Brad and Angelina’s Body Language At Superbowl Show Much Love and Affection Towards One Another

 

Several weeks ago there were questions swirling through the media as to whether or not Brad and Angelina were breaking up. For months it has been reported  by various news outlets, and not just the tabloids, that their relationship was under a strain.

As many photos as there were of them being affectionate in Cannes and in other venues, there were equally as many photos and videos of them showing a strain in their relationship. There were apparently eyewitness reports that they were in conflict as well.

 In my previous blog, I reported that I hoped this was not the case as personally, I adore these two as a couple. They are like- minded in that they do such good for the world. They havea beautiful family and have so much going for them both as a couple and individually.

 So when  these photos of them together surfaced at the Superbowl, I was thrilled to see the love and affection displayed and their attentiveness towards one another. You can actually feel the love between them as they gaze into one another’s eyes in the first photo.  They are in sync and very much connected. Angelina loving grabs on to Brad’s hand and returns the loving gaze into his eyes.

In the second photo she lovingly touches his arm and smiles brightly while he adoringly  kisses her hair. It makes you smile.  This couple is an inspiration and it was great to see their PDA’s. They obviously got over any rough spots and definitely and finally  put to rest any rumors of a break up. This is great news!

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Dr. Conrad Murray’s Body Language at Michael Jackson’s Tomb Shows Frustration, Anxiety, Shame, and Anger

TOO LITTLE TOO LATE

In looking at Michael Jackson’s doctor, Conrad Murray’s body language as he visited Michael Jackson’s tomb the other day, my first thought was why didn’t he do this before? Why now, at the time he is going to jail? Why didn’t he visit Michael’s tomb earlier?

The answer is simple in my opinion. It seems like a PR ploy to show that Murray is not such a bad guy and has feelings and remorse about what he allegedly did to Michael. But where were those feelings of remorse when he released his video shortly after Michael was dead. He certainly did not show any remorse back then.

In fact I reported just how little remorse he had when I did a piece for Entertainment Tonight and showed how Murray showed no signs of contrition or sorrow and was just concerned about himself. I specifically remarked how he did not even bother apologize to Michael’s family.

BODY LANGUAGE SHOWS FRUSTRATION, ANXIETY,SHAME, AND ANGER

This photo shows Dr. Murray with hands cupped as he walks down the steps where Michael ’s body rests. The cupped hand gesture often signifies anger and frustration. Dr. Murray is no doubt  angry and frustrated that he is in the situation he is in having to go to jail for allegedly killing Michael.

FRUSTRATION AND TENSION

When Dr. Murray is ready to sit down you still see the cupped hand on the left which indicates frustration  and defensiveness. There is a  great deal of  tension his face as he no doubts anticipates his bleak future.

AMBIVALENCE

Here you can see Dr. Murray’s ambivalence as he is seated on the ledge. He really doesn’t want to be there and his feet reflect it. One one level, he sits quietly with left his foot firmly planted on the ground. He looks down with  raised shoulder indicting fear and and anxiety. On the other hand as you can see by his his foot is pointing on the opposite direction and his toe elevated that   he wants to leave. The cupped hand resting on his knee also indicates his frustration while his other hand, with his fingers splayed and  resting on his thigh indicate a self comforting or self soothing behavior.

SHAME AND ANXIETY

His raises shoulder reflects his tension  and his frustration, anxiety, and shame at what happened to Michael . His facial tension also reflects his fear and anxiety.

MORE AMBIVALENCE  AND ANXIETY

His ambivalent feet pointing in the opposite direction and cupped hand indicate anxiety and fear and anger- anger at his being in the predicament he is in.

HAND WRINGING AND FEAR

Murray is wringing his hands in this photo which clearly speaks to his nervousness and anxiety.

REALITY CHECK

Here you can see reality beginning to set in as Murray  physically sees where Michael is housed due to his alleged negligence.

TENSION, FEAR  AND SADNESS

The tension in Dr. Murray’s face, sad eyes, and his furrowed forehead is indication of the reality and the finality of seeing his former  patient entombed in a mausoleum due to his alleged negligence.His widened  eyes also indicate that fear is setting in.

Visiting Michael’s tomb definitely had a profound affect on Dr. Murray as we can see in all of these photos.

Perhaps now, he will take responsibility for his actions and his role in Michael’s death and not issue a string of denials as he has done in the past.

More important, perhaps he will now be able to issue a personal apology and personal  condolences to  Micheal’s family, something he has not done prior to his visit. www.drlillianglass.com

Misty Croslin Dad’s Body Language Shows He Loves Misty, Is Devastated, And Warned Misty to Stay Away From That Stupid S***And From Ronald Cummings

Misty Croslin’s father Hank Thomas Croslin Sr., 41 clearly has troubles of his own. Last Thanksgiving he was arrested and put in jail, charged with withholding information from a doctor and fraudulently obtaining prescription drugs. He is due in court in February so his future may be as bleak as his daughter’s.  Soon, he too may be behind bars if he is found guilty.

Investigators said Hank Croslin obtained about 300 Oxycodone and Hydrocodone pills from three different physicians between April and May 2009 and none of the doctors knew about the other prescriptions.

Since Hank knew the drill in terms of what to expect behind bars, he openly shared  his fatherly advice when he visited daughter Misty in jail .

Misty was recently arrested for trafficking prescription drugs. During the emotional jailhouse visit, Hank gave Misty some sound advice about what to do and not do in jail.

Hank  Clearly Loves Daughter Misty

Despite Hank’s obvious issues, there is no doubt after watching the video visit with Misty, that he truly loves his daughter.

What Misty is accused of doing is egregious, not to mention that she was the last person to see Haleigh and not coming clean about what happened to that precious child. However, after watching the jailhouse tapes of her father, you could really feel his pain and see his anguish in dealing with  the fact that his beloved daughter is behind bars.

He said “I love you” to her  over a dozen times during the call and used terms of endearment even calling her his beautiful baby girl, ”  He indicated that he has deep affection for his daughter. You could hear the love he has towards her in his voice and it was consistently gentle and kind.

“I Told You So”

He also used a bit of tough love  during the video visit.  He said “ I  told you to stay away from that shit.”  No doubt he may have been referring to his daughter’s drug usage  or drug dealing when he used the term “stupid shit.”.

Then he says to her “You never should have been with Ronald in the first place. Tried to act all grown up.”

He did not minimize her actions either He gave her a reality check. He said that she knew better and made a big mistake. He also warned her that they are going to blame it all on her and say that she got Ronald into this “shit,”

You could hear the heavy breathing and the sighs of exasperation as he spoke throughout the video. At the end he was so devastated talking to his daughter behind bars, that he broke down and began to cry.

Hank Taking Responsibility for His Role ,Truthfully Admitting He Doesn’t Know What To Do, and Knowing Deep Down, He’s Lost His Kids

The one thing that impressed me while watching the video visit was that Hank manned up and admitted his role in  Misty and her brother’s predicament.

He said  “I wish  I would done better keeping you guys out of this shit.” He even says how he wishes he never “ brung you here.”

Hank was also truthful when he said “ I  don’t  know how to help either one of you. I don’t know what to do, I don’t have a clue. ”

He also realized the consequences of his actions as he repeatedly says “I worry about you and your brother. I can’t lose either one of you.”

You can her the anguish in Hank’s voice as he says “ It’s hard for me to have you both locked up.”

The truth of the matter is that Hank knows that he has lost them both and that is why you hear him sigh and breathe so heavily as a signal of distress, throughout the video visit.

Fatherly Concern and Fatherly Advice

Hank showed fatherly concern by as he asked her if she was taking showers and what she was eating. He also told her to exercise so she would get tired. He even asks her where her jail cell is located ( at the end) and asks if anyone is hollering things at her.

He doesn’t candy coat things. He tells her the truth that her can promise her that they are not  going to be easy on her. He tells her to not trust anyone and to only talk to her lawyer.

Towards the end of his video visit, he tells her to sit up,  so that he can see her. That is when he begins to cry.

Hank Warns Misty Not to Lie About Haleigh

In the video, He tells Misty that she must not lie with regard to Hailey and that all of this must Hailey stuff must stop

He says to her ” The Haleigh case is a whole different ballgame. I didn’t understand why you didn’t come forward before.”

He tells her to tell the truth and don’t talk unless she is with her lawyer. Hank says to Misty “  You don’t be lying about nothing, It will bury you deeper.”

Hank Says He’ll Always Be There for Misty

There is no doubt that Hank wants to do right by his daughter and visit her as much as he can. But he is in a predicament as well. He will soon be minus a place to live because Lindsey, his son’s wife is moving out. He doesn’t have a job and realizes that if he doesn’t get a job soon,  he will be in a worse situation than he is in  already. He doesn’t even have a car “ wheels” to get around. He also has his own court date coming up later this month. His wife also has legal troubles of her own as she was in jail for forgery six months earlier.

Even though Hank’s life is a complete mess, he is sincere when he tells Misty “ I will always be there to support you.  I don’t know what will happen I don’t know what we will do either. I will always be there as much as I can.”

No matter how much Hank loves his daughter, will have  to deal with the sad  fact that he may have lost his daughter for good. He will never be able to tell Misty that he loves her to her face or kiss her or give her a warm fatherly hug because most likely she will never get out of prison.

On a subconscious level, even Misty is aware of this. In her jailhouse visit with her mom Lisa, she  leaked out “ It sucks man I hope I don’t have to be here forever.” This leakage of information reveals that deep down, Misty knows that she may very well be in prison forever.

Misty is Going Through Various Stages of the Grieving Process

Throughout her jailhouse tapes, you hear her going through various phases of the grieving process.

In her denial phase, she says she didn’t do anything wrong and plays the victim as to how they are keeping her in this little cell and not letting her do anything.

Then in her bargaining phases she tells her brother Bubba (Tim) “If I get out I’m not doing nothing anymore. I’m not smoking cigarettes. I’m not smoking weed. I’m gonna be good. If I go to prison I’m gonna be good and get my GED  and do what I have to do. When I get out I’m gonna do the right thing I’m gonna stay with my mom and dad and I’m not leaving them ever again.”

You hear her in the reality phase or the acceptance phase when she admits to her brother that she will be thirty something when she comes out of prison in 21 years.

There is no doubt that as Misty learns she will most likely never come out of prison, she will go through her anger phase and other phases until she finally accepts her fate. In the meantime, I hope she comes clean and tells what really happened to Haleigh. www.drlillianglass.com

Tammi Smith From Person of Interest to Person In and Out of Jail on Bail As She Verbally Trashes Tempe Police

Three weeks ago I did a blog about Tammi Smith. The headline read “ Tammi and Jack Smith (Persons of Interest) Body Language Show They Appear to Know More About Baby Gabriel and Show Major Signals of Deception “ In the blog I said that police should change their status from “People of Interest” to “People Who Should Be In the Next Cell Next to Elizabeth Johnson.”  Well it turns out, that is exactly what happened. Two days ago, Tammi Smith was arrested and went to jail.

When it happened, I said “it’s about time! Perhaps now we will find out what happened to baby Gabriel as this based on her body language and vocal tells in my view, she clearly knows a lot more than she is letting on verbally.

But Unfortunately Tammi was just released from jail and husband Jack got the $15,000 together to bail her out in the wee hours of the morning. On her way out Tammi had a few choice words for the Tempe Police Department.

She said “We are going to tear them apart, I’m not, my attorney is going to tear them apart” as she is accusing them of arresting her on trumped up charges. “

Tammi’s other words about Tempe police  were:

“They released a paper full of, full of things that I can’t even describe it. It was ridiculous. It’s basically like cutting and pasting little pieces of things together but forgetting this and this and this to prove my innocence. It was unbelievably ludicrous. And it’s OK, because we have all those pieces to fit back in there that creates all of our innocence,” Tammi Smith stated.

Then Tammi gets rather cheeky or snarky as she says

“Doesn’t mean those charges are going to stick. Doesn’t mean those charges are true. But nevertheless they were able to do that because they’re the guys with the guns,” said Smith.

That was NOT a very smart thing to do as Tammi will no doubt be back in her cozy jail cell sooner than she thinks when she discovers the charges against her will no doubt stick.

Why Was Tammi Arrested?

The Tempe, Arizona police  reported  that  Tammi Smith was charged with custodial interference, conspiracy to commit custodial interference and forgery. T

Custodial interference refers to the taking or keeping of a child from the custodial parent with the intent to interfere with that parent’s rightful physical custody.

So her claim that these are trumped up charges isn’t accurate in my view.  These charges make a lot of sense to me. That is exactly what Tammi Smith and her husband Jack Smith  tried to do when they tried to adopt  Baby Gabriel. Gabriel’s biological father, Logan McQueary, refused to give up his parental rights. He told police that the Smiths continuously pushed him to surrender the child but he refused, according to CBS affiliate in Tempe.

Why Isn’t Jack Smith in a Jail Cell?

I can’t understand why the police didn’t arrest Jack Smith as well. In my view, he needed to be in the locked up as well. Maybe they let him go free, so that he could bail Tammi out of jail and so they can follow him in hopes that both he and Tammi  will leak out some valuable information concerning precious Baby Gabriel.

Gabriel’s Daddy Logan McQueary’s Search and Being Trashed By Tammi

Upon hearing of the arrest,  Baby Gabriel’s daddy and custodial parent, Logan McQueary” it was a long time coming.” But unfortunately Tammi wasn’t in jail long enough.  

Poor Logan feels so helpless that he is taking things in his own hands and retracing Elizabeth’s steps in hopes to find Baby Gabriel by taking a road trip. I think it is a futile exercise. But it will help in his healing process because he has been proactive. He will always know in his heart that he tried to do something on his own to find his baby boy.

Upon her release from jail, Tammi not only verbally trashed the police, she had some choice words for Gabriel’s daddy, Logan.  As she was leaving jail, Smith lashed out at Logan McQueary, as she said she Smith believes McQueary helped police craft the charges against her.

Then she self-righteously makes the following statement “I don’t believe in my heart of hearts he ever cared about getting that baby. If he did, he had weeks to go get that baby but never once tried. Never once did he go to San Antonio and go to every hotel off of the interstate to say, ‘Hey, have you seen this woman or this baby,’” Smith said.

My response to Tammi is how dare you blame McQueary who was so distraught by his son’s disappearance and being told the boy was murdered by Elizabeth.

In defense fo Tammi’s accusations, Logan  said he would have left much sooner but detectives asked him to stay in town to help with the investigation.

It was not up to Logan to search for the boy. It was the call of the investigators. For Tammi to say this about Logan speaks volumes as to her character and who she really is as aperson.

Tammi Needed to Be In Jail Longer

Tammi was released from jail so soon in my view. Perhaps visits from husband Jack could have been videotaped this time without her knowledge of course. Perhaps she would have been tripped up and we would have learned the whereabouts of Baby Gabriel.

Tammi will never admit what she no doubt knows about the baby- whether he is dead or alive. Unless she is tripped up by someone- Jack or law enforcement where there is some super clever investigator and interrogator working her. She  will not freely  tell all she knows, That is for certain.

How I wish I could be in the room with her or in an adjoining room where I can watch her interrogation and have the investigator wear an earpiece where I can feed him questions to ask her. After I observe a “tell” of deception or another type of “tell”, I would help direct the questioning so that she could be tripped up.

If the baby is alive, for all we know she may have set everything up and the baby may possibly be with one of her relatives. Perhaps the boy is in Tennessee as we know she has family there. Look what this mastermind did in trying to involve her own first cousin Craig Cherry in saying that he was the father, when he never met mother Elizabeth Johnson.

Who Was This Mystery “Grandmother?” Was It Tammi?

The babysitter who watched Baby Gabriel while Elizabeth left for several hours, spoke of a verbal fight she overheard between Elizabeth and a female over the phone, whom Elizabeth later revealed was her “grandmother.” When questioned, Elizabeth’s real  grandmother said she never spoke to Elizabeth during that period of time

Perhaps this “grandmother” was none other than Tammi Smith.

Why was there a fight between the two over the phone? Why did the babysitter hear yelling? Why did Elizabeth say (according to the babysitter) “Do you want me to go back?” What does that mean? Where did the person on the other end of the line who may have possiby been Tammy , want Elizaabeth to go back to?  This can open up a new direction to explore in locating this precious baby boy.

Why Wasn’t Elizabeth and Tami’s Interview Videotaped or Audiotaped by Arizona Jail Authorities ?

I am still stunned by the fact that her jailhouse interview with Elizabeth was not videotaped. I hope that is not the case because if it is, it was a very wrong move on the part of Arizona law enforcement . Either someone in the system dropped the ball or someone in the system is not that bright. If it was taped, we would definitely know what happened to baby Gabriel by now.

She’ll be baaaack!

Even though Tammi has shot off her big mouth making threats to the police, I have no doubt that she will be put back into jail sooner than later. It seems reasonable that she would be arrested for custodial interference and that charge will no doubt stick, so she will be serving time after a trial.

As someone who does jury consulting, I can assure you that no jury will be sympathetic to this brash overly confident masterminding threatening big mouth.  www.drlillianglass.com/”>www.drlillianglass.com  

Tiger Wood’s Cheating Taking It’s Physical Toll On Wife Elin’s Body Language

 

 

 

 

ELIN NORDEGREN WOODS BEFORE

This is a photo of Elin Nordegren with her husband Tiger Woods, before she had any clue he was having sex with mistresses, hookers, whores, or escorts.“Before” she looks like  a stunning 20 something year old, bright- eyed and fresh- faced. Her facial muscles are relaxed and she looks pleasant and healthy. Her jaw looks relaxed as does her forehead, indicating no tension and both her eyes and her lips are smiling as she shows teeth. This is a clear indiction that Elin looks happy.

ELIN NORDEGREN WOODS AFTER

In this photo,  you can clearly see what I have always said regarding body language  and the voice. What goes on in your head and your heart comes out in the way you look and speak-how you act, move,  behave and talk.

In only a few short months in her “ After Leaning About Tiger’s Affairs Photo,” Elin looks at least a decade older, with puffed bags under her eyes. She looks gaunt and her jaw looks tense, indicating a lot of internal anger.  

 Even though Elin is trying to put on a brave front in this photo by projecting a smile, it isn’t working. The half-smile, the lip tension and the lack of smiling around the eyes clearly shows her unhappiness and inner turmoil.  There is also tension in her forehead, further indicting the anguish she is experiencing.

 This has aged her tremendously. There has been a considerable weight loss and she looks like she has spent a lot of hours crying and in a lot of internal turmoil.

While Elin has not yet filed for divorce and is doing her best to try and work things out with Tiger by showing up at his Sex Addiction Rehab sessions in Mississippi (which personally I feel is bogus and a PR ploy in Tiger’s case) it has clearly affected her in a very bad way.  And who can blame her?

It was bad enough to discover that her husband was having an affair, but to discover that he was cheating with whores, hookers, and escorts was even more degrading.

Adding insult to injury, was her discovering that Tiger was telling these mistresses,  unbeknownst to Elin,  that their marriage was a sham, that he never really loved Elin and loved them more.

WORDS HURT EVEN MORE AND HAVE A LASTING EFFECT

Just knowing that would take its toll on anyone. It is not only feeling betrayed by Tiger’s cheating with which Elin has to deal. It is these words resonating in her head. As time passes, and the more time she spends alone, physically away from  Tiger, these words, no doubt get louder and louder. They resonate deeper and deeper as they burrow into her psyche.

How can she erase the thought that Tiger thought her marriage was a shame when she put so much into it? How can she stop thinking about him telling another woman with whom he was having sex that he loved her more, that he never really loved Elin, or that his marriage to Elin  was a marriage of convenience only?

 How can she ever forget that he told Rachel Uchitel, (who got millions of dollars from Tiger with the help of her attorney  Gloria Allred and who had the nerve to  get upset by Joy Behar’s comment “You ca tell she’s a hooker” as a play on her last name Uchitel) that he loved her more than he loved Elin and wanted to spend the rest of his life with her?  

The answer to these question, is you can’t forget these words. These words are the lasting effects of the affair. Unless there is joint therapy on a regular basis with both parties present a great and qualified therapist that has BOTH your interests at heart in terms of healing your marriage ,this marriage is doomed.

CORE OF THE HURT

No matter if Elin stays for the sake of a) the kids, b) the money c) her wanting to save face, d) her love for Tiger,e) all of the above, or f) any number of the above, the marriage will eventually disintegrate unless these words are addressed and dealt with immediately.

This is the core of the hurt.  While knowing that your husband had sex with another woman is bad , What is worse is hearing or reading the words that your husband loved another woman more than you, that he never really loved you, and that your marriage was a sham, especially after you just produced two beautiful children out of love.

JAIME GRUBBS APPOLOGIZED TO ELIN BUT JAIME  JUNGER REFUSES TO DO SO

Of all the mistresses, hookers, and escorts, the one who showed any humanity thus far was Jaime Grubbs. She was the first to apologize to Elin early on, on national television. Her body language revealed that she felt bad about the whole affair and she showed genuine remorse. Recently she even had a few choice words to say to Tiger with an unflattering label which he clearly deserved.

But escort Jaime   recently refused to apologize to Elin, stating that she had nothing to apologize for. Below are her exact words when asked if she owed Elin an apology.

No, I don’t,” “I feel like that’s his — that’s his business. Everybody makes mistakes. This wasn’t something that I did yesterday or a month ago or a year ago. This was years ago. I was younger. And I’m not saying that what I did then was right. But — I’m certainly not gonna say that it was wrong. … I don’t believe that I owe her an apology.”

Well this certainly reveals a lot about Jaime Junger – an excuse maker who by her comment seems self- righteous, entitled, and heartless.

Perhaps if she saw this Before and After Photo she might change her mind and have some more compassion. It doesn’t matter that if her affair was yesterday, a month or a year ago, or years ago when she was younger. What matters is that she had an affair and that affair hurt another person. When you hurt someone you apologize. The fact that she says she doesn’t owe a person whom she hurt and apology, speaks volumes about Jaime.

While Jaime was the most defiant thus far, except for Grubbs, it speaks volumes  about all the other sex partners. They  were all so quick and eager to gain their 15 minutes of fame,

 (especially Rachel Uchitel wh gained the most- millions, an undeserved apology from Joy Behar, and a photo spread in OK Magazine complete with showing off her nicely decorated home and dogs).  

They were ALL willing to get media attention through paid interviews and/ or  free PR on national shows oe magazines, but yet were not willing to say two very powerful words which could have made a huge difference to Elin- “I’m sorry.” www.drlillianglass.com/”>www.drlillianglass.com

Haleigh Cummings Father’s Vocal “Tells” in His Jailhouse Interview Show Guilt, Resignation, and Ambivalence Towards Misty

Ronald Cummings, father of the missing 5 year old Florida girl, Haileigh Cummings, is now in jail for trafficking prescription drugs. In his exclusive jailhouse interview with Florida Times- Union reporter Dana Treen, Cummings had a lot to talk about.  His vocal tells and the content of what he said spoke added volumes.

SIGNS OF REMORSE AND RESIGNED HE WILL BE GOING TO PRISON

His voice appeared strong and definite as Ron seemed resigned to the fact that he will be going to prison by firmly stating “I’m going to DOC (Department Of Corrections). I’m going to prison, no ‘ifs, ands, or buts.’” His voice showed that he clearly knew what was going to happen to him and that he was accepting of that fact.
He also showed remorse at the close of his interview as he said “This is a setback in my life,” “When I come out, it will remind me what I should be doing, not what I was doing, or accused of doing.”

FEAR OF ISOLATION

In his vocal tone you can hear the uneasiness and extreme discomfort he is feeling while being isolated in jail. His voice reveals his frustration as he graphically describes how it is too much to bear by saying, “ nobody on either side, nobody nowhere around, nothing but a hallway.”

“You know what’s bad? I don’t look forward to breakfast, lunch, or dinner. I look forward to after breakfast lunch and dinner, ’cause after breakfast lunch and dinner, the one trustee has to come through here and pick up the trash. Well, they bring the trash right through the back door right past where I’m at, so he has to come right by me, so I get to see him for 3 minutes in the morning, 3 minutes in the afternoon, 3 minutes at night,”

VOCAL RAGE AS RON LASHES OUT ABOUT ALLEGED PERSON WHO TOOK HAILEIGH

Ronald’s voice becomes suddenly enraged when he talked about what he would do to the person who abducted his daughter. There is a harsh edge to the tone as he speaks with a bravado and says “It’ll be justifiable homicide. I don’t care if they get me with unjustifiable homicide. I don’t care, if I find out what happened to my youngin’ it doesn’t matter to me. It’ll be worth life without parole or the death penalty or whatever”.

RON STILL LOVES MISTY BUT SHOWS AMBIVALENCE AND CONFUSION TOWARDS HER

The most interesting part of his jailhouse interview was when he discussed his former wife and now girlfriend Misty Croslin, who was also arrested and was last person thought to have seen  HaileighCummings before she disappeared almost a year ago.
On the one hand he says, “There really isn’t a relationship I guess, just ex-wife, slash friend.” But then at the end of his interview in his final message he said “I want my girlfriend to know I love her.”
As further indication of his ambivalence and confusion about Misty he says, “Of course, I want to know if she knows anything. It’s hard to believe that she don’t know more, but it’s also hard to believe that if she did know more she didn’t already talk.”

RON IS IN DENIAL

While he has shown remorse and is resigned to that fact that he will be spending time in prison, he is obviously in denial in terms of how much time he will be spending in prison.
It could be the major portion of his life- 43 years if he is convicted of all charges levied against him. As further evidence that he is still in denial and has not yet fully processed what has happened to him, Cummings told reporter Treen that the charges are “a setback in my life.”
Once he realizes that he may be spending 43 years in prison, he will see that this is not a mere “setback” in his life. It is in essence, the end of his life as he knew it.

WHAT HAPPENED TO HAILEIGH?

Several months back on September 18, a letter allegedly written by a friend of Misty Croslin’s who was in the Putnam County jail, Kristina “Nay Nay” Prevatt allegedly send to her boyfriend a letter stating that a man named Joe told detectives that Haileigh ingested some Oxycontin and died and accused her and Misty and a man named Greg of being there when it happened. The alleged letter also said Greg put Hailey into a bag and took her to a pond.

Although Kristina Prevatt denies her involvement in her alleged letter to her boyfriend, which can be seen on http://www.cayleedaily.com/2009/09/read-letter-about-haleigh-cummings-overdose-on-oxycontin-drug/ Kristina allegedly was known to hang out with Misty and was allegedly at the Satusuma home last February when Haileigh vanished.

Six months ago, this may have seemed like a far – fetched scenario where someone may have made up those claims to get their 15 minutes of fame, but now that Misty has been accused of prescription drug trafficking, and if she is found guilty, it may seem like a plausible scenario . Of course we don’t know for sure.

On the other hand, the way Ron was speaking in his jailhouse interview, it seemed as though he is convinced that someone actually took  Haileigh and may have her as he describes what he would do to the person who took Haileigh. But then again, this is the same man who says he “loves” his girlfriend and says “ but it’s also hard to believe that if she did know more she didn’t already talk.” www.drlillianglass.com

Paris and Prince Jackson’s Body Language Show Great Self Confidence and Michael’s Love. They were NOT Exploited By Appearing At the GRAMMY’S

Michael Jackson not only left a legacy of phenomenal music and entertainment but he left beautiful children with so much love and self-confidence as they appeared on stage at the Grammy’s to accept their father’s Lifetime Achievement Award.

As soon as Paris and Prince Michael came on the stage accompanied by their very handsome cousins, for moral support, they each gave Lionel Richie a very warm, loving and heartfelt hug, with their arms fully embracing Lionel as they wrapped them around Lionel’s shoulder and neck.

This loving gesture indicated that Michael definitely gave these two a lot of affection throughput their young lives.Otherwise they would not be able to demonstrate it and give it so freely to others. You can fully give what you received and these two clearly received love and affection.

PRINC’E'S  SPEECH

Prince spoke eloquently. His tones reflected self the confidence that would make Michael proud. Paris reflected the same self- confidence through her body language- her impeccable straight and solid posture. As Prince spoke, he embraced the award as lovingly as he no doubt embraced his dad when he was alive. What was even more impressive was that Prince spoke from the heart, without using a teleprompter. By thanking God for watching over him and his siblings for the past 7 months, reminded us how long Michael has been that Michael has not been with us. He also let us know that he was well taken care of by adding the special thanks to his grandparents.

When she first acknowledged his grandmother, his cousins nodded in agreement, indicating their love for her as well. He reiterated Michael’s message – “love” and said how he would continue to spread his father’s message and help the world as he further embraced his award as though he was symbolically embracing his father. After Prince was finished speaking, he went back to the loving arms of his cousins who embraced him, showing him their support for a job well done.

PARIS’ SPEECH

Then beautiful young lady, Paris with her impeccable posture and equally eloquent, rich, resonant voice, which depicted self- confidence and self – awareness spoke. She added a more personal touch in the few seconds she had to speak. She reminded us indirectly that although Michael won a Lifetime Achievement Award and was a great performer- he was still” daddy.” Her impromptu message came from the heart and was not teleprompted. She let us in on how “daddy” was supposed to perform last year but couldn’ t (and obviously couldn’t perform this year either due to his untimely death).

THE CHILDREN WERE NOT EXPLOITED FOR THE GRAMMY’S

When I read the following headline on the Drudgereport, GRAMMY EXPLOIT: THE KIDS MICHAEL JACKSON PROTECTED SO MUCH– PUT OUT FOR SHOW… I was very disturbed by this headline.

Having served as a Governor of the Grammy Organization for four years, I know exactly what goes on in that Grammy Organization – or NARAS as it is formally called. I have seen  in it up close and personal and they would not exploit anyone. Their aim is to fairly and properly honor those who have shown exceptional talent.

The Lifetime Achievement Award was NOT given to Michael Jackson because he died and to exploit his children to garner ratings. The decision as to who would receive the award was made well before Michael’s death seven months ago. In fact it was made well over a year ago. Therefore, this headline is ridiculous.

Initially, The Grammy Organization had no intention of having his kids up on stage to accept the award. They intended to have Michael accept the award for his exceptional talent throughout his life. Since he was no longer with us, who best to receive the award on his behalf other than those who were an extension of Michael- his cherished kids whom he loved and adored more than anything in the world. It made the moment very special.

As far as being protected when they were young children and not being exposed, the operative words are “ young children.” That is no doubt why young “Blanket” was not up there with these two mature “tweens.” Michael’s 11 year old daughter and 12 year old son were NOT exploited. They came there willingly and spoke willingly, based on the tone of their voice and content of their speech and their body language.

I am sure that they cherished the opportunity to speak those beautiful and loving words about their father. I am also sure that since Michael was not there to accept the award, that along with his mother whom he loved dearly, he would have been proud to have his offspring accept the award on his behalf and speak the words they spoke. www.drlillianglass.com

Casey Anthony’s Voice and Speech Tells In and Out of the Courtroom- Vocal Frying and Lying

 

As someone who is engaged in doing vocal forensics for legal cases, I am always amazed at how much we can learn about a person based on the sound and tone of their voice, not to mention their speech patterns and its content.

When a person lies, the voice can give a lot away. Vocal tells are not always consistent in lying.  Sometimes the pitch of a person’s voice may rise as it did last week, when Casey Anthony gave her lame apology in front of the courtroom.

Other times, the voice may sound lower because the vocal cords tend to close off and emit what is known as a “vocal fry” or a “glottal fry” which sounds like a creaking tone.

Since respiration is affected when someone lies, it is often difficult for liars to adequately coordinate their respiration with their phonation.  The fry  is also nature’s  way of wanting to close off  the vocal cords so the person won’t engage in lying. There is a lot of strain on the vocal muscles when the voice closes off, so you often hear Casey  clear her throat. That is another tell to let you know what is taking place.

CASEY’S VOCAL FRYS ON HER  INTERROGATION  TAPES

If you go back and listen to Casey Anthony’s interrogation   audiotapes, with Detective Uri Melich,  you will hear Casey’s  lower pitch and a lot of vocal frying and  creaking tones. This was very evident when Detective Melich  talks to Casey Anthony about when Caylee went missing, how she met Zenaida Gonzalez,what happened the day Caylee disappeared, who she talked to about Caylee missing, how she tried to find Zenaida. and why she did not alert them earlier.

All of that frying clearly means she is lying!

OTHER SPEECH PATTERN TELLS ON THE INTERROGATION TAPES

In listening to these interrogation  tapes you will hear that Casey gives WAY TOO MUCH INFORMATION, and provides convoluted stories  like she did about Zanida’s mother  and how Zenaida changed her number so much. That is a HUGE tell that someone lies.

TOO MUCH PAUSE TIME TO ANSWER QUESTION Like when Melich asked her about Zanaida’s mother  or asked her about the phone numbers of various people. The extended pause time was used  for Casey to no doubt concoct her false stories.

MONOTONE and lack of inflection pattern in the voice is often a key to deception as is rapid fire answers to questions.

VOCAL TELLS IN THE COURTROOM

UPWARD INFLECTION

When someone uses upward inflection at the end of sentences, it sounds as though they are asking a question as opposed to making a statement. This upward inflection that Casey used in the courtroom last week, was in stark contrast to the downward frying inflection she used when she was interrogated.  

What this means was that Casey was not being  sincere and definite in her apology. Instead, it was tentative,  phony, and insincere .  It was tentative because Casey is no doubt,  not used to asking for forgiveness or admitting fault for anything.

This is a young lady who has gotten away with everything her entire life. She was enabled as he family always seemed to look the other way and have their heads buried in the sand when it came to Casey.  It sounded like she was asking a question with her upward inflection. Her raised eyebrows that went along with her tentative upward  inflection  reflected that  what she was doing and saying in terms of apologizing it was new and foreign  information that her body was processing.

THE RAISED PITCH LEVEL  IN THE COURT

In the case of Casey Anthony, her higher pitched of her voice indicated a lot of tension in her vocal apparatus.  When people are not being truthful or are insincere or nervous, we  may oftentimes hear a sudden rise in pitch as we did with Casey. She knew deep down she didn’t believe those words one bit.

VOCAL FRYING IN THE COURT

There were many vocal frys and cracking  of the voice as Casey spoke, indicating deception and  insincerity. This was especially evident when she said how she wished she would have been a better friend to Amy.

If and when  Casey does take the stand during her murder trial, it will be  very interesting to read her vocal and speech tells. No doubt we will her more of the same patterns of deception that she exhibited when she a interrogated and when she was insincerely apologizing.  www.drlillianglass.com

Jay Leno’s Body Language on Oprah Showed Honesty and Humility But His Uneasiness With Hard Hitting Questions and Lack of Vocal Passion Put Viewers Off

WHY POLL RATINGS WERE STILL  LOW AFTER JAY’S APPEARANCE ON OPRAH

Even though Jay Leno went on the Oprah Show to try to set the record straight and reveal that it was not his decision, but rather the network executives decision to give him his old job back, based on Oprah’s post show poll  results, viewers people still weren’t convinced.  According to her poll, they still  appeared to  view Jay as the bad guy who took away Conan’s show. In fact an overwhelming 94 percent felt he should have walked away as Conan did.

I believe that a lot of the public’s perception had a great deal to do with what was and what was NOT revealed through Jay’s body language.

Body language wise, the good news is that Jay appeared to be  honest,  genuine, and showed humility  in his responses .

But the bad news is that his lack of verbal and vocal passion about what took place, his lack of eye contact, his looking away and not looking on Oprah’s direction when he was asked hard hitting questions,  his facial expression, tone of voice  alienated the audience  Most of all,  his lack of tone and emotion in answering  pertinent questions  spoke volumes.

ONLY A VOCAL CRACK OF GENUINE EMOTION REVELED

Perhaps the most damaging aspect of his television presentation was Jay’s lack of displaying of genuine heartfelt emotion. Oftentimes he tried to disguise and filter his true emotions through humor.  Even when he talks about how executives came into his dressing room in 2004  to tell him that they were going to replace him with Conan, he chuckles as he tells Oprah it was “pretty shocking”. His chuckle dilutes the impact of this “pretty shocking” event so the viewer doesn’t feel the full impact he is trying to relay.

There was only one millisecond when Jay showed genuine heartfelt emotion during the interview. It was when he responds to Oprah’s query as to how he felt after he was told this by executives. He said “ It broke my heart. It was only then that  we her the crack of Jay’s voice reflecting his  sadness and emotion. But that was the end of showing any kind of emotion. After that glimpse of real emotion, all we heard for the rest of the interview was a detached monotone.

JAY NEEDED TO “WEAR HIS EMOTIONS ON HIS SLEEVE” FOR OPRAH

Unfortunately, I don’t think that the interview Jay did  endeared him to viewers. In fact, it  may have even hurt him in the long run. When Jay said during the interview, “I’m not a person who carries my emotions on my sleeve “he was not kidding.

That statement said it all! He certainly did not wear any of his emotion on his sleeve during the interview- something he should have definitely done for Oprah viewers.

That would have made people relate to him much more. Instead, his detached monotone which was in stark contrast to the animated tone we are used to seeing when Jay does his monologue or interviews with guests . His detachment and lack of emotion, especially during crucial topics like whether he reached out to Conan was off-putting to many.

Had he sounded more emotional, more inflected and less distant, perhaps he could have persuaded more of those viewers who were on Team Conan and received a more positive reaction.

OPRAH’S HARD HITTING QUESTIONS LEFT JAY UNEASY

Jay’s interview with Oprah was perhaps the most difficult  thing he ever had to do in his entire career  and it clearly showed.

Having the tables turned where he was in the hot seat was clearly uncomfortable for him.  You could see it throughout  the interview. Unlike his interviews with his own guests,  which are peppered with humor and lightheartedness, the tone of this serious  interview was the complete opposite.

There was no pussyfooting around as Oprah got right to the  guts of the matter. She  went straight for the jugular with her hard hitting blunt questioning.  Jay was clearly uncomfortable. His body language confirmed it.

JAY’S BODY LANGUAGE TELLS OF DISCOMFORT

The lengthy pause time that he used to think up an answer, his lack of eye contact with Oprah, his looking down, raised eyebrows, shoulder shrugs, hand on chin, hand over mouth often saying “you know” as a signal for Oprah’s approval, eye squints, nose wrinkling, and use of analogy to deflect the true heart felt emotion of what happened, were all signals that Jay was out of his element and comfort  zone.

His constant looking away and looking down often reflected his embarrassment and discomfort.

The main tells of Jays hand over his mouth or on his chin indicated that he was holding back and didn’t want to be there or talk about what had happened. Jay also held on to his legs throughout the interview which indicated that he was bracing himself for the upcoming difficult questioning that laid ahead of him.

NOT REACHING OUT TO ‘FRIEND” CONAN DOES  NOT  SIT WELL WITH VIEWERS

Oprah asked Jay, “Were you and Conan friends?” Jay replied “Yes,”  ”We talked many times” after those transition talks in 2004.

Oprah also asked Jay if he reached out to Conan.

Jay was clearly taken aback by this question as  you see him squint his eyes and crinkle of up nose, indicating he knows he probably should have reached out right away, but was embarrassed by having to admit that he  did not do it.

There is an uncomfortable pause by Jay  and when Oprah in a surprised tone asks “why?  He is clearly not prepared to answer “why” he didn’t reach out. That is why you see his  face  squint and his eyes close, indicating that he really didn’t want to answer that question.  He goes ahead and answers the question in fragmented sentences which further  indicates that he was unprepared with his answer.

Subsequently, Jay  answered  that he wanted to “ let things cool down.” He puts his hand out as he says this, which is a distancing gesture.  His shoulder shrug also shows that he is uncomfortable with what he said as he immediately adds “ maybe we’ll talk.”

This was NOT the right answer to endear him to viewers. As savvy as Jay is,  he clearly knew it was not the right thing to say.  But he was being honest about his not wanting to directly confront  a heated, emotional,  and difficult  situation and no doubt have his emissaries handle it on his behalf.

He then looked sheepish with his raised eyebrows and the lowered volume of his now meeker sounding voice  as he continued to speak.  His interjection of the phrase “you know” said twice  (once at the end with head nod) indicated he wanted Oprah’s approval as he speaks . Usually when people say “ you know” they want your approval that you are with them in knowing and identifying with  what they are saying.

Oprah was clearly not giving Jay any signals of approval. Instead, her questions indicated that she was probing deeper and deeper.  Viewers were definitely  not approving  of the fact that Jay did not personally reach out to his “friend” as he did in 2004.

It was disturbing to viewers  that Jay reached out when he was on the losing end of the equation back in 2004, but no longer saw the need to reach out when he was no on the winning end of the equation in 2010.

ADMITTING  CONAN’S JOKE’S HURT IN A ROUNDABOUT WAY

Oprah asked Jay” Was anything Conan said about you hurtful?”  He paused and looked away, trying to come up with the right answer for the audience. But his body language betrays him.

The fact that he paused for so long, indicated that of course it hurt him in terms of what Conan said about him. That pause time indicates that he is trying to come up with an answer. Then he looks up  and with a flat affect tries to  minimize  the hurt that it obviously caused him.

He didn’t say “yes it hurt” or “no it didn’t hurt.” Instead, in a monotone expression says” they were jokes.“

Oprah, being the expert interviewer that she is probed even deeper by asking” So the jokes don’t hurt you?”

He looked up  to show his clear discomfort with the probe. As he answers Oprah his eyes are closed at times and  he looks away as a means of distancing himself .  Instead of admitting that the jokes do indeed hurt,  he depersonalizes  it by taking in the third person by saying “That’s what we do.”

He then uses  the analogy of being a fighter, not look in Oprah’s direction as he speaks. He said “You get punched in the head. Did it hurt? Yeah, it hurt but you’re a fighter.”

So in a roundabout way, Jay admitted that Conan’s jokes did hurt like a punch hurts a fighter. Another comedian’s verbal punches can hurt just as badly as fists.

Perhaps it was Jay’s attempt to seem like he was in control and not let anyone see his vulnerability. But showing his vulnerability would have made him sound a lot less defensive  and more endearing.

JAY NEEDED TO COME ON STRONGER INSTEAD OF VICTIM LIKE IN ADMITTING IT WASNT HE WHO WAS CALLING THE SHOTS BUT THE NETWORK

When Oprah said America has taken sides “And a lot of people are not on your side. And they’re not on your side because they think that you have been selfish in this. Do you see in any way how you’ve been selfish? They think that you took the job away from Conan.”

Instead of Jay saying in a very animated  and passionate vocal tone NO I AM NOT SELFISH.  It was not my call. It was the network’s call and their decision to do what they did and I am just an employee, so to call me selfish and blaming Conan losing has job because of me is unfair! Just like the network did with me years ago, they did the same with Conan.! So it wasn’t me who is responsible for Conan not having a show not ME ! “ Jay was too low key and matter of fact in his delivery.

Jay also talked way too much and became way too defensive. He replied, “”It all comes down to numbers in show business. This is almost the perfect storm of bad things happening. You have two hit shows — ‘Tonight Show’ No. 1 and Conan No. 1. You move them both to another situation. And what are the odds that both would do extremely poorly? If Conan’s numbers had been a little bit higher, it wouldn’t even be an issue. But in show business, there’s always somebody waiting in the wings. Being me.”

“I never expected this to happen. People think you’re behind the scenes, pulling strings. “”There’s no strings to pull. I have a show that’s been canceled. So why would I have any power to go, ‘Oh, I want that.’”

10 THINGS JAY NEEDED TO DO AND SAY DURING THE INTERVIEW

Perhaps Oprah’s polls would have then yielded a different result if Jay:

1. Had displayed more verbal and vocal passion.
2. Had more direct eye contact with Oprah throughout the interview
3. Was not afraid to shed a tear or a vocal crack as he did for a millisecond at the beginning of the interview
4. Had called Conan  or  even said he had a call into Conan
5. Had he shown more facial emotion to express how sad he was for Conan’s situation
6. Had he spoken directly to the audience and explained how badly he felt about this whole ordeal
7. Had he taken the audiences point of view and stated how he could understand how they might feel the way they do about him.
8. Had he not sounded so defensive and victim-like at times during the interview.
9. Had he promised that he would do his best when his new show debuts and with confidence assured  people  that they would have a new experience to look forward to
10. Had he made the offer to have Conan on his new show and not have Oprah ask the question.

The bottom line is as Jay said at the end of the interview, he is only a highly paid employee and not an owner. Therefore, unlike Oprah who is an owner of a show, Jay had no say in the decision. He was simply offered his old job back and he took it. As an employee he knows that if his ratings fail, he is out the door. Unfortunately this message did not get a across to those who took Oprah’s post show poll because of Jay’s  facial language, body language, and lack of vocal passion and animation.

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Casey Anthony’s Body Language in Court Reflects Phony Non- Tears, Fake Sniffles, and An Empty Apology

CASEY’S ENTRANCE

Casey Anthony  entered the courtroom with a nauseating smirk. The smirk and smile did not leave this  sociopath’s face as she looked “excited” to have all the attention focus on her. She was wide-eyed and consistently maintained her smile, as she finally said to Andrea Lyons “I’m excited.”

Even though the sound wasn’t up for anyone to hear, my Utley lip-reading skills that I learned about as an undergraduate speech pathology major, back in the day,  stood me well.

I was able to read Casey’s lips as she mouthed those words, as she smiled all the while. At first, I didn’t believe that I actually read those words on her lips, so I rewound the video. Low and behold, my eyes were not playing tricks on me after all.  She definitely spoke those words. I was even more nauseated and disgusted by Casey Anthony then ever before.

EXCITED ???????EXCITED ABOUT WHAT???

Was Casey EXCITED by the fact :

1. that she stole money from her  best friend and ran  up her bills and was now on trial for doing that ?

that  she is now a full  fledged felon????

that she is the center of attention?

that she had some lines to memorize, courtesy of “screenwriters” Andrea Lyon and Jose Baez and didn’t want to flub those well rehearsed lines during her verbal  acting debut in court.

that she had her lines down pat and was excited to recite them in court???

All of the above ???

VOCAL “TELL”S OF DECEPTION

When anyone is not being forthright or sincere, you can hear it in their voice.

One of the main “tells” is that pitch of their voice raised, It goes up an octave or two like you just heard in this video when Casey spoke.

Her high-pitched voice was a far “cry” (we’ll get to the crying bit in a moment)) from the lower tones we all heard while she was sending officers on that infamous wild goose chase and when she was telling them about the fictious” Zanny the Nanny.”

Next, when someone is not being sincere or forthright, you hear the voice closing off and cracking. It is the vocal muscles way of shutting itself off from the obvious lie.

THE BODY’S GIVEAWAY COMPLETE WITH UNCONTROLLED HEAD JERK AND GULP

In Casey’s case, you even see this visually. As she speaks a few words, out of the blue, her head jerks itself  back.

In essence it is her body’s visceral reaction to her lies and rehearsed lines and insincerity. You even see her gulp. Her vocal muscles are betraying her and staring to close off as she recites her ”bullshit”  (sorry, if I offended anyone by saying “bullshit” but that is the only word that best describes what was going on here.)

When she says “I take full and complete responsibility”  with her raised eyebrows it is a clear signal of deception and a clear indication that she is saying something she does not believe at all.

When Casey says “I’d like to sincerely apologize to Amy , and wipes away a non tear on her cheek you can see right then and there it is a fake apology.  There was no tear so why was she flicking away a tear before one emerge?

It was because of what came next. Her following rehearsed line was “I wish I would have been a better friend.” Puhleeeeeeez.  Then we see more fake non tears and the book hooing it. The cracking of the voice when she says this shows how the body is closing off as it doesn’t want to speak those lying words.

Casey was only a friend to Casey. Casey only thought about Casey. The only friend Casey could have is a friend she could use, manipulate  and of whom she could take complete advantage.

One more thing, you see a lot of upper chest breathing in this non apology Casey made This is the body working overtime and trying to oxygenate itself. She is” excited” at having to perform and this is her body’s way of trying to maintain a homeostatic balance in the body. It is also an indication that she was clearly not being sincere in what she was saying.

INSINCERE TONE AND FACIAL TELLS

There was no sincerity to her apology as indicated by her voice tone. It sounded like she was asking a question with her upward inflection. Her raised eyebrows indicated that it was new information that her body was processing.

It was foreign to her system and as a result her body language reacted in a questioning manner, complete with raised eyebrows and upward inflection. Her body and her system was not used to this foreign experience  of apologizing or taking  responsibility for anything. This was no doubt the first time she ever did anything like that and it clearly showed in her body language.

JOSE BAEZ LOOKS ON LIKE A PROUD PAPPA AS HE MAKES SURE SHE DOESN’T FLUB HER  LINES

As Casey was reciting her lines of bullshit, Jose Baez’s eyes did not leave Casey’s face. He looked like a proud papa at a grade school play, making sure that his kid didn’t flub her lines. Casey may have memorized her lines and not flubbed them verbally, but she sure flubbed them vocally and body language wise.

LIP PURSING AT THE END OF HER BS REHEARSED SPEECH

Whenever you see someone purse their lips after they tell you something, they are usually lying. It’s the body’s way of closing off.  That is what Casey did. She pursed her lips after her rehearsed lines.

CASEY’S “ SIX STEP BOO HOO RITIUAL” COMPLETE WITH  NON TEARS, NON MUCOUS, FAKE AUDIBLE SNIFFLES, AND HAIR TOUCHING

If listening to Casey’s fake apology wasn’t bad enough, it was even worse having to endure looking  at her obsessive ritualistic behavior in the courtroom with regard to her boo hooing it. Here is what she does:

1 She wipes away non tears either with her finger or with a kleenex

2. There is no facial distress often associated with tears.

3. Then she looks at her finger or her kleenex for non- liquid that comes out of her non- tears.

4. Then she sniffles audibly so that everyone can hear her.

5. Then she dabs the non- mucous and non- liquid from her nose where she makes her fake sniffle noises

6. Then she touches her hair, pats it or flips it.

She  repeats this ritual ad nauseum.

JOSE IS SOOOO OVER CASEY’S FAKE TEARS HE IGNORES HER, BUT ANDREA PLAYS MAMMA HEN

As soon as  Casey sat down after her rehearsed bullshit  apology, Andrea Lyons  acted like the mother hen as she put her arm around Casey. Casey ignored Andrea’s  nurturing and maternal attempts as Casey began her Six Step Boo Hoo Ritual  complete with non tear wiping and tissue examining.

My Utley Lip Reading Skills were used once again as Andrea mouths the words to Casey asking her is she was OK? Casey ignores Andrea and continues her ritual, Andrea asks her again and Casey is way too busy with her ritual to answer. She finally nods her head as if to indicate she is OK after her rehearsed “apology” debut.

Casey’s non- answer speaks volumes. It shows how very much into herself she is and how self- absorbed she is.

Meanwhile Jose could care less. He’s seen it all before. He’s heard it all before. He’s hip to the fake tears  and fake sniffles. He doesn’t even look at her.

At first he used to be very attentive to Casey—maybe too attentive! Now he would never think of comforting her let alone touching her. That’s the last think he needs to deal with in regard to this Casey Case.

There was a point where Jose has his hand on his forehead as if to nonverbally say” how did I get myself into this mess representing this sociopath next to me with her fake tears. I wish she’d stop already. I told her to show some emotion but this is ridiculous already!”

Then Jose’s hand leaves his forehead and his hands now appear on his desk in a lawyerly stance. He back to the reality of defending this miscreant and probably thinking “ What the heck, it’s been good PR for my career. I’ve got to do everything possible to defend her because everyone in the world is watching  me”

CASEY’S ICE FACE

Halfway through the tape around 13.00 you see the real Casey Anthony up close and personal. You see what I call her ICE FACE. There  is no reaction. It is scary to look at. It is devoid of emotion. It is for lack of a better word”creepy.” Her ice face reflects what is really going on inside of her- nothing!

There is no reaction except for some grooming behaviors where she pats her hair or straightens her collar.These grooming behaviors reflect her narcissism and  wanting to look good to others- something sociopaths often do.

CINDY ANYTHONY’S  TEAR WIPING AND LOOKING AT HER OWN HANKIE

The apple does not fall from the tree. Cindy Anthony does the same thing Casey does, except her tears are probably  a bit more real than Casey’s. They may be tears of guilt for letting her sociopathic daughter run her all these years and  stear from her and her own mother (Casey’s grandmother) not putting a stop to Casey’s aberrant  behaviors.

They may be tears of reality that her daughter is now a convicted felon and that this little court date will be a piece of cake compared with what is in store in the murder trial.

The bottom line is that no matter what kind of tears Cindy had, she too examined them just like Casey does.

GEORGE DOESN’T RESPOND TO CINDY’S I LOVE YOU” IN THE COURTROOM

George looked like a miserable mess with puffy eyes so you know his tears were for real.

My Ultey Lipreading Skills came into use once again as Cindy as she mouthed the words to her husband George- “I love you.” He didn’t respond.  He didn’t say I love you too or I love you back, He said nothing and looked ahead.

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OSE BAEZ’ BODY LANGUAGE LEAKED THAT HE DIDN’T BELIEVE CASEY WAS   TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR HER ACTIONS

Watching and hearing Casey speak and watching her fake boo hoos in the courtroom and her  ritualistic behavior were both sickening and maddening.

It was maddening to see the obvious manipulation by the attorneys in making her apologize to Amy for not being a better friend. Puhleeze!

What was even more maddening was when Jose Baez (whom I must admit does look rather dapper and handsome and does try to maintain his professional composure  through his  well spoken sonorous voice)  spoke to reporters outside the courtroom. He  continued his manipulation as the cameras were pointed at him. But no matter how clever or convincing he thought he was being, he clearly leaked out his true thoughts and feelings  the end.

As his final words said that Casey’s apology showed that she was taking responsibility for her actions, his head shook ‘NO” when it should have been nodding “YES ” in the affirmative. So Jose’s body language betrayed him. It revealed that he knows very well  that sociopaths NEVER take responsibility for their actions.

He knows very well that he put those  words of apology  in her mouth for her to regurgitate.

While Casey  may have regurgitated  his words, no matter how many times she rehearsed them, her body language and voice spoke the truth! Her apology was insincere and contrived! www.drlillianglass.com