandpa George. These photos are in marked contrast as those photos whenever she appears with Casey.
PERSONAL MESSAGE TO GEORGE ANTHONY TO STOP THE ” CAYLEE WAS MY WHOLE WORLD AND I WANT EVERYONE TO FEEL SORRY FOR ME AND LIKE ME CUZ IM SUCH A NICE GUY” ACT
George Anthony you need to man up for the first time on your life ! When you didn’t show up in court for the first time after Casey accused you of sexually molesting her her, you finally made a statement that you were not going to take Casey’s garbage anymore .
If you did molest her , then shame on you and you should be held accountable and will be by a higher power. If you did molest her, no one would believe the lying sociopath you raised or shall I say – neglected to raise. While a lot of people are sexually molested often suffer mentally and emotionally and even physically, they usually do not resort to killing anyone. This is not a justifiable excuse for killing Caylee.
And if you didn’t molest her you should never look at her again or show up in court for her under any circumstances. She has in essence thrown you under the bus and tried to kill you as she likely did with Caylee.
Your body language during the last Today Show interview leaked out that you absolutely knew exactly what happened – that Casey killed Caylee. You said you wanted to know the truth no matter what and your body language showed that you already knew the sad truth. When Cindy started spouting off some nonsense you looked at her with disgust. You knew it was a plot to help create reasonable doubt but you were not buying it.It clearly showed on your facial expression. with a furrowed brow and downturned mouth.
You claim how Caylee was your everything . Yes, we know she was your everything after this tragedy. But was she was your everything while she was alive?
If she was your everything, then why during the 31 days of not seeing Caylee were you not on the phone day and night calling Casey and pleading with her to bring your beloved Caylee home to stay with you?
If Caylee was your everything and you could not live without Caylee why after one or two weeks at the latest, did you not go out and search for Casey or hire a PI to find her so that you could have Caylee home with you?
If Caylee was your everything why were you not out beating the bushes and turning over every rock to find her? Why were you letting others go out in the heat, sweating to find her while you were nowhere to be found?
I will tell you why you didn’t do anything. It is because you a. were in your own wimpy world and only cared about yourself.
Now that all eyes of the world are upon you you have used the sympathy card to make people think there was more than was really there . You have shown in your Fox 35 interview a while back, how much you need to be liked and thought of as Mr. Nice Guy.
Well George, if you want to be liked and be seen as the Nice Guy you need to get real and act like a man and not a wimp. Stop supporting Casey. She is a sociopath who would do to you just what she did to Caylee if she had the opportunity. She actually did it to you when she outed you for sexually molesting her.
Stay away from her and don’t waste your time showing up in court under the guise of supporting her. She doesn’t even want you there. You know that very well as you begged her to see you in the jailhouse letters and she never responded to you.
Let go of her because she hs let go of you long ago. There is no loyalty as far as sociopaths are concerned. So using loyalty and family and sticking up for Casey because she is family is a very flimsy excuse. The reality is that your family member tortured and killed another member of your family.
And finally George, always look at this photo above of yourself. See the agony in it. See the genuine emotion when you finally let yourself face the reality of what actually happened to your alleged beloved granddaughter for whom you did nothing to locate find the 31 days she was away from you and for whom you personally did nothing in order to search for her when she was reported missing.
See the expression in your face in this photo when the reality hit you that Caylee was smothered with duct tape, murdered, and placed in a plastic bag like a piece of garbage and then thrown in the back of a hot trunk of a car by your own lying sociopathic daughter.
You know the smell of death and now you have smelled death again in the form of your own grandaughter Caylee . That smell will never leave your mind. It is the smell that your daughter created. So stop embarrassing yourself and defending Casey. You should be livid that she murdered your Caylee.
MESSAGE TO CINDY
Cindy there is no doubt you loved Caylee and she loved you dearly. Body language and facial expression don’t lie. Caylee did not feel comfortable with her own mother, your daughter. You knew it. Caylee may have instinctively feared Casey and not have felt safe with Casey and you knew that as well. That is why you took care of every need of Caylee. You knew who Casey was just as very mother knows their daughter. You knew she was a thief and a liar and irresponsible . You knew that you let her get away with way too much.
Your guilt about how poorly you raised Casey reared its head ever since the public met you. We have seen your hatred and anger and constantly lashing out at others. But this is only defense mechanism . You are really angry at yourself for not being a good mother and not raising Casey right. You knew she was a mess but you wanted to deny it. That is why you went into denial about her pregnancy, her job, her stealing and her lies about Zanny the Nanny.
You relished taking care of Caylee because perhaps it was your chance to start over and right the wrong you did with Casey. You looked at Caylee as your own daughter, even naming her a name so much like Casey’s name.
Instead of Casey Marie, your new daughter was Caylee Marie. But you wanted to be close to this daughter and to be loved by her and not hated by her like you were with Casey. You didnt want this new daughter to grow up a promiscuous liar, cheater and thief like your other daughter.
Maybe that is why you kept Caylee’s alleged dead birth father’s family away so you could have Caylee all to yourself . It was your way to correct your previous mistakes you made as a mother to Casey.
You finally had enough of Casey’s lying cheating and stealing when she took money from your own mother. You said you would keep Caylee and throw Casey out . You said what should have been said to Casey a lot earlier. There is no doubt that you should have thrown Casey out a lot earlier and not allowed her to take Caylee. That is when Casey became desperate and killed Caylee.. She did it to get back at you for loving her biological child not wanting or loving her.
You did the right thing in calling the police. You spoke the truth.But then you tried to take control and backtrack and lie. You did this out of fear and guilt.
Cindy, you have nothing to feel guilty about for kicking Casey out . A lot of parents use this tough love technique to kick their uncontrollable kids out of the house . But their kids dont kill anyone.
Casey was a sick sociopath and you knew there was something wrong with her for a long time . So stop beating yourself up and lashing your self hated out on others. Stop enabling Casey and trying to protect her. In doing so you are diminishing your love and respect for Caylee.
She killed your beloved Caylee to get back at you. So stop the manipulation and nonsense about Caylee being alive! Caylee is dead and you know it. She is dead because Casey killed her. Accept it and mourn it.
It is obvious you loved Caylee and you did the right thing in loving her and raising her and kicking badly behaved Casey out of the house. Also where were you when you had not seen your beloved Caylee in days and weeks? Was your pride holding you back from calling or searching for her and Caylee ? Did you think Casey would come groveling and begging to come back home? Was it a control and power play on your part?
You definitely did the right thing when it came to calling the police. But then you backtracked and started to lie and manipulate. Now do the right thing again . Let go of Casey. She has let go of you long ago Stop defending her. Stop talking to the media. Let justice take its course. Let Caylee’s memory be respected so that she can finally rest in peace. She loved you enough to respect her and protect her.
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