LIKE IT OR NOT KATE SEEMS TO BE HERE TO STAY
With two television shows on TLC, View, Emmy, and DWTS appearances under her belt and a huge PR machine behind her, whether you love her or hate her Kate Gosselin appears to be here to stay. She’s here to stay for one reason and one reason only- she brings in eyeballs viewer’s eyeballs. Those fans who love her, watch her because they love her. Those fans who hate her often want to see what she will do next. Then there are those who are curious. They watch her to see what all the fuss is about. As long as she gets eyeballs watching her, she is here to stay. When the eyeballs turn away to another channel, Kate Gosselin will be nothing more than a faded memory. TLC is her guardian angel and they have invested a lot of money on star building this “itless” persona. Some TLC exceutive or “suit” as they are called in the business thought it would be a good idea to make Kate a star, so they set forth on that quest.
They made her look great but that is about it. She can’t act, sing, dance, has no expertise . Please don’t tell me that she is an expert on motherhood. Popping fertility drugs and having sextuplets does not make one an expert in parenting or child rearing. Getting an advanced education in the subject, where you are aware of all the nuances in the scientific literature gives you that expertise , along with experience of working with a lot of different children that do not happen to be your own offspring.
She cannot host because she is way too consumed with Kate. Also the smarminess, entitlement, selfishness, anger, sarcasm, hostility, and inner hatred that leaks out with consistency is so deep-rooted that it will be very difficult to get that under control without years and years of the therapy.In my view that is who she is. She demonstrated it in her original show, DWTS, on many talk shows on which she appeared, and most recently on Regis and Kelly.
Why was Kate on Regis and Kelly when she had nothing to promote? She was no doubt put there by her PR minions where TLC is obviously the helm. She was on the show for one reason only- damage control!
Why would esteemed Anderson Cooper ask her those obviously pointed questions if he was not fed those questions by her team? It was no doubt done to was clearly done to spin it Kate’s way . It was obvious that the questions could be answered by her in a way to make Jon look bad and make her look good. It was done to quell the recent hoopla that appeared all over the internet where all the hysterical sextuplets were clearly heard sobbing at the top of their lungs and wailing. hey didn’t want daddy to leave and they appeared terrified to go home to Kate.
PRETTY IS AS PRETTY DOES AND KATE’S BEHAVIOR ON REGIS AND KELLY WAS NOT PRETTY
Even though she has pulled it together with awesome makeup complete with red glossy lips , a toned body with muscular arms , and a beautiful face, I am still of the school that pretty is a pretty does” and there are too many instances when I believe Kate’s behavior just hasn’t been pretty.
When a parent tries to pit their kids between them and their ex, it is time for me to speak up. That is exactly what Kate did on Regis and Kelly. She pitted her children against her and Jon by trashing him in front of millions. And don’t tell me he did the same to her on national TV. That was then and this is now. And two wrongs don’t make a right. It was immature and hateful on BOTH of their parts. But now that over a year has gone by it is clear that she needs to speak about her hatred and anger towards Jon to a therapist, not to Kelly and Anderson in front of millions of people.
It makes her look disturbed, bitter, immature, and very UGLY inside and out. Her anger at Jon’s past behavior with his cheating, running off at the mouth on national TV, and acting irresponsible is misdirected. Instead, she needs to take a good look at herself and her role in abusing this poor guy to the point he had enough and went off the deep end. Yes, years of constant emotional abuse can make a person behave as we saw Jon behave.
MESSAGE TO ALL KATE FANATICS
And please to all you Kate fanatics who take it as a personal affront when anyone says anything that may not be music to you eyes or ears about Kate. I say the following to you:
If you are such a good and loyal fan of Kate’s then you need to be a real friend and a fan and let your friend know when they are messing up. You need to send Kate a message that she is messing up her children emotionally, by acting the way she did on Regis and Kelly.
I don’t want to hear about what you think about my credibility. After the education, background, and experience I have and the years I have devoted to the study and analysis of body language, I can assure you that I am credible enough be used by top media outlets around the world and in law enforcement an in the legal field and to have been a qualified witness in both state and federal courts. So I am not concerned with what you think of my credibility simply because I add my opinions to my body language analyses. That is what blogs are for- to give your opinions.
And please don’t waste my time telling me I am writing about Kate because I am jealous of her or I want to enhance my own populatity. I am jealous of no one. And just for the record, I have been around well before there was a Kate Gosselin on television. And as far as popularity goes, I have millions of books around the world that bear my name. So I don’t need Kate Gosselin to enhance my notoriety or for people to read my blog. Thousands of people read my blogs each day with or without Kate Gosselin as the subject matter.
KHATE’S ANGRY JAW
Substitute host Anderson Cooper asked if her relationship with Jon was as contentious as it appears to be. Kate nodded her head yes and tightened up her jaw and let out a hissing snake like sound as she said Itssss ya now. She then shrugged her shoulders and let loose with her first jab towards Jon. You can really see the anger and hatred Kate holds towards Jon. It’s in her jaw. Look at the enormous tension . There is so much tension and anger that you see dimpling. In addition, look at how her lips are pulled back in anger. When a person harbors hatred and anger it is readily seen in their lower jaw as we see with Kate.
In typical Kate form as she continues to remind us how good she is and how bad Jon is she jabbed ” I do try to keep it as peaceful as possible. I’ll speak for myself , How’s that?”
I’ll tell you how that was Kate. It was awful! It was unnecessary and downright nasty. You did not have to go there! And you said he is the kids father. STOP ! End of Sentence! Stop the facial contortions and snide smarminess. It makes you look small and petty and downright UGLY.All the enhancements that were done to you physically mean nothing if you act bitchy, witchy, and snitchy.
Then in order to make herself look good again and redirect the spin in response to the video of a few weeks back when all the kids were crying in the car after they arrived at her home and screamed that they didn’t want daddy to leave, as you see below
Kate makes a contorted phony expression with a phony laugh. You can see the phony expression with her furrowed forehead, raised eyebrow and tight non genuine smile, where there is tension around the corners of the mouth. The facial gestures are incongruent which indicates phoniness. She states that she “ waits at home for a phone call from the kids asking when they can come home.”
ONE WAY STREET! KATE CAN TRASH JON BUT JON CAN’T FIGHT BACK OR HE GETS SUED
That is horrible! It is so obvious what she was doing! She has the national forum and was getting aback at Jon and spinning her image. The ony thing is that she spun is her image into the ground. It made her look awful and revealed who she is.
If TLC’s PR Dept. put her on that show and directed the spin so they can have her loveable when her new show debuts, they need to be ashamed of themselves in my view. It completely backfired. She was anything but loveable. Jon has been punished by TLC enough in my view. He got the message loud and clear to not talk to the press. Now this has added insult to injury. Jon is a person too.
He has no forum to speak about Kate because he is not allowed to do so or he will get sued. So it is a one way street where Kate can trash him and he can’t say anything to defend himself! It is unfair and appalling.
I doubt that with all the things she has going on in her life professionally, that she waits by the phone with baited breath just to hear which child will call asking to come home . And if the kids do call, what does she do about it?
a. Does she come and get them?
b. Does she call Child Protective Services because they are so miserable and thinks Jon is harming them?
c. Does she believe Jon is abusing them by forcing them to stay in unlivable conditions - his little apartment with a few toys as opposed to their luxurious big home with a truckload of toys?
d. Is she making this all up?
Chances are the correct answer is it is d . She is making this all up .
Kelly Ripa also knows that what Kate is saying is complete BS. Look at Kelly’s body language. She pulls up her shoulder and tucks in her head and crosses her arms over her body. This is a defensive motion as she is not going to let Kate get away with her nonsense . In reference to Kate’s ridiculous statement of how the kids call her and want to come home, Kelly asks Kate in a deliberate and measured tone Are they are they allowed to?
Kelly immediately changes her body position as she awaits Kate’s answer. You can see Kelly is not comfortable with Kate or the answer she knows Kate is about to spin. You can see that Kelly’s shoulders are raised which indicates she is upset and displeased. It’s similar to what a cat does when they are upset and uncomfortable they raise their hackles. They are on alert. Kelly is on alert for Kate’s answer .You can even see how Kelly has pressed her hand on her lap to center herself as she is about to listen to Kate’s nonsensical spin.
IF KATE HAD NOT ABUSED JON MAYBE THEY WOULD STILL BE SLEEPING IN THEIR OWN HOME AND PLAYING WITH THEIR OWN TOYS
And Spin it Kate did! Kate says that it’s hard to tell your kids why they can’t sleep in their beds and play with their own toys. Well maybe it is time that Kate stop trashing Jon and tell the kids that they need to learn to compromise and sleep in a bed away from home that daddy has prepares especially for them. Maybe she needs to tell then that they can bring their own special toys when they stay at daddy’s. Maybe she needs to tell them that daddy who loves them and wants to see them .
Maybe it wouldn’t be so hard for the six year-olds to understand why they have to sleep at daddy’s house if she would stop trashing Jon. Maybe Kate needed to have thought about this situation before she abused the daylights out of Jon and emasculated him for so many years until he had no choice but to leave her. Her constant abuse was the catalyst for his going off the deep end in my estimation.
Here we really see her signal of deception as she says she talks about the kids and says she is “there for them.” She shakes her head NO as she says this and looks down and away , knowing very well what she is saying is complete BS . She is not there for them. She is there for herself as she runs around the country doing book tours and TV gigs.
She clearly knows that it is a spin to get back at Jon and to make herself good like the perfect mommy . The PR spin was designed to help her get that positive image now that her show is going to début int he near future.
The only thing she did that rang true was when she said “I’m Lonely” She made a genuine sad expression when she spoke those words. So I believe that when kids are mot around, she is indeed lonely. After she alienated so many family members and friends throughout the years, what she says does seem to ring true.
PUTTING THE KIDS IN THE MIDDLE OF HER HATRED FOR JON WILL AFFECT THE KIDS DOWN THE ROAD
Anderson Cooper then paraphrases all of her spin and bluntly says So what you’re saying is that they don’t enjoy being with him. Kate immediately looks down and with a slow tentative articulation pattern says looks Some of them don’t mind.
Why would anyone in their right mind say something know that will hurt the kids in the long run? In essence she just trashed Jon by telling the world that the kids don’t like being with their own father who has shown them nothing but love, tenderness and affection since their birth. He hs been the more emotionally nurturing of the two.
If what she is saying that kids dont enjoy being with him, it is no doubt because she put that through into their little heads to choose between her or Jon. If the kids didn’t want to be with daddy why would they wail for him to not leave them when he dropped them off?
And why in the world would anyone go on national television and say something like this? This will have emotional repercussions as far as the children are concerned. What we have just seen is exactly why I have insisted all along that Jon and Kate get a qualified counselor to help them properly handle these children so that they don’t have to be in the middle of their emotional mess.
AND YET ANOTHER DIG AT JON WHICH IS NOT GOING TO HELP THE KIDS
After Kate showed her ugliness with all of her digs towards Jon, she then had to get yet another dig in by saying how it’s only been three months since Jon has taken the kids on a regular basis and how it is all so new.
In essence she let everyone know that Jon was being bad and only now stepped up to the plate with the kids. Once again whether that is true or not is no one else’s business. This dirty laundry did not have to be aired out on public. And why did she wait until the end to say this? It is because her intention for being on that show was to make Jon look bad. She and TLC did not carry out their goal. It made her look bad instead.
If that is the case and it has only been three months, then Kate should know that this is an adjustment period and the kids need to be encouraged about this new arrangement, not given subliminal messages to tear them in two and mess up their little minds about which parent they need to show more loyalty.
UGLY IS AS UGLY DOES AND UGLINESS IS PUBLICLY AIRING ANGER ABOUT AN EX WITHOUT THINKING ABOUT THE EFFECT ON YOUR KIDS,
No matter how well coiffed Kate’s hair looked or how shiny her red lip gloss was or how toned her arms looked in her red sleeveless dress, Kate’s open anger and hostility towards Jon make her look ugly!
Her inner hatred contorted the muscles in her face. The sarcastic digs and smarmy, nasty tones negated all the hard work her stylist and make up artist did in putting Kate’s look together. Kate looked like a bitter bitten woman.
But more than her looks, the effect that her bitterness and hatred will have on her children is more serious. These children need to see a mature adult as a role model . They do not need to see their mother acting like a nasty, angry, and centered child having a temper tantrum. Kate needs to grow up and let go of her hate because hate spreads. These children do not need the added burden of dealing with hate. They need love the grow and flourish. www.drlillianglass.com