Kate Gosselin’s New Hairstyle and Body Language Image- “Pretty Is as Pretty Does”

After analyzing several recent photos of Kate Gosselin’s body language with her new image makeover, initially, she appeared a bit awkward in getting used to her new look. But I must say in all fairness that would happen to anyone and personally, I think she looks fantastic with the long hair.  It makes her look softer and less harsh. It showcases her pretty face. Hopefully, her behavior will begin to match her new attractive look and become more attractive as well.  I hope that TLC, who has taken her under their wing, to do  whatever they can to make her new show a success and not lose any more money, will invest as much time in  giving her an inner makeover to go along with her outer makeover.

TLC’s DATNG REALITY SHOW TO FIND KATE A NEW MAN

From what I gather, TLC  may do  a dating type show with Kate  to  find her a new man. It will NEVER work in my view, no matter how many hair extensions they put into her head, if  her inside isn’t made over like her outside

No man would ever want a woman who emasculates him, chastises him, or treats him  like another one of her children. You can argue that she may have only acted like that with Jon. But if you believe in what Freud used to say, “what we don’t resolve we repeat,” she is destined for failure if she repeats her past.

Kate obviously has some unresolved anger and entitlement issues, among other issues that need to be resolved before she gets involved with any new man.  We have all seen it up close and personal over the past few years.

TURN ON/ TURN OFF

I don’t think that her  having  8 kids would be the turn off to a man. After all, those kids, from what we have seen are her biggest asset. While a man may be turned on to Kate’s new look, after spending time any  with her I have no doubt  any man  would get turned off by her behavior – the narcissism and the selfishness.

There are  even specific male female personality combinations, who if they get involved with one another, can be LETHAL, I discuss this in my upcoming book, TOXIC MEN- Identify, Deal With and Heal From Men Who Make Your Life Miserable, from Adam’s Media, which will be out later this year.

One such combination is the Control Freak with the Passive Aggressor. We have all seen this combination lay out with Control Freak Kate and Passive Aggressor Jon. We have all seen how it became LETHAL to the point that their actions showed that they BOTH “despised” one another.

CLEAN UP YOUR OWN ACT BEFORE YOU GET INVOLVED WITH ANY NEW MAN

A new “reality” show that doesn’t address the reality of what Kate’s role was in the demise of her marriage is not worth watching in my opinion. Unless the show get;s to the core of her issues, it will be like putting a dress or lipstick on a pig. It is still a pig.

If Kate fans and viewers have any high hopes for Kate succeeding in any relationship with  man, they first  to see her do a transformation on her inner self as well as her outer self. Now that would be a great show that I would like to see. Anything less than that is a waste of  time. Seeing men come and go like the Bachelor or Bachelorette  would be ridiculous. Of course at the end they would manage to get the kids approval so that would no doubt  be TLC’s excuse for getting them on camera once again.

I have no doubt that of it came to that, Jon would have his say and not allow that to happen, They played hard ball with him and he will do the same. Meanwhile, as a sidebar if what police are saying- that Jon staged the Haley incident with her ransacking his home, Jon is in serious need of help. If he has filed a false report as a publicity stunt and acted in true Knute the Bear form, Jon and Kate’s 8 may be having to visit their daddy in jail.

CLEAN SLATE KATE

If she  Kate  truly   committed to starting over and being “Clean  Slate Kate”, as she stated, she needs to clean out her old slate first.

She can’t not address it or ignore it as she has done in the past.  She needs to face her demons head on.  This is essential if TLC is serious about doing a reality show and not some phony superficial time, mindless, wasting show. A great reality show is about a woman with a dirty slate who is ill equipped emotionally, transforms into having a clean slate where she becomes emotionally equipped to deal with all situations in her life, besides using ANGER!.

KATE MUST TAKE A MICROSCOPIC  LOOK AT HER PAST TO CHANGE HER FUTURE

I believe she needs to understand exactly why her former marriage broke up and what her role was in it. She needs to know that although Jon has certainly not behaved well and continues to not behave well,  and in my opining is seriously flawed,  I feel that Kate’s abuse towards him  for all those years had a lot to do with his going over the deep end. After all, how much abuse can you take on a daily basis and have it not affect you? Kate needs to admit this and be held accountable for  her TOXIC behavior towards him. Her egregious behavior in the toy store and horrific behavior towards him in the travel store is forever etched in my mind.

Unless Kate learns what her role was in the Jon Kate mess, she will, like millions of others, continue to make  mistake after mistake.  I believe she needs to be re- educated in terms of how treat other and learn better  communication skills other than SARCASM, ANGER, AND ME ME ME TALK. Her former non- communicative  mantra when things are uncomfortable  “I don’t wan’t to talk about it” just won’t cut in any  new relationship, let alone any new  makeover. She has to learn how to speak to others where she isn’t the central focus. And most of all she has to clean out her inner demons.

SEX APPEAL IN NOT ONLY IN YOUR HAIRSTYLE- IT IS YOUR COMMUNICATION  AND  BODY LANGUAGE

Obviously the long hair makeover was designed to give Kate more sex appeal. But there is nothing sexually appealing about  a long haired bitch. Kate does seem awkward in terms of her body language with regard to her new image but that is understandable.  She needs to change up her posture, her movements, and most of all that nasty facial expression complete with sarcastic raised eyebrow .

The long hair is only a small part of a sexy look. Without the rest- body language and facial language and voice pattern reflecting the inner change, as I said earlier, she would be nothing more than a bitch in hair extensions like a pig with lipstick.

And TLC needs to stop any campaign to call her a MILF. A MILF stands for Mother I’d Love to F_ ck! That is not the image Kate’s kids need to hear about their mom.

FIRST STEP  KATE NEEDS TO TAKE TOWARDS A  NEW INNER IMAGE MAKEOVER

Before Kate finds any new man, she needs to first make peace with her parents, her immediate family and with herself. That is the only show I would like to see instead of witnessing her TOXIC behavior towards any new man.  www.drlillianglass.com

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14 thoughts on “Kate Gosselin’s New Hairstyle and Body Language Image- “Pretty Is as Pretty Does”

  1. Not to be overly picky, but the extremely offensive MILF means “Mother I’d Like To F–K”…..not “Mother Is Love To F–k.”

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  2. I agree with everything you wrote, Dr. Glass. However, in a few of the last shows they filmed, Kate made it clear that it was Jon’s fault, not hers. (as did TLC) One of the questions during the Q&A episode, “do you ever want to remarry”. Her response, “no, and can you blame ME?”. This answer giving all the blame to Jon. I knew then that this woman hadn’t looked at herself at all. Even the few times she said she treated Jon badly, or she didn’t handle it too well (the travel store) did not come across as sincere. You can almost see her teeth clench. I think those lines were forced on her from TLC. I truly think Kate thinks she is perfect, as a woman and as a mother. Sadly, she is seriously flawed in both areas. Until she gets those children some serious therapy, she cannot ever convince me she truly does anything just for her kids. Once she even referred to her role as an ‘amatuer therapist’, “so how do you feel about that”, and how much she enjoyed it. These children are not pets. They seriously need some adult and professional guidance. This outrageous amount paid for these extensions should have been put towards professional help for the kids AND her. TLC doesn’t spend it’s money wisely. I still do not get the fascination with her that TLC, People and NBC has shown. I just don’t get it. There is no talent, no wit, no real personality. Extensions are just lipstick at this point.

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  3. Dr. Glass – I hear Kate is complaining about the new hair extensions. I cannot understand how one can become so entitled that she takes a gift, like the extensions, and turns it into a burden.

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  4. Never enough kate – that’s my new name for her!! AND never thankful for anything. The pics today getting the kids from the bus—not a smile in the bunch. Not the kids or kate with her wig on!! Do ALL MOMS go up to the bus door and get their kids or is it just kate for the cameras?
    With it in the 40’s there at least she’s dressed conservatively but come summer —out with the plastic chair,pink phone and sun dresses. OH YIPEEEE!!

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  5. And I agree, Kate has NO sex appeal. Doesn’t matter if she got a breast augmentation, a 7k salon job, etc etc.

    She just doesn’t have it. She should stick to what she does best. A strong, very vocal woman. That’s all she is. She has not “affection” in bones. She doesn’t have the physical appearance to be “appealing” no matter what TLC or Kate tries to do to her physical appearance.

    Add to the fact that she has a horrible attitude, she just isn’t appealing to anyone.

    I mean look at Jon. How many woman has he been friends with since Kate left him in Oct. 2008?

    All the BAD publicity, all the negative things that went on during the past year. Jon is still able to find a women that likes him for who he is. LOL

    Jon is just a nice guy. An idiot, but still nice.

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  6. Hi Dr. Glass,

    I wonder if you could comment on the photos of Kate picking up the kids on Friday, 1/15, where none of the kids were smiling and then she slapped Colin. I know what the expressions on the kids’ faces say to me, and Kate’s expression, but I’m interested in your opinions.

    Here are the links to a couple:
    http://gosselins.sosugary.com/albums/Candids/2010/january152010/017.jpg and
    http://www.gosselins.sosugary.com/displayimage.php?album=lastup&cat=0&pos=16

    and to see the whole series of photos from that day:
    http://www.gosselins.sosugary.com/thumbnails.php?album=lastup&cat=0

    Thanks so much!

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  7. Lauren,
    I cannot understand how one can become so entitled that she takes a gift, like the extensions, and turns it into a burden.

    That is typical Kate. He didn’t like the cribs donated by her dad’s church for the tups because they didn’t match so she gave them away and had to get new. She didn’t like the home make-over they got when the tups were born and had to redo much of it. She didn’t like the donated clothes for the tups when they were born, she complained about them and gave them away; accepting only brand-new. That was just at the beginning. As the years passed, I could go on and on – as I’m sure you’re as aware of the examples as I am.

    Is this a personality trait, Dr Glass, or simply someone who never learned to be grateful for others or the meaning of generousity, or someone who takes each ‘gift’ and to draw attention to herself turns it into a burden, etc? Is this a trait of a NPD individual?

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  8. kate is a very beautiful woman. I Like her hair extensions but i also liked her funky short hair do as well. I think there is a lot of jealousy going on as the only one i see is a royal piece of dirt is ex-hubby Jon. Believe me there is no therapist that could fix Jon and this is why. He said numerous times on his show he was thirty two i think it was, and he already had 8 kids. He was wanting out from under 8 kids to party and that is just what he did. Kate has morals, jon has none.

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  9. woow , you look so diffrent noow ! 🙂 You are gorgeous … i love the new look , its amazing how diffrent you look , after your asshole husband jon tihnks he amazing , your awsome , hope to see you soon girl ! and i promissed i would bring kelly to play with madison and kara ! aright call me huun , love yah !

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  10. I LIKE THE LONG HAIR AND SOFTER STYLE FOR KATE GOSSELIN. SHE LOOKS MUCH PRETTIER.
    I DONT THINK SHE SHOULD EVER GO BACK TO THE STRAIGHT SHORT HAIR. THAT WAS THE MOST AWFUL LOOK IVE EVER SEEN, (SHE LOOKED LIKE A DUCK FROM BEHIND).
    I HOPE SHE KEEPS IT LONG AND FRESH AND WORKS ON HER HARSHNESS- CHANGING THE WAY SHE SPEAKS.
    SHES A BIT ROUGH AROUND THE EDGE AND THATS WHY THE DANCING THING WAS A GOOD IDEA.
    SHE LOOKS DIFFERENTLY AMAZING BUT HAS TO STOP WITH THE BODY LANGUAGE OF SEEMING REAL DESPERATE FOR A MAN.
    NO ONE SHOULD BE THAT DESPERATE FOR A MAN. A WOMAN SHOULD BE WELL ROUNDED AND WHOLE ON HER OWN.

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