After analyzing several recent photos of Kate Gosselin’s body language with her new image makeover, initially, she appeared a bit awkward in getting used to her new look. But I must say in all fairness that would happen to anyone and personally, I think she looks fantastic with the long hair. It makes her look softer and less harsh. It showcases her pretty face. Hopefully, her behavior will begin to match her new attractive look and become more attractive as well. I hope that TLC, who has taken her under their wing, to do whatever they can to make her new show a success and not lose any more money, will invest as much time in giving her an inner makeover to go along with her outer makeover.
TLC’s DATNG REALITY SHOW TO FIND KATE A NEW MAN
From what I gather, TLC may do a dating type show with Kate to find her a new man. It will NEVER work in my view, no matter how many hair extensions they put into her head, if her inside isn’t made over like her outside
No man would ever want a woman who emasculates him, chastises him, or treats him like another one of her children. You can argue that she may have only acted like that with Jon. But if you believe in what Freud used to say, “what we don’t resolve we repeat,” she is destined for failure if she repeats her past.
Kate obviously has some unresolved anger and entitlement issues, among other issues that need to be resolved before she gets involved with any new man. We have all seen it up close and personal over the past few years.
TURN ON/ TURN OFF
I don’t think that her having 8 kids would be the turn off to a man. After all, those kids, from what we have seen are her biggest asset. While a man may be turned on to Kate’s new look, after spending time any with her I have no doubt any man would get turned off by her behavior – the narcissism and the selfishness.
There are even specific male female personality combinations, who if they get involved with one another, can be LETHAL, I discuss this in my upcoming book, TOXIC MEN- Identify, Deal With and Heal From Men Who Make Your Life Miserable, from Adam’s Media, which will be out later this year.
One such combination is the Control Freak with the Passive Aggressor. We have all seen this combination lay out with Control Freak Kate and Passive Aggressor Jon. We have all seen how it became LETHAL to the point that their actions showed that they BOTH “despised” one another.
CLEAN UP YOUR OWN ACT BEFORE YOU GET INVOLVED WITH ANY NEW MAN
A new “reality” show that doesn’t address the reality of what Kate’s role was in the demise of her marriage is not worth watching in my opinion. Unless the show get;s to the core of her issues, it will be like putting a dress or lipstick on a pig. It is still a pig.
If Kate fans and viewers have any high hopes for Kate succeeding in any relationship with man, they first to see her do a transformation on her inner self as well as her outer self. Now that would be a great show that I would like to see. Anything less than that is a waste of time. Seeing men come and go like the Bachelor or Bachelorette would be ridiculous. Of course at the end they would manage to get the kids approval so that would no doubt be TLC’s excuse for getting them on camera once again.
I have no doubt that of it came to that, Jon would have his say and not allow that to happen, They played hard ball with him and he will do the same. Meanwhile, as a sidebar if what police are saying- that Jon staged the Haley incident with her ransacking his home, Jon is in serious need of help. If he has filed a false report as a publicity stunt and acted in true Knute the Bear form, Jon and Kate’s 8 may be having to visit their daddy in jail.
CLEAN SLATE KATE
If she Kate truly committed to starting over and being “Clean Slate Kate”, as she stated, she needs to clean out her old slate first.
She can’t not address it or ignore it as she has done in the past. She needs to face her demons head on. This is essential if TLC is serious about doing a reality show and not some phony superficial time, mindless, wasting show. A great reality show is about a woman with a dirty slate who is ill equipped emotionally, transforms into having a clean slate where she becomes emotionally equipped to deal with all situations in her life, besides using ANGER!.
KATE MUST TAKE A MICROSCOPIC LOOK AT HER PAST TO CHANGE HER FUTURE
I believe she needs to understand exactly why her former marriage broke up and what her role was in it. She needs to know that although Jon has certainly not behaved well and continues to not behave well, and in my opining is seriously flawed, I feel that Kate’s abuse towards him for all those years had a lot to do with his going over the deep end. After all, how much abuse can you take on a daily basis and have it not affect you? Kate needs to admit this and be held accountable for her TOXIC behavior towards him. Her egregious behavior in the toy store and horrific behavior towards him in the travel store is forever etched in my mind.
Unless Kate learns what her role was in the Jon Kate mess, she will, like millions of others, continue to make mistake after mistake. I believe she needs to be re- educated in terms of how treat other and learn better communication skills other than SARCASM, ANGER, AND ME ME ME TALK. Her former non- communicative mantra when things are uncomfortable “I don’t wan’t to talk about it” just won’t cut in any new relationship, let alone any new makeover. She has to learn how to speak to others where she isn’t the central focus. And most of all she has to clean out her inner demons.
SEX APPEAL IN NOT ONLY IN YOUR HAIRSTYLE- IT IS YOUR COMMUNICATION AND BODY LANGUAGE
Obviously the long hair makeover was designed to give Kate more sex appeal. But there is nothing sexually appealing about a long haired bitch. Kate does seem awkward in terms of her body language with regard to her new image but that is understandable. She needs to change up her posture, her movements, and most of all that nasty facial expression complete with sarcastic raised eyebrow .
The long hair is only a small part of a sexy look. Without the rest- body language and facial language and voice pattern reflecting the inner change, as I said earlier, she would be nothing more than a bitch in hair extensions like a pig with lipstick.
And TLC needs to stop any campaign to call her a MILF. A MILF stands for Mother I’d Love to F_ ck! That is not the image Kate’s kids need to hear about their mom.
FIRST STEP KATE NEEDS TO TAKE TOWARDS A NEW INNER IMAGE MAKEOVER
Before Kate finds any new man, she needs to first make peace with her parents, her immediate family and with herself. That is the only show I would like to see instead of witnessing her TOXIC behavior towards any new man. www.drlillianglass.com