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Dr. Lillian Glass First to Predict Bachelor Jake Pavelka’s and Vienna’s Relationship Wouldn’t Last Based On Their Body Language.
June 23, 2010

BACHELOR AND  VIENNA’S BODY LANGUAGE SAID IT ALL

Bachelor Jake Pavelka and Vienna Girardi  have just broken up and I am not at all surprised. As soon as  Bachelor Jake Pavelka  Vienna to be his bride  I knew for sure that they wouldn’t last based on their body language signals. In fact, early into their relationship,  US Weekly Magazine asked me to so an analysis of the two of them.  You can clearly see what I had to say.  All of the photos of them looked contrived. Vienna looked more interested in publicity than she did in Jake. There was absolutely NO chemistry between them as you can see.

OF COURSE THEY HAD NO SEX FOR THE PAST FOUR MONTHS

Vienna announced   the world via the press  that in the six months they have been living together, couple had not had sex for the past four months it was no surprise. She said he was full of excuses from a. fasting b. he didn’t feel like it and c. he wanted  to wait until marriage. As a result Vienna said that she wrote him a Dear John letter as she spent most of their six month relationship crying.

But if you look at their initial photos  above, there was indeed a sexual attraction on Jake’s part. Perhaps he got burnt out with her or turned off two months into the relationship.

LOVE MADE FOR TV ONLY

In this recent photo of Jake you see him pulling away from her.  Their bodies are also turned in the opposite directions and Vienna is clealry the agressor here with her arms tightly clasped around Jake’s waist.

Finally, Jake is angry. When anyone puts their hand in a fist, especially, hen they should be hugging you, they are mad. That gesture, along with his head pulled to the side and the tight phony smile indicates there is no love coming from Jake.

When anyone pulls their body away from you it means they are clearly not into you.  In essence, his body language is saying that he wants to get away from her.

Vienna’s revelation  that “their love appeared made-for-cameras only.” is definitely true as we can  see in this photo.

IT’S ALL IN THE KISS

Like the lyrics from an oldie goldie song  says “If you wanna know if he loves you so, it’s in his kiss, that’s where it is.”

If a man doesn’t kiss you with passion, especially early on in your relationship you can kiss that relationship goodby. If he gives you tight-lipped grandma pecks, its over!!!!

Vienna reported to the press  “He kisses me only if we’re on a red carpet if cameras are there,” “Besides that, I have to ask for a kiss – and if I do he’ll pucker his lips and just peck me. I’m like, that’s how I kiss my grandmother!”

I completely believe what Vienna is telling us. Back in March when they were at an event for Perez Hilton, Jake was seen wiping off Vienna’s kiss. That is a huge indication that something was wrong.He lso pulls away from her as you can  see.

BODY LANGUAGE CAN TELL SO SO MUCH ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP

The bottom line is that body language can tell you a lot of about relationships – other people’s relationships as well as your own.

So pay close attention to how someone moves, acts and  speaks whenever they are around you. Always remember that if their kiss doesn’t feel right, then something is definitely wrong. www.drlillianglass.com

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