While everyone seemed to be shocked that Sandra Bullock and Jesse James’ marriage is in trouble, with his alleged cheating with now four women, I wasn’t at all surprised.
Why? In studying their photos, especially during this awards season, I didn’t like what I saw with regard to their their public interaction.
It seemed like Sandra was the last to know this as she thanked him at one awards ceremony by saying that she never knew what it was like for someone to cover her back.It was more like stab her in the back!
At the Academy Awards she was thatful for THAT as she pointed to a crying Jesse. But those were no tears of happiness. Those were tears of guilt and shame and knowing he did not deserve this accolade.
In my view, she inadvertently picked the right work to call him- a THAT! A Nazi saluting white supremacist loving cheater is definitely a THAT !
INKING OF TROUBLE ON THE CELEBRITY APPRENTICE
I knew something was really off with this couple during Jesse Jame’s appearance on the Celebrity Apprentice. The purpose for being n the show was to raise money for your favorite charity. The celebrities have to use all of their high profile and rich contacts in order to secure the money. Jesse had one of the richest women in the world to ask- his wife Sandra Bullock, but he didn’t do so.
Donald Trump was surprised. But I wasn’t.e that there were clearly some issues going on in this marriage, perhaps his pride prevented him from asking his richer wife for a handout. While I could well understand that- I couldn’t understand why he wouldn’t do it just for the purpose of raising money for a charity to help others.
BODY LANGUAGE” TELLS” OF A RELATIONSHIP IN TROUBLE
If we go back and look up at the first photo posted in this blog, we will see something that is very telling body-language wise. Sandra is all smiles and happy and has her arm affectionately around her husband’s neck. But he is not reciprocating her affection. Instead, he is pulling away and looking in another direction.
When couples so not look in the same direction it means they are not like minded. When he pulls his head away from her it is a signal of disdain.
In this photo, Sandra is all smiles again and happy. But she is walking in back of him, This is also a very bad sign for couples body – language wise. Unless you are in a culture where it is customary for the woman to always walk inback of her man, it is unacceptable.
In the photo he is not holding her hand and their facial expressions couldn’t be more diverse. That is also a bad sign. It means that they are not on the same page emotion-wise. It is clear that Jesse doesn”t want to be their based on his facial expression.
His pursed lips show inner anger. Jesse is pout of his element and he clearly doesn’t like it. They are also looking in different directions which is also a bad sign relationship wise. Sondra is int he back with his shoulder in front of her which is also not a good sign body language-wise.
Even when Jesse is in his element and out of a tux and in his regular casual gear, he is still looking in a different direction than Sandra, once again indicating their non-like mindedness. There is also too much upper body distance between them as well as lower body distance which is also not a good sign. It shows that there may be intimacy problems here.
And here we really see the distance between them which may be indicative of sexual problems between the two and a lack of intimacy. His hand is cupped in an anger like position as is hers. This indicates that there is tension between the two.
Once again they are looking in different directions s she looks down nd he looks up, once again reflecting their non-like mindedness.
WAS SANDRA REALLY THE LAST ONE TO KNOW THERE WAS TROUBLE?
Perhaps Sandra was too busy with her filming and awards schedule to even notice there was a problem between the two. Perhaps she knew all along and didn’t want to face it. Perhaps she was in denial like so many of us can be when we know the other shoe is about to drop.
The bottom line is that she tried and obviously wanted to make it work. He words at the Academy Awards and at Oprah Winfrey’s post Oscar show indicated that she was indeed in love with her man and was happy to have him in her life. In her interview to Oprah she saidf that even though they were different they were really very much alike.
But were they alike in her mind only or were they really alike in how they thought about life and issues ? Did she know he was a Nazi loving saluting kind of guy? I certainly hope not!
OPTIONS FOR SANDRA
I think that the public humiliation and the betrayal not only speaks to Sandra but to all women. Most women were affected by this. In essence her marriage served as a role model for many oin that it said you can be very different and still find common ground and accept one another.
But this was not the case.No doubt Jesse was intimidated by Sondra’s stellar success. Instead of making him feel proud and invoking more self esteem and self worth that he could attarct such an accomplished woman, it made him feel less than.
It affected his self esteem to the point that he had to allegedly intimidate women so that he could feel more powerful and more in control. He allegedly had sexual liaisons with employees and with a similar looking like minded tattooed Hitler loving white supremesist.
It’s all very sickening in my view, While I am a proponent of couples working out their marriage and applaud couples who stick together and work things out, I do not think that in this case there is a goood future in this realtionship.
THE NAZI STINK OF TOXIC JESSE JAMES
Sandra worked so hard to develop her image which translates into box office success. Now that there is the stink of Nazism and white supremacy attached to her courtesy of Jesse James, she has no other choice than to leave this TOXIC MAN in my view.
Sandra is like so many women out there who see a “bad boy” with a shaky past and think they can be the one to tame him. Well they are wrong as Sandra came to find out, Jesse was previously married to a porn star and had a two tumultuous marriages.
He was imprinted to be with these type of women and not the” accomplished independent “good girl” type as Sandra.
That is why he was ni doubt drawn to his stripper porn star Nazi loving mistress, who by the way would be the first one to be thrown int ot he ovens in Nazi Germany based on how she looks with tattoos engulfing her entire body.
Jesse obviously found someone like minded as he too has shown to be a Nazi sympathizer as he made the Sig Heil gesture with two fingers under his nose to signify Hitlers mustache. Little does Jesse realize that back in the day in WW2, anyone who was all engulfed in tattoos like he wears and his sex partner has, would would be one of the first to be thrown into the ovens,
Sondra , in my view has no choice other than to walk away from this distorted thinking TOXIC MAN forever and never look back. If she doesn’t, it will speak volumes about her.