River Cruz Upset That Bloggers Speculate Mystery Hair May Be Hers. Says It’s Impossible As She Never Met Caylee. If Hair Is Hers, Did George Set “Zanny the Nanny Prototype” Up And Put It There?

RIVER UPSET OVER BLOGGERS ALLEGATIONS

I received a call from River Cruz this evening around 5 pm PST,  who was very distraught.  Apparently someone sent her an email where a blogger said that the mystery hair that was apparently found was River Cruz’s.

According to River, it would be impossible!  First of all  she  has never seen or met Caylee in her life. Secondly she has never been to  the woods where Cayley’’s body was discovered.

If she took a lie detector test, no doubt she would pass it with flying colors attesting to the fact that she never laid eyes on Caylee.

If she took a voice stress analysis test, she would pass that as well as they would no doubt hear no signals of deception.

And with my expertise as  a body language and voice expert, I personally asked River is she ever saw or  met Caylee or if she  was in the woods  and I heard no signals of deception whatsoever. River sounded forthright and I could hear that  was telling the truth.

GEORGE ANTHONY WAS IN RIVER’S HOME AND HER BED THROUGHOUT THE YEAR ACCORDING TO HER

But River  said that she  WAS with George Anthony for a year. George Anthony was in her home for a year and according to River, in her bed throughout the year. Having said that, George no doubt  had access to many of River’s stray hairs. He was all over her home and used her bathroom. He may have very well had access to her hairbrush.

So if the hair turns out to be River’s, like some blogger speculated, the question is, Did George put it there?  Was he the one who moved Caylee’s body which Cindy mentioned to Sergeant Allen in her phone call to him ?

George  is the same man who mind you, who NEVER searched for his own granddaughter.  Did he already know she was dead? This is the husband of Cindy Anthony ,  who mentioned WOODS when  the WOODS wasn’t even a consideration. This is also the husband of Cindy Anthony , who adamantly told Sergeant Allen that Casey had help in moving he body.

So ANYTHING is possible!

DID GEORGE PURSUE RIVER WITH THE PURPOSE OF USING HER AND SETTING HER UP AS THE SCAPEGOAT?

One thing we know for sure is that George had his sights set on River. He pursued her. It was not the other way around according to River.  Initially, she didn’t want to get involved with him because he was married. But he let her know that he was not happily married and planning on leaving Cindy.

He sold River a complete bill of goods, tugging on her sensitive nature and heartstrings.  He even talked her into giving him a large sum of money as he told her he didn’t have enough money to eat and buy food. She felt sorry for him, so she gave him the money that she herself needed.  

What she is devastated about the most is that she now sees how he completely used her. She mentioned through her tears and sobs that  that she now sees how she was used and how she strongly believes he was trying to set her up.

GEORGE DESCRIBED ZANNY THE NANNY IN TOO MUCH DETAIL, ESPECIALLY SINCE HE ALLEGEDLY NEVER MET HER

I can  definitely see her point, especially when George  knew so much about the physical appearance of the “Zanny the Nanny” character, right  down to her  Asian tattoo. George in his depositions reported that he never met Zanny the Nanny, yet her knew so much about her, even describing her as a 10 with perfect teeth.

To me, it seems like a little too much description of someone you allegedly never met. Also women don’t usually describe other women as a 10, Men do that, which leads me to believe that all of this detailed Zanny the Nanny description no doubt came from George.  

GEORGE SEVERELY WARNED RIVER TO SPEAK TO NO ONE ABOUT THEIR AFFAIR WHICH FRIGHTENED HER WHEN POLICE CAME TO VISIT HER

For those of you that say River lied to the police when she was asked if she had an affair with George, she openly admits that she lied because she was terribly embarrassed and extremely frightened.

 Apparently, George strongly warned  her to NEVER say anything to anyone about their affair no matter what! River said that she was prepared to take it to her grave and tell no one.  So when law enforcement  unexpectedly came to her door and later  interrogated her about her affair, she didn’t know what to do or say so she tried to cover as she no doubt remembered George;s words to NEVER say anything to anyone about their affair no matter what!

 Eventually she admitted that she did indeed have an affair with George, s for which she  is deeply ashamed.  She also didn’t have a lawyer advising her at the time, which she does now.

RIVER IS NOT HER TWIN SISTER SKYE

 Also to set the record straight, River is not her twin sister Skye. Skye is reported to allegedly have somewhat of a checkered past, unlike River. Skye has the one  was talking to the press, not River. River has not spoken to the press or done any interviews with anyone except for the one she did initially and the interviews she has done with me personally.

 RIVER IS DEVASTATED BY THE FALLOUT THAT HAS AFFECTED HER CHILD

River is a single mom who loves her young  child deeply. She is distressed that her child  has been teased at school and that there has been name calling about River. She was most devastated by the fact that her child has been beaten up while trying  to defend River’s honor.

Her child doesn’t deserve this and it is what upsets River the most. No parent would want their child tormented and bullied by other kids because of their involvement with a married father of a daughter who is facing death row for killing her child..

MUCH  MISINFORMATION ABOUT THE HAIR

Thus far there has been a lot of misinformation about the hair that was found. Earlier, reporter Cathy  Belich of Channel 9  had reported that the mystery hair was on the duct tape found with the toddler’s remains. WESH-Channel 2 also reported that the strand was “on the duct tape across Caylee’s skull.”

But the documents released today say NOTHING  about a mystery hair on duct tape. So Cathy  Belich updated her initial report by later saying: ”A 5-inch-long, fine, dark brown strand of hair from a Caucasian was found with a piece of plastic from the scene where Caylee Anthony’s remains were found.”  

WKMG-Channel 6’s Mike DeForest  reported that   the mysterious hair was found in the woods near the toddler’s remains.  Mike DeForest also reported that “The origin of that hair remains unknown,”

Casey ’s defense team could  use that hair to suggest a stranger was out in the woods near the toddler’s body, but prosecutors  no doubt will  argue that detectives collected lots of  items in those woods, including garbage , that is  not related to the murder of Caylee.  

RIVER CRUZ’S HAIR IS NATURALLY CURLY NOT STRAIGHT LIKE THE HAIR THAT WAS FOUND

The hair that was found was five inches and was straight. River’s hair is longer than five inches and it is not naturally straight. She said that when she washes her hair it comes out curly and she has to straighten it. So my question is that with all the Florida humidity and rain, wouldn’t that straight hair that was found, eventually turn to it’s natural state- curly?

 If it remained straight, it very well may not be River’s hair.

RIVER CRUZ CANNOT BE USED TO CREATE REASONABLE DOUBT

Casey’s defense team will look at everything to try and create reasonable doubt for their client so that she doesn’t end up with a lethal injection coursing through her veins .

 But there is way too much that points in the direction that she may have killed Caylee.  Jose Baez and his band of lawyers  can try all they want to create a reasonable doubt with a Zanny the Nanny or a hair, but the bottom line is that it will be very difficult to convince a jury that Casey Anthony didn’t have anything to do with her young daughter’s death.  

River Cruz is NOT Zanny the Nanny and whether the hair is or isn’t hers, she has NOTHING to do with Caylee’s death.

She only wishes she had NOTHING to ever do with George and never bought into his poor me victim routine where he used her for sex, for relief, as a refuge  to get away from Cindy, as the prototype for Zanny the Nanny ,and now possibly for her hair. http://www.drlillianglass.com/

Gosselin Children’s Body Language Show Sadness, Humiliation, Upset, and Distance Around Kate

BODY LANGUAGE OF SHAME

Whenever you see anyone with bowed head and rounded shoulders,  it means they feel shame or embarrassment or humiliation. It is interesting that the three  kids  in closest proximity to Kate,  Colin, Hannah, and Alexis are the ones who show this distinctive body language.

They also show sadness on their faces.Perhaps she yelled at them or scolded them or shamed them.  In any event, it is clearly  reflected in their body language.

KATE FIDDLING WITH HER HAIR EXTENTIONS


Kate, on the other hand, is fiddling with her hair, no doubt making sure her extensions are in place and that  she looks good for the papps she says she hates. Kate’s open mouth and lack of smiling eyes and non-  raised cheekbones may indicate that she is upset or complaining about something.

KATE ONLY HOLDING HANDS WITH  WITH HANNAH


It is also interesting that Kate is being consistent in favoring  one of the girl sextuplets, Hannah. Hannah   appears to be the only child  who’s hand Kate is holding.

Even her favorite child’s head is bowed and shoulders are rounded, as Hannah looks down at the ground. This indicates that  Hannah also may be feeling  shame, upset,and embarrassment as well.

ALEXIS  MAY HAVE RECEIVED THE BRUNT OF KATE’S POSSIBLE WRATH


Alexis  walks  a step ahead of Kate to Kate’s left. Alexis’  head is the most bowed and her shoulders appear to be the most rounded  of the three.

Her head  seems to be bowed the lowest of the three  children, which may indicate that she is still being shamed or perhaps even yelled at  by Kate in this photo ,as she  appears to be  in Kate’s direct line of vision.

COLIN DISTANCES HIMSELF


Little Colin, no doubt  also feels the same negative emotion  as his  two sisters, based on his similar dejected body language.  He is  five steps away to the right of Kate and seems to be cut off  from the entire group.

He too, does not look very happy as he looks down.  So, in a protective move, Colin appears to have distanced himself from his mother as well as the entire brood.

THE OTHER KIDS TRAIL BEHIND

The other children  trail three steps behind Kate. But they do not look shamed or embarrassed. Perhaps they are too far back to hear Kate’s vitriol.

AIDEN IS ALERTED THAT MOMMY MAY BE UPSET


Aiden’s body language shows that he is alerted that something may not be right ahead.

He looks up-and turns his head to be in the line of vision of his mom, Kate.

MADY’S BEING MATERNAL

Mady, the younger of the twins who used to be the one to act up and demand attention and cry all the time on the show and the one who never seemed to help with the other  kids, now  seems to show a maternal side in this photo.

She reaches out and places her hand on Aiden’s back in what appears to be a comforting  gesture. Mady also seems to have a caring and concerned expression on her face.

TWINS  DELEGATED TO CARRY THE BAGS AND THE TOYS


Maybe Kate wanted to look her best for the papps she hates, so she didn’t want to ruin her photo op by shlepping two huge stuffed animals around.  That is why she may have delegated the task over to the twins Cara and Maddy.

Mady seems to just be carrying her own toy under her arm, while poor Cara, the one who was seen as the responsible and mommy- helping twin on the show, seems to be struggling with a large bag which appears to be dragging.

The bag contains her toy, an identical one to Mady’s  and a lot of other items as well.  She is off to the side and appears to be focusing on being able to carry all of the items.

JOEL AND LEAH TRAILING BEHIND

Kate always used to describe  little Joel as being” under the radar. ” Well he certainly is in this photo.  His head isn’t bowed so he did not hear any of Kate’s possible harsh or shaming  words. He stands close to the nanny , who  also  stands in back next to him holding his little  hand.

The nanny also appears to be holding the littlest of the Gosselin sextuplets, Alexis’ hand as well.

Leah  has upright posture, which shows she isn’t  shamed or feeling humiliated. She stands close to the nanny holding her blanket over her arm and  focusing  on what’s ahead of her.

THE GOSSLELIN KIDS WILL BE BACK ON TV

Jon no doubt worked out a deal where he allowed the kids back on TV in exchange for forgiving his debt to TLC. Do I think that it is a good idea for school age kids to be on TV and have cameras following them around all the time? Not really.

When they were younger it was sweet to see them grow up right before our  eyes. But now that they will be going to school and interacting with their peers, it may create some additional problems for them.

If their peers tell them that they saw them on TV, the correct answers IS NOT as Kate instructed Leah  to once say to her classmates on one of the last shows”  I don’t want to talk about it.”  I hope Kate is not continuing to  misguide her children to say this. If she continues to encourage this , she will be responsible for having them alienate their fellow students.

Personally , I think that the kids have enough money with trust funds set up for them for their future, so they really don’t need to be on TV to earn more money. But that is a choice Kate made, Jon caved into, and TLC has definitely made, in order to secure continued revenue from a  winning media franchise.

I think that a show featuring the kids will do very  for TLC  as a lot of people will love the kids and will watch it. Perhaps TLC gave Kate her own show as an insurance policy in case Jon ever  changes his mind decides that he doesn’t  want  the kids on TV anymore.

Personally I think they should offer a show to Nadya Suleman  rather than giving Kate her own show. Nadya  really needs the money and their guardian angelship.Maybe they can just film Nadya’s  babies growing up and leave the school age kids alone so that they can have some privacy.

ITLESS KATE AND  HER OWN SHOW

Personally I cannot imagine a successful  a show featuring  ITLESS Kate alone without her kids. Let’s face it, the only reason  she is in the media at all is because  of her kids.

The woman in my view has absolutely nothing  whatsoever to bring to the table. She is not a professional. She is not knowledgeable. She has not been the “mother of the year” with being abusive to  ex husband in front of her kids as well as being verbally abusive to them.

She is not interesting or watchable in my view. She is not talented and she is definitely NOT likable. No matter how hard TLC tries to revamp her image by dressing her up and placing hair extensions in her head,  or getting her to cry on cue or coaching her what to say in interview, she is still Kate. The real Kate will always emerge and it will take years of therapy to see a real change,  if change if we can ever see a change at all.

Personally I think her personality issues that we have all seen run very deep. Her inner anger, self absorption, not getting along with family members and alienating so many who were her friends and who worked with, her speak volumes. Since she would need a licensed therapist to diagnose her underlying pathology. Therefore,  I will leave that to them.

HER UGLY BEHAVIOR ON DWTS SAID IT ALL

I truly  wanted to give Kate the benefit of the doubt  before she began on DWTS. I figured that it was strain of her bad marriage, being the  only breadwinner, and caring for all the kids that made her behave so poorly on Jon and Kate Plus 8.

But after I saw her egregious behavior on DWTS, I soon realized that this is who Kate is and nothing can change her.

I can never forget how she treated the sweetest man alive ,Tony Dovalani on DWTS, causing him to almost quit. He was gracious to the end. Even though he said the right words, his body language couldn’t lie. He was thrilled that this nightmare was over!  He was thrilled that he didn’t have to work with this rude, self absorbed  and disrespectful woman any longer.

TONY DOVILANI’S BODY LANGUAGE SPOKE  HOW HE TRULY FELT ABOUT KATE

In his final interview, Tony spoke about Kate  in glowing terms. He said how hard she worked and how she had many things to deal with during the show.

But  his usually animated voice was devoid of inflection which indicted insincerity with regard to what he was saying about Kate.

He smiled with his lips spread across his face,  but clearly was not smiling with his eyes.  You could see no raised cheeks.

In addition, he  looked down and away from Kate as he sang her praises. It was a though he could no longer look at her. He clearly had enough and it showed in his final interview.

KATE’S RUDENESS AND PHONY NON- TEARS

Kate’s rudeness and speaking while the other contestants were getting their scores spoke  volumes about her not caring about anyone else but herself.

And those PHONY non- tears! When she said to Tom Bergeron ,” Give me a minute.” as he tried to interview her right after she was  voted off the show, she no doubt needed a minute to conjure up those fake non tears.

It was very disturbing to watch. Kate’s  empty monotone devoid  of any inflection and emotion, clearly reflected her  false words in saying that she “loved” everyone on the show.No doubt the only one she loved on the show was herself.

KATE’S TRUE PERSONALITY WILL ALWAYS LEAK OUT

As I said the public is not stupid and can see through all of this. They got who the real Kate is and  it was not pleasant.  In fact, it was disturbing!  No matter  how they try to spin  her new  show  by putting her in different job situations  or they do a show that will show her outer and inner changes, the public will never buy it.

The real Kate will always leak out. It is the same Kate we saw on Jon and Kate Plus 8, DWTS, the View and all the other shows she was featured on.

The FAKE- non tears are getting old. I hope the powers that be at TLC  don’t think that Kate’s crying which she did on every show she has been on, will garner ratings.

Instead it will be a sure fire way to turn even more people off with her.

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Octomom’s Body Language on Oprah Shows Denial, Misguided Perception, and a Cry For Help While Oprah’s Body Language Showed Disgust

Days later, I am still  haunted by Oprah’s “Day In the Life of Nadya Suleman.” In observing Nadya’s body language, I can clearly say that this woman is misguided and disconnected from the reality of her very serious  situation. With her inappropriate laughter, at one extreme, and on the other extreme with  her deadpan lack of appropriate facial animation and expression, monotone, meaningless mea culpa  filled with self deprecation,  and her  misguided  and unrealistic views, there is no question that Nadya is in need of some serious help.

 OPRAH’S BODY LANGUAGE INDICATED SHE WAS NOT TOO KEEN ABOUT HAVING NADYA ON HER SHOW

 Nadya said that  her intention in appearing on Oprah because she was sick and tired of people having the wrong idea about her.  So she wrote to Oprah to have her on the show and Oprah obliged, albeit unwillingly, based on Oprah’s body language.

Oprah, was clearly not too keen about having  Nadya on her show  and it  showed  in . Oprah’s uncharacteristic stiffness, lack of smiling, tenseness in her face  and a turned –off vocal tone, showing disgust.

 Oprah Winfrey even  said on  the show  that she  “had reservations” about interviewing Nadya Suleman, That is why she  initially  refused to  join in on the Octomom media frenzy,  until she received  a letter from Nadya  telling her how she wanted the world “to see her for who she is.”

 WAS NADYA’S REAL INTENTION FOR GOING ON OPRAH TO GET  OPRAH’S FINANCIAL HELP?

 If you are not  promoting a book , a TV show , a  product,, or some charitable cause, why  go on Oprah?  While Nadya says her intention for going on the show was to set the record straight, I think that it may have been a lot more calculated on Suleman’s part.

 Perhaps she thought that by going on Oprah, she could  play the victim role , with the hope of  Oprah bailing  her out of her mess, like Oprah has done for so many of her guests in need throughout the years.

 Oprah has been known to give away houses, college educations, seed money to start  businesses,  pay mortgages, and buy cars for previous guests .

 So, perhaps Nadya thought why not go on Oprah and allow her to film her life with her children. This way,  Oprah could see what a difficult time Nadya was having  with all her chaos and perhaps  Oprah would now provide her with more nannies, a bigger home, pay off her mortgage, provide a trust fund for all the kids for a college education, or all of the above.

 But by the tone of  Oprah’s voice and the direction of her questioning, along with the  regular flashes of  a disgusted  facial expression, Oprah was  having none of it.

She clearly let Nadya know that Nadya and her brood were on their own, sans Oprah’s help.

 At the end of the show Oprah offered  up nothing to Nadaya except for wishing her  well in an uncharacteristically  non- Oprah-like  unenthusiastic tone..

 OPRAH  TRIED TO PROVIDE OPTIONS FOR NADYA THROUGH HER QUESTIONING


While many would say that Nadya’s  appearance on Oprah  brought in a larger viewership that day and for that alone, Oprah should have rewarded Nadya with a little something like paying off her  mortgage so that Nadya and her kids would have a roof over their heads and their home wouldn’t  go into foreclosure.

 But  after watching Oprah for decades, this is not how Oprah works. Oprah is all about empowering people and helping those who try to help themselves. She doesn’t give them the fish. Instead she gives them the fishing pole so that they can be empowered to do things on their own.

 After listening to Oprah’s questioning  of Nadya,  you could see Oprah getting more tense body language wise and more angry facial language and vocal wise because  she soon discovered that talking to Nadya was like talking to a wall.

Nadya  had no intention of helping herself.  For example, Nadya was insistent  that she would NEVER  ever put her kids on television . She even remarked that it was “boarderlinbe abuise.”

Oprah then probed  further asking Nadya if  someday will she feel  forced to put her kids on TV to  earn money so they can survive, Nadya was adamant that she would never do it. Case closed!

 Nadya then went on to say that she did appear on the cover of a magazine in a bikini but that is not who she is and that when the money runs out from that media gig,  she doesn’t know how she will survive.

 Nadya’s answer  it appears was  a clear ploy to get Oprah to feel sorry for her as a person who had “:no way out.” It was as though  she was waiting for Oprah to   say. “ Oh poor Nadya. Here is some  money so now all your problems will go away.”

But Oprah did nothing of the sort. Instead Oprah  probed  deeper with her questioning and Nadya was even more adamant that she would not put her kids in the media.

 NADYA’S  INTENTION OF HAVING OPRAH HELP HER BACKFIRED DUE TO HER HYPOCRISY, CONTRADICITONS  AND STUBBORNESS

 Nadya’s  stubbornness at not wanting  her kids on TV and her hypocrisy of  having  posed bikini-clad  for photos for money  to feed her kids  turned views off..  This, along with her  now actually having her kids filmed   on TV  showing  them in a  day in her life  reeked of hypocrisy and contradiction.

 OPRAH MAY HAVE BEEN WILLING TO HELP BEFORE NADYA  MENTIONED “BOARLINE ABUSE “

 I have no doubt that Oprah could have helped   if  Nadya would have only  shown signs of wanting to help  herself. When Oprah openly asked her that if someday, wouldn’t she feel that she might have to put her kids on TV, Nadya barely let Oprah get the question out  as she chimed in that she was  appalled  at the suggestion, calling it “ boarderline abuse.”

As Oprah  asked  that question I could see the wheels turning in Oprah’s mind .  Oprah is the most powerful woman in the television world with her OWN television  network incidentally   called OWN (Oprah Winfrey  Network) . Oprah could have  easily given  Nadya a prime time show  like TLC did with Jon and  Kate plus 8 where we watched these multiples grow up. The show could have provided  Nadya with  more nannies and  more financial help  to address the children’s needs.

 If  Oprah was behind Nadya’s show .Oprah would have NEVER abused any children  by having them filmed for their own show. There is no doubt in my mind that she would have abided by the  strict child labor laws ,

 Oprah could have definitely helped Nadya in a legitimate way. But Nadya was too unaware and disconnected to the reality of her situation   allow Oprah to help.

 Oprah didn’t offer her the fish.  Instead,.  though her line of questioning , Oprah was no doubt was offering Nadya the fishing pole,  with the opportunity to do a show so she could support her kids.

But as  soon as Oprah head the words “boarderline abus” e the wheels stopped turning in her mind as  to how she could help Nadya get out of her dire financial  situation. Oprah was done!

 NADYA’S MISGUIDED PERCEPTION  THAT PUTTING HER KIDS ON TV IS
“BOARDERLINE ABUSE!”

 Nadya’s  misguided perception of  putting her kids on TV is not abuse , especially if  Oprah was involved in doing a show with her. As long as there were proper things in place like the  number  hours they could be filmed, having medical help on hand, having psychologists the team available, having educators on hand, there would not be abuse.

ABUSE IS EMOTIONAL NEGLECT

 Abuse is what we saw on  TV in watching the day in Nadya’s life . Neglect is abuse and those kids are clearly neglected emotionally.  She knows it and even mentioned that she feels guilty she cannot give them enough attention  or supervision.

 NOT  IMMEDIATELY TAKING A BABY  WITH AN EAR INFECTION TO THE ER IS ABUSE

 The little baby with the ear infection, needed immediate attention STAT . He needed to be taken to the emergency room immediately and not  have to wait until Nadya made a call to get someone to help. That baby did not have to suffer in pain until Nadya’s helper got out of bed in the middle of the night, went to the bathroom, got dressed, got in their car,  to  arrive at  her house to get the baby to put him in her car , to buckle him into a baby car seat, and finally  drive him to the ER.

 Instead, Nadya  needed to have someone on hand right then and then to grab the child and take him to the ET immediately so there would be less time that the child had to suffer in agony.

 HAVING NO NANNIES  OT ADDITIONAL HELP  AT NIGHT  WHEN CHILDREN NEED ATTENTION IS ABUSE

 The woman is  so overwhelmed and sleep deprived , that she  and not able to give each child  the correct  supervision. There are not enough nannies to go around during the day with only three nannies for 14 children. That is one nanny for 5 children.

The fact that there are  NO nannies at night, is appalling . Oprah was even appalled any this and  told Nadya  she needed night nannies.

 How can Nadya  Not have  nannies  at night? It is a MUST!

  Night time is when children need can  need help the most,. This is the time  when they  often get scared and cry or something often  goes wrong with them  health wise. The fact that these babies are  left crying all night long   with no one to comfort them , I find this highly abusive and  unconscionable.

 There are thousands of  reputable and decent  people  out there who would love to volunteer for a night shift to hold and care for any of those crying babies.

 ABUSE IS NOT KNOWING  THAT ONE  CHILD WAS STEPPING ON ANOTHER ND HURTING THEM

 If it wasn’t for the Oprah camera crew,  who knows what would have happened  to the baby who was stepped on by their older sibling!. Who knows what damage was done to that child.! That was only one incident that we saw when there were camera filming the children..

One can only imagine what else goes on in that household when there are no cameras..

 ABUSE IS ALLOWING A CHILD TO WALK AROUND WITH A CLEFT LIP WITHOUT SURGICAL REPAIR

 Seeing  the baby with the  open cleft lip at that age disturbed me  greatly. Having spent a lot of my early career working with patients who had facial deformities, I know a lot about people who are born with cleft lips and palates.

 I know that  surgery is usually performed during the first 3 to 6 months to repair  a cleft lip and between 9 and 14 months to repair the cleft palate. . This baby apparently only has a cleft lip. That lip should have been repaired at least 6 months ago,

 To allow this child to live with a gaping split in his lip where it will make his eating, swallowing,  and speech and language development problematic as he grows is abuse in  my book. It is unconscionable to not  repair the child’s cleft and to have let it go untreated for so long a period

ABUSE IS ONLY GETTING TWO HOURS A NIGHT  SLEEP AND NOT FUNCTIONING EFFECTIVELY AROUND YOUR CHILDREN

 

WE all know that  most parents of babies rarely get a good night’s sleep. But when a human being ONLY gets 2 hours of sleep a night and that situation has been going on for over a year, this is very bad.It is not only bad for the parent but very bad for the child.

 

There have been enough studies in the literature throughout  the years  concerning  sleep deprivation  and what happens to a person if they have no slept for long periods of time, The bottom line is that they cannot function properly. They cannot make the right decisions, Their  perceptions are distorted, Their physical coordination and reaction time is impaired. They become less emotionally stable and more emotionally labile..

 With Nadya  getting a reported 2 hours of sleep per night, it is no wonder that her perceptions are distorted .How can she properly  care for all of these children if her perceptions are misguided and she doesn’t think clearly?  She could make a lot of mistakes in terms of how she cares for these children thereby endangering their welfare..

ABUSE IS NOT IMMEDIATEY ADDRESSING  THE NEEDS OF A POTENTIALLY TROUBLED CHILD

 

Nadya  mentioned several times how her 8 year old boy acts up and how he is more of a handful than her 8 babies. Maybe he acts up because he needs the attention. Maybe he acts up because  he is troubled.

 Whatever the case,  the fact that this boy is acting up needs to be immediately  addressed by a professional. By neglecting  and not getting this boy proper help in the form of a therapist or counselor she is doing him a huge  disservice.

EMPTY MONOTONE   RHETORIC  COMPLETE WITH  MEA CULPA  REFLECT  MANIPULATION

Nadya has all the right words and  says all the right things to show us she has  psychological  insight with regard to what she has irresponsibly and irrevocably done.

She says  the 14 children came from “my own childish desires.” She says shew as “selfish and immature.”

As she self deprecates in telling us how bad and dumb she was to do this , she offers up no solutions for her problem.

Her monotone indicates that she has robotically discovered that it is  much easier to agree with what the public thinks of her than to argue with them as she did early on when she appeared on the Dr. Phil show fighting with her mother. .

All of this is manipulation in my view. Her agreement  with public sentiment is a way of shutting them up. What more can you say when you point the finger at someone and they in turn, point the finger at themselves in agreement  that they were wrong?  You can say nothing!

So  now that she has shut people up by agreeing with them, she can now play the victim role and to the hilt and tell them how bad off she is in hopes that they will  now help out. After all, she agrees with them as to what a bad thing she did.

NADYA LOVING THE ATTENTION !!!!!

Nadya  tries to get you to feel sorry for her as she tries to justify her actions for accepting $100,000 for a bikini photo shoot in a  magazine by appeasing  any detractors and saying she feels “a tremendous amount of guilt”  There is no  doubt in my mind that she LOVED IT!!

Personally I have spoken to many limo drivers who have chauffeured Nadya back and forth to her many media gigs and they  ALL tell me she LOVES all  the attention.

Even though she tries to paint herself as this prim and proper innocent woman who just made a mistake because she loves kids so much, she no doubt  LOVES  that she  has  been offered a role in a porn film “three times. ” While she  says she found  being offered these film roles  “disrespectful,”there is no doubt in my mind that it flattered her very fragile ego.

 

Nadya’s immaculate makeup, manicured fingernails, low cut tee shirts, figure hugging dresses, and short skirts  not only scream for attention but scream that she wants to be seen a sexy. What better validation for your sexiness than to have a porn company offer you a film deal!

NADYA LOVES THE PAPPS AND THE ATTENTION

Pushing  awkward  multiple  giant strollers to go to to a public park for a few minutes of playtime with the kids  is bound to get anyone to look at you., l et alone the paparazzi..

That is exactly why Nadya does it. She  no doubt LOVES the papps and loves the  public attention. It is what fuels her.

She does not hate the papps as she says. According to my sources, . she has even contacted them to let them know of her whereabouts so that they can  film her.

NADYA NEEDS TO GET SOME HELP BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE

When we saw  Nada in a  day in her life on Oprah talking to her eldest child who didnt want to go to school and told him that  it was illegal for him not to go to school. She also said  that  and if he didn’t go to school social services would come and take him away  or disrupt he family/

As we heard Nadya tell this to her little boy, it was clear to see that Social Services is in the forefront of Nadya’s mind.

There is no doubt that they are watching her like a hawk and waiting for some major slip up, so that they can  to intervene,

When Oprah asked her if she would consider giving the kids to foster families to help take care of them, Nadya  adamantly  refused to consider the thought and said she would do anything  in her power  to make sure this never happened. But it may very well happen.

The ONLY way this will never happen is if she earns  enough money to properly support these kids, get more nannies and more help  for the kids, so that all of their immediate needs can be addressed.

She needs to have more time to sleep so that she can function properly. She needs to stop living in the illusion that she will find some work out there to support her family that isn’t media related. It will NEVER  happen. Who will hire her? She cannot start a business of her own and take care of this family. There is only one solution.

NADYA NEEDS TO IMMEDIATELY RECONSIDER HER MEDIA  OPPORTUNITIES

 

The only way Nada cn earn enough money for her kids and still be with her kids is if she puts her  them on TV so that we can all watch them grow up. As far as abuse and exploitation, if  child labor laws are followed and there is a therapist on hand at all times I foresee that this can be a win- win situation for all.

Say what you will about Kate Gosselin,, she never has to worry about having enough  money for her kids. She may have to worry about other things like their psychological health. But she will at least have enough money to afford therapists for them in the future if and when they need one.

Love her or hate her, Kate has taken advantage of her situation and  made a cottage industry out of her sextuplets  as they are cared for financially, They will never starve to death  and they have enough money in their trust funds to attend college if they choose to do so.’

This cannot be said for Nadya’s kids. People will continue to  notice them and know who they are just because  Nadya  is their mother ,. Her excuse at wanting to givev them a normal life is naive. There is no way they will ever have a normal life based on their circumstances.

So in order to give them a better life, why not share them with the public and afford them opportunities they could never have?  The one thing ,Kate Gosselin  said about her show was that it gave the kids experiences and opportunities to do things they could never do  because there was no money to do them.

For that reason alone Nadya should consider having them on a show, Besides people love watching babies grow, especially multiples as we saw from Jon and Kate Plus 8’s popularity.

That is why in my view, Nadya needs to write another letter to Oprah, Only this time she needs to let Oprah  know that she reconsidered having her kids on TV and  gives the OWN  Network first choice in making a  decision to produce and air  her show.

By having a show featuring the kids, there will be a very public watchful eye over them so that no  harm can come to them, In addition  Nadya or her  children will never have to worry  where their next meal will be coming from.. http://www.drlillianglass.com/

Casey Anthony Jail Confidant Maya Dirkovik’s Body Language Says She Is Truthful As She Reveals Information About Casey

nmate Maya  Dirkovik’s  neck  tattoo and skinny eyebrows may give her past away, that she was once a drug addicted gang member who  at 17 choked a 15 year old to death. But  after listening to this attractive young woman’s  jailhouse interview with reporter  Cathy Belich, one  could never believe that this sweet sounding young lady  once committed such a  such a heinous crime.

In fact. midway through her interview Cathy Belich actually mentioned that she found it difficult to believe, after speaking to Maya that she actually murdered  another person.

MAYA’S CREDIBILITY

While it is easy to want to dismiss inmate Maya Dirkovik’s c credibility because she is  a convicted felon- a i a convicted murderer is not necessarily a liar.

In fact, Maya’s body language, speech and voice patterns show that she is very credible as she discusses her communication with Casey Anthony.  She shows absolutely no signals of deception. She is open eyed, has steady and appropriate eye contact.

Her  facial expressions are consistent with what she is saying. When she says things in the negative she appropriately shake her head “no” and when she says things in the affirmative she appropriately shakes her head “yes. ”

Her voice pattern is also very consistent with what she is saying and with her facial animation. She comes across as a person with nothing to  lose, nothing to gain and  nothing hide.

MAYA’S TURNED HER LIFE AROUND

What also adds to Maya’s credibility is how she apparently has turned her life around from a drug addicted 17 year old gang member who made the wrong choices. Her  sincere feelings of remorse for strangling the 15 year old could be seen in her body language and in her facial expression. She talked about how she was haunted by what she did even found herself constantly doodling the girl’s name and   obsessing about her until she came clean and admitted her guilt.

She showed a great deal of empathy as she spoke of how bad she felt for the girl’s mother  and how she wondered what the girl would be like if she had lived and if she would have even forgiven her.

Now Maya has spoken to over 100 school aged children in the Scared Straight program.
In addition she spoke of her remorse at being a 13 year old runaway and had a great deal of empathy for her own mother and what she had to go through with her.

MAYA’S MOTIVATIONS FOR COMING FORWARD

Reporter Belich asked  Maya if she thought that she had something to gain such as a reduced sentence  by coming forward and talking about Casey Anthony. Maya confidently said she did not, and I believed what she said. She said she was happy to serve her 30 years and felt blessed that she did not get the death sentence.

She also said she came forth because she thought that it was the right thing to do, just like she thought it was the right thing to do when she turned herself in for the murder of the 15 year old girl.

She seemed haunted by Casey’s blank emotion.  She also feels strongly about those who would harm a  child and even used the word “despise” to illustrate how she feels about these type of people that hurt children and how these people are outcasts in prison. So she is willing to testify in court about her communication with Casey. She wanted to lead law enforcement “to the right way so that the baby can rest in peace.”

Maya said that when she came to prison, she  called the prosecutor’s office and the  Orlando homicide department. She then called   911 around Thanksgiving  time in November  where  homicide in Orlando took information  and came to see her. She mentioned that she had  not asked for anything in return   she had not called her called lawyer . All she asked for was to not get media attention as she felt that this would make her life difficult in prison. But since it did get to the media, she decided to speak to the media about what she knew.

Because Maya felt relief in coming clean about what she herself did and admitting her guilt, she thought that Casey might feel the same relief if she came clean and did the same thing by admitting her guilt, but this did not happen. In fact, several times throughout the interview Maya commented on how cold and mask like Casey’s facial appearance was and how she was not  at all remorseful.

MAYA’S OBSERVATIONS ABOUT CASEY RING TRUE  CONCERNING HER HER LACK OF TEARS AND COLDNESS

When Maya  tells about how Casey didn’t cry when the Chaplin came into Casey’s  cell to talk to her the night Caylee’s body was discovered, I believed  what  Maya was saying.

Maya also said how there was a coldness to Casey that put her off. She said she never saw remorse from Casey.

She also remarked how some of the other jail mates were  mocking and yelling at Casey “ Where’s Caylee? ” as Casey was being shackled. She shared Casey’s odd behavior of smiling at them as they said this.  Most people Maya said would have shown upset about this, but not Casey.

We have all seen Casey’s non- tears in the courtroom. We have also  seen her inappropriate  constant smile  in the courtroom that is highly disconcerting.

So Maya’s report is consistent with what we have seen first-hand.

MAYA’S   OBSERVATIONS OF CASEY’S CONSTANT GROOMING

Another thing about Casey which we have all seen is her constant grooming in the courtroom where she fiddles with her hair and brushes off her clothing. We also saw this in her surveillance videos with the detectives and other law enforcement.

Maya mentioned how Casey would look in the mirror  in her cell all the time and play with her hair.

MAYA’S OBSERVATIONS ABOUT CASEY’S SELF CENTEREDNESS

Maya mentioned how Casey asked  her if someone would want to interview  her and write a book about her when Maya mentioned that she was thinking about writing a book about her case. We cans see that their conversation centered back on Casey, something we have all seen first- hand in her jailhouse interviews with her parents.

MAYA OBSERVES  CASEY’S JEALOUSY OF CAYLEE

We have all seen Casey’s jealousy towards Caylee in the jailhouse tapes during her parent’s visit with her. When Cindy remarked how Caylee loved eggs and bagels, Casey said , I love eggs and bagels too, what about me. She also stated at one point “ I am Caylee.”

So when Maya told Kathy Bellich how she once told Casey that she thought Caylee was pretty, it was no surprise to me to hear  that Casey said “ What about me?” This comment not only spoke volumes about  Casey’s narcissism but  also to her jealousy towards Caylee and her motive for killing the little girl.

MAYA’S DISCUSSION  OF HOW CASEY HATED HER MOTHER CINDY

Maya also gave her impression with regard to Casey’s relationship with Cindy. She said that Casey hated  her mother and constamtly called her mother names . She spoke of  how Casey said that  Cindy said Casey was an unfit mother because she liked to drink and party and had different guys around the baby.  Maya  also told of how Casey did not like leaving Caylee with her mother.

We saw up close and personal via the jailhouse tapes of how Casey had issues with Cindy, There was tension between the two and we also saw how when Cindy was crying, Casey was laughing  at her sadistically. She seemed to  enjoy seeing  her mother in emotional pain.
She also said that Casey never said that her father or brother molested her and only spoke well of them.

CASEY’S LIES

When it was believed that Caylee was kidnapped, Maya mentioned that Casey told her three separate lies. First She said that the babysitter took Caylee.  Then she said that the babysitter came to her house to babysit Caylee and took her. Next she told Maya that the babysitter left a note saying she took Caylee.

So Maya’s hearing Casey’s constant lies is something we all heard from Casey. All Casey has been doing is lying to everyone. So her continuing to lie to her fellow inmates is not surprising.

MAYA’S MESSAGE TO CASEY

Maya’s message to Casey was that she come forward. She said that it’s not the mistake you make, it’s what you do afterwards and not cooperating  is no good. She also said that coming to prison with a charge like that is not the best thing.

BOTTOM LINE IS THAT MAYA WILL BE WELL RECEIVED BY A JURY

The bottom line is that Maya does look and  sound credible body language wise . She will be very well received by the jury in my view no matter how hard the defense tries to impeach her.  She is solid and unwavering and is remorseful for what she had done at the age of 17 when  as a drug addicted gang member she  strangled a 15 year old girl. It will come through as she speaks.

The fact that she had nothing to gain by coming clean with the exception of a clean conscience and her being on the right road to do the right thing will also sit well with jurors. They will be more open minded to hearing about  what Casey told her and they will believe what she says.

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Barack Obama’s Body Language at Nuclear Security Summit Shows How He Feels About Fellow World Leaders and Vice Vera

THE PRESIDENT’S BODY DOES NOT LIE

In these recent series of photos taken at the Nuclear Security Summit, Barack Obama’s body language  shows a  range of emotion,. It shows   how he really feels about certain world leaders and how    genuinely  feel about him.

 Because the body doesn’t lie, if you closely examine President Barack Obama’s body language and facial language you can see exactly what he thinks of certain world leaders and what they in turn think about him.

OBAMA’S HEIGHT DOES NOT FACTOR IN TO THE BODY LANGUAGE EQUATION

While he is considerably taller  than a lot of the other leaders, Obama;s height does not factor in concerning  what I have observed facial and body language wise. His different reactions towards various leaders range from  complete dislike and anger,  tension, condescension, deference, to  extreme friendliness.

 NO LOVE LOST BETWEEN FRENCH PRESIDENT NICOLAS SARKOZY AND US PRESIDENT  OBAMA  

 

Perhaps the clearest example of no love lost between two world leaders can be seen between French President Nicolas Sarkozy and  Barack Obama. Sarkozy clearly does not like Obama. First of all his body is turned away from Obama. They are also both looking in different directions which means that they are both not like- minded .

When a person puts up their forhand  hand like you see Sarkozy doing it says “ stay away from me”  or “keep your distance. It is not a welcoming gesture by any means.  It blocks communication and contact.   When you do not see a palm of the hand facing up, you can rest assured that  it is not a welcoming gesture.  

Obama has a very tense grin which speaks volumes. While  his lips may be smiling, his eyes are not doing  any smiling. You do not see high raised cheeks.  This indicates that his smile is not genuine in the presence of the French leader.

 Also Obama’s  hand, which he is about to place on Sarkozy’s shoulder  as a power play and a means to gain the upper hand,   appears  claw-like and cupped. This indicates anger.

  Also as  both leaders hold their respective hand at their side you can see tension in their hands and fingers as their hands are slightly cupped. This indicates both tension and anger between the two.  

So body language- wise we see that these two leaders are clearly not on the same page and clearly do not  like one another.

OBAMA’S ANGER AND QUESTIONING BODY LANGUAGE AT ISRAELI DEPUTY PRIME MINISTER OF INTELLIGENCE DAN MERIDOR

Baseds on his cupped hand and the distance he is keeping between himself and  Israeli Deputy Deputy  Prime Minister of Intelligence,  Dan Meridor,   Obama  is clearly disturbed and angry that Israeli  Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu didn’t show up and instead sent his Deputy Prime Minister.

Obama cocks his head to the side ,  indicating doubt and not being sure of the motive of sending a Deputy of Intelligence.

Obama is clearly uncomfortable and not very welcoming. Obama is also very stiff, indicating tension and coldness  on his part.

On the other hand,  Dan Meridor is quite  warm and welcoming. He leans in and offers his hand,  which is on top in a firm grip. It shows confidence.  He is showing  a very open  greeting,  but unfortunately it is not being reciprocated by Obama. 

OBAMA SHOWS ANGER AND HOSTILE BODY LANGUAGE TO CANADIAN PRIME MINISTER HARPER

The US and Canada have always had a great relationship with one another on political front. In the past , whenever you saw US or Canadian leaders together you could see the warmth between them body language- wise.

 But in this photo, you would never know that the US and Canada were allies and had a good relationship.

Whenever anyone points a finger at you, like Obama is doing to Canadian Prime Minister Stephen Harper, it is a very bad sign. It is a clear display of anger  and hostility.

  Obama’’s other hand is tense and cupped, also indicating anger. His body is stiff and pulled away which indicates a distancing between the two.

Canadian Prime Minister Harper looks like a school body being admonished. He is very angry as indicated by his definitely cupped fist- like  hand gesture positioned at his side. He is looking down, which is also a bad sign and a signal of embarrassment.His body is stiff and his forehead is tense which indicates anger. His body is still and is turned away from Obama, off to the side,  as he is not directly facing him.

It is very clear from this photo that there is something very wrong between them, No one ever points their finger at another in Western culture without it being a sure signal of aggression and anger.

Conversely no one looks down and is turned away from the person to whom they are speaking unless there is severe tension and upset in the relationship.        

  OBAMA SHOWS  DEFERENCE TO   RUSSIAN, CHINESE  AND SAUDI ARABIAN  AND PAKISTANI DIGNITARIES

In stark contrast to this body language with French President Sarkozy, Israeli Deputy Prime Minister of Intelligence Dan Meridor and Canadian Prime Minister Stephen Harper, Obama’s body language  shows deference and reverence to the leaders of super powers China and Russia and to the richest country Saudi Arabia and to  Pakistan, the country known to allegedly  harbor the majority of the terrorists including our public enemy number one ,  Osama Bin Laden. 

Obama rounds his shoulder, his arm is bent and he is on the receiving end of the handshake, This clearly indicates  his lack of showing power. He also looks down  at the ground which clearly shows that he is not he Alpha leader as he actually  bows in deference   to the Communist Chinese leader Hu Jintao

Since they are both about the same height, Obama needed to look at the Chinese leader eyeball to eyeball, Lowering your physical position in many Asian cultures means that you are saying you are not as powerful or important as the person to whom you are greeting. This is a very bad way to convey strength of  a leader of a super power. 

Perhaps Obama misunderstood that China is not Japan. It is not a Chinese custom to bow.  It is a Japanese custom to do so , when you are in Japan. But when you are in the United States ,  as were the members who attended this Nuclear Security Summit, you need to do as the Americans do and not bow, but rather  shake hands.

Obama’s gesture of bowing to the Chinese leader, who in stark contast had the body language of a King, with ramrod straight posture and squared shoulders and direct eye contact with his head  lifted upward and strong stiff outstretched arm with a firm handshake grip.  Hu Jintao shows that he  has the power in his  handshake as his thumb presses over the middle of the back of  Obama’s hand.

He is clearly in control over Obama from a body language standpoint. This is not a good message to put forth from a fell0w leader of another super power. In my view it shows weakness on Obama’s part, a message I am sure he does not want to relay. Unfortunately he did so with his body language.

Obama needed to show the same regal posture he showed  with the leaders of lesser powered countries like Norway and Poland. He needed to stand up straight a nd look at Hu Jintao eyeball to eyeball.

 His shoulders needed to be squared back and his head needed to be up. The message that Obama sent to the Asian world by his deferrential  body language is that he is not a strong leader and that he literally bows to the strength of the Chinese.

Also regal and king- like is Russian leader Dmitry Medvedev.He will not allow Obama to engage in a power gestures of placing his hand on  Medvedev’s shoulder. Instead, he  counteracts Obama’s  power gesture by placing his open hand with splayed fingers across Obama’s elbow. In doing so, he  even takes up more room,  grasping Obama’s body as he  places this thumb on Obama’s bicep and presses down on it. He also leans back from Obama.

Obama’s head is turned to the side and bowed, thereby  indicating deference.  Obama  tries to lean in towards the Russian leader who will have no part of it as he  backs away with his upper body.

We continue to see Obama’s bowing and weaker behavior from a body language point of view as he stands next to the Russian leader. Obama places his hand on Medvedev’s shoulder which learly repulses Medvedev.

 That he why Medvedev moved his entire arm forward  as you can see in the above photo. You can also see that Medvedev cups his hand in contrast to Obama’s open hand,  as further indication that he does not welcome Obama’s power gesture. Medvedev’s uncomfortable and tense facial language also speaks to his discomfort.

Even though Obama attempts to show his power  with his hand on the shoulder gesture, the forward  thrust of his body language and facial language belie him.

Obama  is tense and frowning,  indicating insecurity , which is highlighted by his rounded shoulders and bowed head.  He does not show strength of leadership in this body language stance.

With the Saudi Arabian Prime Minister of Intelligencce  Prince  Muquib  al ‘Saud’s body language is regal,strong and indeed prince- like with his straight posture,  Obama is also round shouldered  and bowing, albeit  not as intensely as he did to the Chinese leader. 

Obama’s  lower body andbuttocks are back while his upper body leans forward, His facial language with pursed lip shows deference as well.

Obama also tries his hand on the shoulder, ” I like you”  gesture with King Addullah of Jordan, who pulls awy from it, as he turns his shoulder up towards the President.

 King Abdullah looks very king like with his straight ramrod posture and no doubt does not want to be seen in a  formal photo being man handled by anyone, let alone an American President.

Even though King Abdullah is smiling,  there does appear to be some tension in his face,  indicating a slight discomfort with Obamas gesture.

Obama leans in towards the King, not only with his shoulder and upper body but with his head.  The King does not reciprocate,thereby leaving an obvious physical distance between the two.

   Obama’s leaning in towards the Kings shows  his deference  towards the Jordianian King.

 .Obama also shows bowing and deference  with Pakistani President Yusif Reza Gilanai.  He is ramrod stiff and doesn’t even look at Obama.

 Obama is looking down and bowing, as likewise  he does not look at the Pakistani leader.  Obama’s  other hand  is in a gesture as to accommodate the Pakistani leader.

GERMANY’S ANGELA MERKEL’S POWER PLAY OVER OBAMA

Obama continues to show deference as he bows to Germany’s leader Angela Merkel. He leans into her and clearly likes her a lot as he does a double handshake and looks at her eye to eye.

She however, had the upper hand body language wise as she reaches forward to touch his shoulder. Her head is tilted and she has a genuine smile as does Obama.

 In fact there is a softness in Obama’s face as he greets Merkel, indicating a warm connection between the two world leaders.

OBAMA SHOWS LOTS OF LOVE AND GENUINE  ASFFECTION FOR OTHER  WORLD LEADERS

 The mutual hand touching and mirrored facial expression where both leader’s eyes and lips show that they are in synch with one another. Their body language further  indicates that  there is genuine affection towards Obama and  South African leader Jacob  Zuma.

This genuine open handed splayed fingered bear hug between Brazil’s leader Luiz Lula and Obama shows genuine and sincere affection. Their respective  head and chin,  resting on one another’s shoulder confirms their extreme warmth and closeness towards one another.

Looking at their  facial expression  and the  way each of these to leaders literally  light up  when they look at one we can see a tremendous closeness.and lots of warmth and affection.

 Obama smiles a genuine smile with his eyes crinkling and his lips parted. India’s  Prime Minister Monmohan Singh has an expression of knowingness as his bright eyes  with raised cheeks along with his warm smile and direct eye contact  indicate that he is in the presence of a good friend.

There is clearly a lot of mutual love and respect between the two world leaders.

 We may recall that Obama hosted his first formal  State  dinner for the Indian leader several months ago where the social climbing White House party Crashers  the Salahi’s- Michaela and Tareq  crashed the event.

 OBAMA SHOWS THE GAMUT OF EMOTION  TOWARDS WORLD LEADERS

So Obama clearly has his favorites. There are those leaders he likes, if not loves, and there are those whom he obviously  cannot stand, as determined by his body and facial language towards them.

There are those to whom he shows deference, while are others to whom he shows anger. To  others  he shows  arrogance . 

 Still there are other to whom he shows extreme confidence  as in the case of Finland’s leader Halonen.  His body language  may even  be perceived as condescending. 

 When there is a lot of physical distance betweentwo people  and they have different emotional expressions or are looking in  different directions as in  the case of Mexico’s President  Felipe Calderone  and President Obama, they usually are not like minded.

Obama’s looking down while Calderone looks directly at him appears as rude andindicates  that he is not as focused on him.  

 

Even though  there is no physcial   contact with a handshake  as in the case of Obama and Norway’s leader  Jens Stoltzenberg there is a mutual likability between the two as indicated by the position of their feet.

When two people’s  feet are pointed atone another in the same direction, there is usually mutual respect . You can be assured that they both have pleasant feelings towards one another.   

The bottom line is  that even though we may not be privy to their direct conversations, we can learn a great deal as we read   between the lines when we look at Obama’s body language in relation  to his fellow world leaders. http://drlillianglass.com

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Tiger Woods’ Dead Dad In Manipulative Nike Commercial Can’t Spin Tiger’s Profanity, Cursing,Using God’s Name in Vain,Disrespectful and Entitled Body Language at Masters

No matter how much spin is out there is out there with Tiger Wood’s handlers  in trying to resurrect  his image from being a “man whore”, the real Tiger Woods non- manufactured image  is still there . His body language complete with his nasty cursing, his damning God, yelling, grimacing,   self entitled immature spoiled brat entitlement emerged all to see during the Masters.

WHAT TIGER’S CURSNG MEANS

While people do curse when they play sports, in Tiger’s case his was unacceptable for someone who grew up with the game and knew the rules and the etiquette involved. Also the fact that he knew the world was watching him and every move would be scrutinized also indicates just how self absorbed he is and the fact that he simply  that he just didn’t care.

The fact that he referred to himself in the third person as he cursed “Tiger Woods You suck” speaks volumes as well . It speaks to self entitlement and  seeing himself as a product and an  entity that is above all- Tiger Woods the almighty being  rather than as a regular  person.

Tiger apparently spewed forth  his tirade of profanity  and curses on several bad shots ( three bogeys in four holes on the front line) while staying in contention Saturday at the Masters .

USING GOD’S NAME IN VEIN SHOWS THE HYPOCRISY OF BORN AGAIN BUDHIST TIGER

How  dare Tiger use the Lord’s name in vein as he yelled “ God damn it!” after a poor shot off the sixth tee that led to back-to-back bogeys.

In all of his press conferences Tiger has said that he has gone back to his religion his  Buddhist roots. What bullshit!  What hypocrisy!

No Buddhist would use God’s name in vein ever!  They respect everyone and every religion. This is a huge insult and further indication that all of his words in his phony pressers were written by someone else to manipulate the public so that they could view  a new and improved image of Tiger Woods.

I find saying the Lords name in vein equally as egregious as I have found the rest of his despicable behavior.

But there is one thing I completely agree with that Tiger said during his cursing and profanity tirade. He said “Tiger Woods, you suck!: You absolutely do suck as a human being and because you are a deceptive hypocrite!!! You obviously could not live up to the spin of your handlers and minions. You are what you are. And what you are is a man of very poor character.

You need to apologize to everyone for your immature behavior on the greens. Your cursing, and profanity showed a complete disrespect for  the game that made you a superstar. Your using of the Lord’s name in vein was unconscionable. To use God’s name before the words damn it is the worst thing you can say. What does God have to do with your stupid golf game?

If you developed prostate cancer or penile cancer,  I doubt you would be damning God, but rather praying to God that your cancer wasn’t as advanced and that you would receive the best treatment from the best doctors to  to save your entitled and ungrateful life

No matter how well you play golf or whether you win the Masters you have lost it all in my eyes.   .

THE PUBLIC IS NOT DUMB AND WILL NOT BE MANIPULATED

The one major  thing my wonderful readers have learned about me from reading my blogs is that I am all about the truth and absolutely hate bullshit and spin. I will call it out every time. I hate when people think that the public is stupid and attempt to manipulate them . I AM the public and I resent when anyone is trying to sell me a bill of false goods.

I have said it before and I will keep saying it. The public is NOT dumb!  In fact, the public is brilliant and they are savvy. They are NOT naive, They know it all and they know when they are being used and manipulated.

While spin PR may have worked in the 1950’s and 60’s 70’s and even in the 80’s  when there was little  no internet whatsoever  and people were more unaware and more naïve. Nowadays,  to think that it could work is ridiculous.

Back in the day, the public could easily buy the handsome movie star  Rock Hudson’s who were portrayed as family men when they were nothing of the sort. The studio PR teams would spin their yarn and the public would buy it.

But today things are completely different. Whether  PR teams  are trying to manipulate Kate Gosselin’s image to be the mother of the century and to make her a likeable woman, no matter what they say or what venue the put her in, the real Kate Gosselin soon emerges . Her body language, face, speech and vocal tells say it all. You can’t fake it. You see through it.

The same is now true with Tiger Woods and how his handlers have tried to spin and manipulate  his image, complete with resurrecting his dead father into the PR mix. You cannot manipulate  because if you do you will lose in the long run. Let’s see what Tiger’s spinners did and how it didn’t work.

THE MEA CULPA SPIN DIDN’T WORK

First his handlers resulted in having Tiger do a series of mea culpa television press conferences. The first one was a disaster with no one believing a word he said and seeing right through the manipulation.

So his handlers sought out two Tiger friendly interviewers, one from the Golf Channel and the other from ESPN, to ask only 5 minutes  of well rehearsed questions.

Everyone saw through that manipulation as well. When Tiger’s handlers saw that people weren’t buying being manipulated with only five Tiger friendly minutes, they decided to go  primetime with  a free for all presser where Tiger was put on the spot and all journalists, not just Tiger friendly ones, could ask a question. They knew they better do something to improve his image before his comeback at the  Masters.

SPINNING TIGERS IMAGE BY SENDING HIM TO PHONY  REHAB

People felt manipulated as Tiger vowed to take a break from golf until he got sorted out. Anyone who knows anything about rehab knows that it doesn’t happen in only 45 days. Tiger is not all better and now ready to play golf. When asked about his rehab and if was going to continue with it, we clearly saw signals of deception. He looked away and hemmed and hawed,

Going back to or continuing with his rehab was the furthest thing on his mind. This translates into “I only went into rehab because my PR handlers and minions thought it may make me look good.” Well guess what Tiger? It didn’t make you look good, It made you look bad because NOBODY was buying your fake rehab.  And certainly after watching your body language where you looked like a deer in the headlights when asked about rehab, you weren’t even buying your phony rehab. It clearly showed all over your face.

DOES TIGER REALLY LOVE ELIN AS HE CLAIMS HE DOES?

There is no question in my mind that Tiger believes he has no problem and that if he wasn’t tied down with Elin there would be no need for rehab. He would just be another “dawg-like” athlete on the prowl.

He verbally  claims to love Elin  more than anyone in the world but vocally with his monotone and facial and  body language belie him. When you really love someone more than anyone in the world your voice has a bounce and a lilt to it. You are not monotone sounding. Also your face radiates that love. Your eyes and your cheeks lift as you smile and show your teeth. You do not frown nor are you mono-faced.

In my view, Tiger knows Elin  clearly detests him and will most likely never forgive him.  She refuses to be seen publically with him, go into his house or take vacations with him and share the same bed according to sources in the know. That doesn’t bode well for reconciliation.

It is not as though Tiger had one indiscretion or two. Instead he had a lot of indiscretions with prostitutes, hookers, call girls, porn stars, and party girls. Even though Rachel Uchitel, a Tiger sex partner who earned millions and millions of dollars to keep her mouth shut and is legally fighting everyone who calls her a hooker or a whore or a prostitute, many believe she will always be considered one of these adjectives in the mind of the public no matter how many legal suits are filed or how much PR spin she does.  Even if she ends up appearing on Dancing With the Stars, people will always see her in a negative light.

Tigers refusal to discuss what really happened that night with Elin and then defensively stating that the press shouldn’t think that Elin did anything wrong – like committing domestic violence is in essence telling us what did happen. His refusal to come clean and telling us that there are things between he and his wife he wants to keep private says it all.

WHAT MOST THINK HAPPENED WITH TIGER AND ELIN THAT FATEFUL NIGHT

If nothing really happened he would explain why he ran out of the house shoeless with a fat lip, snoring on the ground after he hit a fire hydrant and why Elin smashed his windows out of his Escalade.

But  there is no explanation because the public is NOT stupid!! They can put two and two together and come up with the number four. Most believe that Elin found the text messages, made some calls, a woman answered either Jaime Grubbs or Rachel Uchitel and  then Elin  the  phone at Tiger which hit him in the lip.

They believe that perhaps she wasn’t finished with him and with all of her adrenalin rushing, picked up the handiest object lying around the house- a golf club and began swinging it at him once again hitting him in the mouth only this time knocking out some teeth. (Maybe that is why he is now wearing clear  invisible braces  to splint his repaired  broken teeth.)

He knew the damage a club in the hands of his angry and out of control wife could continue to do so he ran for shelter and safety in his car.

But he didn’t expect Elin to smash out the windows, which took a lot of force.  So  he sped up and ended up crashing.  Then we didn’t hear from Tiger for days when the police tried to interview him but he was not available.

Of course he is going to say Elin didn’t commit domestic violence. If he admitted it, she could go to jail and his kids would suffer and would not be cared for by their mother. The last thing Tiger would want to do is care for those kids fulltime. So he kept mum and sang Elin’s praises.

When all is said and done, the bottom line is that Elin’s no show at the Masters speaks volumes.

THE ONLY TIME IN HIS PR SPINNING BLITZ THAT SHOWED EMOTION AND SINCERITY WAS WHEN TIGER SPOKE OF HIS DAD

Tiger showed signals of deception, anger throughout his man interviews. The fact that he didn’t come clean with what really happened on that fateful night he was found lying in the street and his telling us to  simply read the police report showed his arrogance. There was too many times where he showed his annoyance and insincerity throughout his many PR spin interviews.

The ONLY time Tiger showed ANY realness and connection was when he spoke of his dad.

TIGER’S SPIN TEAM  INCLUDES TIGER’S  DAD IN PR CAMPAIGN BECAUSE OF PUBLIC’S  RESPONSE

So Tiger’s  handlers, who were aware of this positive blip in the public’s response, decided to capitalize on the only good thing about Tiger’s interview and the only thing they must have discovered in their focus groups that the public was buying- Tiger’s sincere love and deep relationship with his dad.

That is why they USED footage of Tigers now deceased father’s voice. It erroneously gave the impression that father was talking to his son and asking him why he did what he  did. I thought it was hoaky and was in very poor taste.

USING TIGER’S DEAD FATHER IN NIKE ADS IS SHAMELESS MANIPULATION

I despised the fact that Nike used a dead man and Tiger’s real emotions towards his dad  to manipulate the public in an attempt to pull at their heartstrings so that they would see Tiger in a better light and forgive him for his indiscretions. Their obvious message was poor Tiger lost his dad who guided him and that is why he strayed. PUHLEEEZ!!!! We are NOT naïve simpletons.

Their plan worked  just the  opposite. It was insulting and an example of shameless manipulation. It showed how Nike was willing to go to any lengths to try and sell their product.

Their warped thinking was obviously developed by someone in the Nike organization who didn’t understand the implications of social psychology and public sentiment and human behavior. That is why it had an opposite impact on the public.

The  public was livid  at the thought  that they were being manipulated. The fact that he lost his father and acted that way made Tiger even more reviled because his father did not tech him to act so irresponsibly. Or did he? Was he a role model for Tigers ’bad behavior?

Either way, it raised all sorts of negative feelings. So obviously the father thing didn’t work at all.

WHETHER YOU WIN OR LOSE IT’S HOW YOU PLAY THE GAME

Whether you win or lose, it really is how you play the game. If you play the game as an obnoxious self entitled jerk who damns God you have lost the game in my eyes.

No matter if you win the Masters and have another green jacket to keep in your closet, or you gain millions of additional dollars in endorsements if your disrespect someone else’s religion, damn God, or curse away like a spoiled nasty foul mouthed and undisciplined child, you are a loser! That means YOU TIGER  WOODS!  www.drlillianglass.com

Casey Anthony’s Hatred and Disgust Towards Her Mother Cindy Reflected in Jailhouse Letters Along With Brother Lee’s Sexual Molestation

Casey Anthony’s hatred towards her mother Cindy is clearly shown in her  jailhouse letter writing. I believe that there is a great chance that whatever Casey wrote in these letters is true. While she has  lied so much in the past, she lied verbally.

She consistently verbally lied to  authority  figures to the police and to her parents. She lied to her friend Amy Huizenga, only where there was something at stake- like money. Since there is nothing at stake with her new jailhouse friend and since she has nothing but time on her hands, why not say all that is on her mind? That is exactly what Casey did in these letters.

CASEY WROTE THE LETTERS NEVER THINKING THEY WOULD GO PUBLIC

When one verbalizes and when one writes to get their points across, there are two distinct different areas of the brain that are in operation. There  is usually a lot more editing when one communicates  verbally  and a lot less  editing with the written word is communicated.

Psychologically, when Casey wrote those letters, there is no way she EVER thought that they  would become public. After all, it was the prison guard who was actually helping Casey  get those letters to her new friend. In a million years, simple minded Casey would never believe that her information would now be public and would now be used against her.

I can’t help but wonder if the prison guard and the prison staff allowed the liaison between Casey and her jailhouse friend to flourish so that perhaps Casey could release some pertinent information. There are jailhouse snitches who help gather information which can be used against a specific criminal so who’s to say that this didn’t take place here?

CINDY’S BETRAYAL DISGUSTS CASEY

So when Casey opened up and shared her deepest feelings about her mom Cindy, she was telling the truth, In fact now that we know what Cindy was doing it all makes more sense. We see exactly what Casey was talking about.

Casey writes to her new Jailhouse friend that she is upset that her mom didn’t come to visit her on a particular Friday  because she was off gallivanting on Meredith Viera’s Today show.

Casey was equally sickened that her own mother Cindy trademarked Caylee’s name so she could use it to make money off of the tragedy, Casey was also livid that Cindy was also  trying to now capitalize off of Casey’s name and trademark her name as well.

While we can’t sympathize about much when it come to Casey Anthony we can definitely sympathize about what Cindy has done in this instance .

CASEY  MAY HAVE SUBCONSCIOUSLY KILLED CAYLEE TO GET BACK AT CINDY

There is no doubt in my mind that it Casey murdered Caylee in order to get back at her overbearing hateful and hated mother Cindy. It was Cindy who was in denial that her daughter was pregnant. When  she did have the baby it was Cindy who took over with her being the first to hold the baby. It was Cindy who bonded with Caylee bought her clothing and doted over the bay.

CAYLEE WAS A BURDENSOME APPENDAGE TO CASEY

Casey saw the love that was supposed to be for her, now bestowed on to Caylee and she HATED it !!  As evidence of what I am saying, I watched this mother- daughter jealousy concerning Caylee when I watched the jailhouse tapes. Cindy was saying how Caylee  used love bagels and eggs. Casey interjected,
“What about me? I liked bagels and eggs. Then at one point she said “  I am Caylee.” This comment is so telling. It shows her overwhelming jealousy towards the little girl and how she saw Caylee as an appendage of her. The appendage turned out to be too much of a burden, so she destroyed it. She killed Caylee.

CINDY ANTHONY -A VERY UNLIKEABLE  CHARACTER

Cindy has always been a very egregious character in the  whole Casey Anthony saga.  Besides her  rude and obnoxious gum chomping in the courtroom and during her deposition, her constant yelling at others, hostile tones, , finger pointing, controlling  gestures as she signals George what to say and not say on television interviews, and her clear  signals of deception makes  Cindy, a real life villain.

UGLINESS TOWARDS REAL LIFE ZENAIDA

Her  rude, ugliness and callous abuse towards the real Zenaida Gonzales showed  Cindy’s true  character. She aggressively told the innocent woman  that she was not pretty and certainly not a 10- an unnecessary comment that  absolutely devastated Zenaida.

CINDY’S SIGNALS OF DECEPTION

Cindy’s signals of deception in her numerous television interviews and in her deposition were constant. They ONLY thing that I believe Cindy said was true was when she said it smelled like there was a “damn dead body “ in the car.

CINDY’S HOSTILE DEFIANCE

Her over the top hostile defiance reflects what people do when they are not telling the truth and have something to hide. When someone is usually that verbally abusive as Cindy has been on such a consistent basis, there is no doubt in my mind that she may be compensating for something.

CINDY’S ‘WOODS’ COMMENT

Perhaps that something was knowing all along that little Caylee was dead rotting in the WOODS while others were naively and goodheartedly searching for the baby. I am still haunted by her WOODS camera during an early interview when WOODS weren’t even a  consideration at the time.

I am also haunted by Cindy’s vocal confidence in telling Sargent Allen that Casey got help in moving the body. Who helped her? Did she, George, or Lee help her? And how does she know that Caylee’s body has been moved numerous times as she says?

CINDY’S EXTREME GUILT ABOUT CAYLEE

I belive that one of the reasons for Cindy’s  backtracking, defending Casey, and overt obnoxious defiance is due to her own  guilt concerning her role in what eventually happened to Caylee  via her own daughter’s hands. She also harbored guilt at knowing where little Caylee was- In the Woods!

We know that there was never a good relationship between Casey and Cindy. In fact there was always a tumulus one. Cindy and Casey had a fight before Casey took Caylee. Cindy apparently told Casey that she would throw her out and keep Caylee.

“ Oh Yeah”, thought Casey—She showed her mother! So. she took Caylee  from the home just to spite her hated and hateful mother Cindy.

Cindy knew her daughter Casey better than anyone in the world. She knew that Casey would be overwhelmed by what it took to care for Caylee. She knew that Casey was incapable to caring for Caylee. That is why she figured that Caylee would be back home at Suburban Drive in a matter of days where she would deposit Caylee back into Cindy’s arms.

But that never happened. Casey was super mad at Cindy and was determined to prove to her that she was a “good mother” and fully capable of taking care of Caylee by herself. In fact Casey refers to herself as being good mother  in her jailhouse letters.

But soon Casey no doubt realized that being with a baby was cramped her style. She didn’t want the baby  around when she partied, chloroformed her and put her in the trunk of the car to be quiet and go to sleep

DUCT TAPE TO MAKE SURE THAT CAYLEE WAS QUIET

Then I believe  that Casey would usually add a strip of duct tape across Caylee’s mouth for good measure. It was to assure herself that in case Caylee woke  up in a dark car trunk, she wouldn’t be heard screaming for help by a passerby which would ultimately get Casey in trouble. So that is why I strongly believe `

Casey placed the duct tape over little Caylee’s mouth on a regular basis whenever she chloroformed her and placed her into the trunk of the car. She may have even found a little heart and placed it over the duct tape as a symbolic exclamation point and her warped view of love- that Caylee was safe and sound- all snug as a bug in a car trunk, all quiet with duct tape over her mouth and sleeping like a baby because of the chloroform.

CASEYS CHLOROFORM- DUCT TAPE RITUAL GONE AWRY

Only one particular time Casey missed her mark on Caylee’s face when she did her ritualistic chloroform and duct tape dance.

As a side bar we have consistently seen Casey’s ritualistic OCD like behaviors of smirking, hand rubbing, grooming, and of course when tears are called for, wiping away non- tears, blowing her nose into a Kleenex and looking at it and repeating the ritual over and over again.

Casey is clearly obsessively neat in my view after looking at her precise writing in her recent jailhouse letters.

But on one party night, Casey was not very precise when she placed the ritualistic duct tape of her daughters mouth to assure her quietness. Perhaps it was too dark outside. Perhaps she as in a hurry to get partying.

Perhaps she was on drugs or drunk. Or perhaps this was done subconsciously as a sadistic a t to finally kill the object of  her hated mother Cindy’s affection and to kill the “little monster” and ”little snothead”- (terms Casey called Caylee), who stood in her way of a good time.

DEEP DESIRE TO GET RID OF CAYLEE AND RESULTING SADISTIC BEHAVIOR

Maybe psychologically the  heart sticker Casey placed on Caylee’s duct taped  mouth speaks to this sadism as she punctuates her wrong doing with a heart- designed to express feelings of love. Maybe Casey was sadistically  loving what she was doing in torturing Caylee. Hence, the heart sticker.

Whatever the reason, Casey he didn’t carefully place the duct tape over Caylee’s mouth as she did in the past. Instead she missed her mark and  placed a piece over Caylee’s mouth and nose. In doing so, she cut off Caylee’s air supply.  No doubt Caylee suffocated to death with her nose and mouth duct taped so she couldn’t breathe.

CASEY’S DOING NOTHING AFTER FINDING CAYLEE  DEAD IN HER TRUNK

When Casey awoke from her sex and drug and party filled crazed night and opens the trunk she finds a dead Caylee. She doesn’t know what to do. So, she does NOTHING! She lets the child’s body rot in there for days- hence the smell of a dead body George and Cindy smelled.

WAS CASEY SEEN BURYING THE BODY?

Early on in the case, I remember seeing an interview with a male passerby who said he saw a young lady wearing a hat and carrying a black bag into the woods. Maybe he saw Casey doing this. Maybe Casey subsequently told Lee her closet confidant about what happened.

WAS HIGH FIVEING BROTHER LEE AS TO INDICATE  HER PARTNER IN CRIME?

Based on their smiles and  fiveing we all saw, it may make sense that Lee helped her relocate the body of Caylee to another location, Maybe it was then thrown into a body of water due to the rains. Maybe the smiles and high fiveing between Casey and Lee was an indication that they both succeeded in hiding the body and that no one would no what really happened to Caylee. They could stick to their story and Lee could look like Mr. Bigshot out there.

DID LEE KNOW A LOT MORE THAN HE REVEALED?

‘When I look back to all of Lee’s inappropriate laughter on his depo tapes, it screams to me  that he was nervous and anxious because he must have known a lot more than he was revealing. But his body language and facial language and behavior revealed a great deal to me.

CINDY’S SUPER DEFENSIVENESS. AND THE  NOT SEARCHING FOR CAYLEE SAYS IT ALL

If what I am saying is accurate,which I believe it is, Cindy’s super bitchiness and defensiveness and meanness and kicking out Tim Miller of Equi Seach from her home shows me that she may very well have known what happened.

When someone is missing a child they welcome the help of others. They get involved They search everywhere. They are grateful, They are not defensive or bitchy unless they have something to hide.

The WOODS leak also speaks volumes to me with regard to Cindy’s possible involvement in knowing a lot more about what happened to Caylee.

GEORGE’S LOYALTY COMMENTS AND CASEY’S NON-LOYALTY REVEALED IN HER JAILHOUSE LETTERS

George spoke of family loyalty in his interviews. Now it makes a lot of sense in terms of his putting loyalty above all in defending his daughter when it was he who made mention of the dead body smell in the car.

But Casey broke that bond of loyalty by telling her new jailhouse friend via her letters how her father George and brother Lee sexually molested her. Lee also spoke of family loyalty in his jailhouse interview early on. But once again, through Casey’s written revelations she broke that bond of loyalty between them.

DOES LEE’S PASSIONATE MEMORIAL CEREMONY SPEECH INDICATE MORE THAN A BROTHER SISTER RELATIONSHIP?

Now that Casey,  via her jailhouse letters admitted that Lee sexually molested her- a claim also brought forth by Casey’s ex boyfriend Jesse Grund, Lee’s passionate CMA speech at Caylee’s Memorial Service may very well have a different meaning. He too speaks of family loyalty and ‘solidarity”.

When I first heard him say CMA, I though he as referring to Caylee who had the same initials. But as lee delved deeper into the speech and more passion came forth and more accolades came forth I could clearly see that his CMA was directed towards Casey. He purposely used initials to try and confuse everyone and to hide what he was really doing- a shout out to his beloved sister. Otherwise he would have been direct and forthright and said Caylee Marie Anthony instead of CMA. After all it was Caylee Marie Anthony’s memorial service.

CINDY INAPPROPRIATELY CONTINUES TO  PET LEE AS HE SPEAKS DURING THE MEMORIAL SERVICE

Also Cindy’s petting her son  so vigorously and repeatedly while he was speaking also speaks to the lack of boundaries in this family. It was completely inappropriate and very disturbing to watch in my view. It once again spoke to her trying to control the situation and her lack of respect for her son wanting to express his own opinions.

If you didn’t know this was mother and son it could be construed by many as being sexual in nature as we see Cindy’s constant petting of Lee’s back.

CMA IS NO DOUBT  CASEY MARIE ANTHONY NOT CAYLEE MARIE ANTHONY

As Lee speaks, he says he is incomplete. He then passionately  kisses  his wrist while he shouts out CMA. In  analyzing the contexts of what he says, it retrospect, it sounds like a
lover” that Lee was talking about a lover, not a sister or a little baby.

I am sure that Caylee didn’t teach him each day to be strong. She was a baby who herself needed to be taught to be strong.  Then Lee says “Its been so long that I have  been able to hug you or to hold you and tell you how much you mean to me,” it really smacks of lover talk.

When Lee then said  CMA “ I miss you ,as he closed his eyes, his facial and body language indicated to me that  it sounded like was was referring to a lover and not to a baby.

“CMA I love you. CMA I am so proud of you.” He says.  How can you be proud of a baby who was killed? So it is clear that he is proud of Casey for no doubt, not spilling the beans to police and sending them on a wild goose chase.  And then the clincher is –“  I hope that you are proud of me too!”  Why would he care if a dead baby was proud of him? He was speaking in the present tense to a live sister and not to a dead baby, so lover seems to make more sense.

Brother Lee then goes on to say” I want you to know that I will never forget the promise that I made to you.”  He is clearly referring to Casey. What promise could he have made to Caylee except to promise her a new toy or to take her to Disney World?

CASEY’S JAILHOUSE LETTERS CONCERNING LEE MAY SHED NEW LIGHT

The whole thing is chilling now in light of what we know about Casey’s jailhouse letters where she accuses Lee of molesting her by coming into her room in the middle of the night and then  getting in trouble for telling  Cindy about it as  that Cindy tells Casey that  it was her fault.

Based on all that we know thus far and all that we can surmise by putting two and two together, this is no doubt one of the most sick dysfunctional families we have seen.  In my view, they all deserve to be behind bars, especially of they tried to cover up and protect Casey if  they knew Caylee was dead all along. www.drlillianglass.com